I recall some years ago, after a terrible,hurtful divorce, becoming extremely fearful of sex.Indeed of any interaction with  the opposite sex. After a while the urge returned, but the fear did not dissipate. I called on one of the services advertised in a well known magazine, and met with the provider.I attempted to explain what had been going on in my past with the provider, but she  apparently was totally disinterested as she  disrobed.When  it came time for "Little Willie  to grow up" nothing happened. Rather than  having some empathy, the provider looked at the situation as boring, and at me as if I were some sort  of  dysfunctional freak.(Never mind the fact that I  a nice lookingfellow, in excellent shape) As I tried again to explain my situation to her, and at least  "Talk it out",with her,the  lady  began to  dress, and tell me that we were wasting each others time.It was a devastating experience.dating was not  an otion, as I feared I would disappoint my datewhen it got  close to even touching each other....  It took  another year, before I  attempted to  contact another provider, however, this time, I came upon an understanding  young lady,who was willing to listen, and seemed extremely enlightened.We talked a while,and fear seemed to dissipate. Notwithstanding, I stood erect, and marched right into action.  My question, therefore is: How many ladies have encountered  such situations, and what is their opinion, as to  handling such encounters?. There are many wounded souls out there, and an understanding  lady  may make a world of difference.
Just thought I'd share the experience.