About 4 times a week for me, but I'm not married.  I see only 3 gals, but one considerably more than the other 2.  I have a better sex life with these 3 than I ever had with a girl friend, but, as we all know, it doesn't come cheaply.

Once a week, minimum.

Once or twice a month with my ATF and try to throw in 1 - 2 more times a month with a variety of several providers to keep it interesting. Always on the lookout for a new fairly priced superstar. My hobbying has intensified since I started using V.

Once a month give or take a few days, depending on how business has been. But i don't do 1 hour dates. Normally 2 hours or now and then dinner and desert.

I have a couple of favorites I've seen for over a year.  I try to visit them each once a month,sometimes twice.  So I indulge 3-4 times per month at the most.  There are times, due to schedule conflicts, I only get out a couple of times in a month.  I try to pace myself.  There's only so much time and money.