a guy wants to pay for a weekend with me
umm call me stupid but what exactly would we do for a weekend

like what are some normal experiences
do we go out to theatre and stuff like that
or is he expecting to stay in and have sex for 2 days straight

i think i must be either the biggest bore, or the biggest idiot
cause i just don't know what we'd do for that length of time, lol
wouldn't it be kinda awkward?

hmmm.. Saw your pictures.. I think I could find something to occupy our time

SaveAHo

That's all I've done are multiple night "dates." Not really into the one hour thing too much.

Have you been with this guy before? If not, then yes, it may be a bit uncomfortable. Spend some time e-mailing each other before hand. Make sure you want to try to spend a couple days together.

If you've been with him, then you shoud know if he is interesting enough to spend the weekend with.

Sex for 48 hours straight? It's doubtful. This is some of what I've done with the girls I took: gamble, shows, dinner, night clubs, parties, shopping, walks on beaches, talking, etc. You get the idea.

Find out what he is planning too. That should help give you an idea.

Like crownand7 I have lately just done 3-4 day stays largely with my ATF but I had a girl before I had done  2 overnights with.

With that girl (amy) we would sex when she arrived, then go out for dinner and some fun, have sex when we got back, sleep, wake up and have sex, breakfast, went to a theme park in Orlando, came back for a fashion show, pictures then off to catch her plane.  Second time took her to New Orleans for overnight.  Connected with her flight so drove in with her had sex, then dinner, Bourbon Street, sex, sleep, AM sex, breakfast, catch the plane.

The first time I took my current ATF overnight was 24hr deal. (had seen her twice before for one hour sessions) She got in at around 1pm.  We had sex, then dinner and a show.  I made the mistake of taking her to a business convention so we basically had to hid in the hotel room.  Came back and had sex, stayed uo all night talking and listening to music, sex in am, breakfast then on to the plane.

Next trip two days, went out for dinner both nights sightseeing in the afternoon. Clubbing and dancing in the evening.
Next trip over night in NYC was more of a sex marathon, withthe exception of seeing a broadway show we were having sex with ourselves or with a girlfriend of hers the whole time except for about 3 hours of much needed sleep.
Next trip 3 days basically same routine except in Vegas so we went to the Cirque du Soleil (great show)
Last trip 2 days for Halloween went to an NBA game, a swing club costume party, a museum, an outdoor park and one night clubbing.

My ATF is more of a paid companion than sex slave but we average out sex 3 times a day which is a little more than with her other regulars.  We are comfortable with each other, have fairly common interests and are not afraid to be seen out in public with each other since we are rarely in the town each one of us lives in.

What you do is really dependent on how well you know the guy you are going with and what he wants to do for fun and whether she wants to do it with you.  My ATF says when she goes with a guy on a golf trip, she stays in the hotel while they golf, she only does stuff with them in the evening.  I suppose I am cheap, I have a limited amount of time to spend with my ATF and even if I am not having sex with her, I would still rather spend the time with her than with three of my friend out on the golf course (I love golf by the way)

OK more than you really wanted, talk to him, find out what you have in common outside of bed, plan to do those things, have fun!

thank you so much for that reply, that is exactly what I wanted actually, i needed detils like that to tell me what can be expected. Anyway all those trips sound like alot of fun, lol
i've never seen this guy before and we live in the same state and he wants the weekend to be in our state. But I don't go to anyones house (i don't do outcalls normally) and I can't have overnights at my place because i have roommmates it would be awkward for that length of time.

Wow, besides the part about golf (which I dislike), I could have written that posting. Even down to the broadway show and clubbing in NYC.

I prefer multiple day outings, or at least an entire evening, to an hour meeting. The only one or two hour meetings I have are my way of introducing myself to a new provider, to see if a longer time is warranted. To me it isn't just about sex, it's about somebody to be with, talk with, experience new things with.

Oh, and sex isn't bad either!

Sometimes I do have work mixed in, and the provider has time to shop, sightsee, visit friends, or other activities. Usually, however, we are spending the entire time together.

I very much enjoy it with travel, domestic or international. It's fun! (Sometimes it's so fun that it's at a vanishingly reduced rate, although I always take care of accomodations and travel expenses.) If it's somebody that you can't have fun with, or worry about having fun with, don't do it until you are comfortable.

The only suggestion I can make is make sure that you see or at least meet the person in a shorter meeting timeframe before agreeing to spend a longer time with him.  There may be something that causes you two to not "connect" and the whole weekend might be ruined because of this.

To me, a weekend or longer trip is for someone that I know I get along with for stuff OTHER than sex.  I'd only ask someone whom I had seen for at least a couple of shorter visits, or perhaps a dinner date with before.  At my age, I am only capable of sex maybe 2-3 times a day.  So what do we do during the other 20-22 hours we're together each day?  Hopefully, you have common interests, and enjoy each other's company outside of the bedroom.  If not, it's going to be a VERY long couple of days.

I wouldn't consider it.  I had a friend who scheduled 2-3 days with a provider he had never met.  He prepaid her and it was a disaster.  He sent her home after one night, never got his money back and she is still hassling him (for reasons unclear since she was paid all upfront for less than 12hours work)

I am going to do an overnight next month with someone who I have not slept with.  BUT, I have met this woman, she was someone else's date while I was with my ATF and we had dinner with her, went to a show with her, and had a loong conversation with her while her date did some male bonding thing with another guy (wierd).  I had a great time so I know the other stuff is covered and this woman is hot and even better looking than my ATF.  Her speciality is picking up civilian women for threesomes  so I am not worried in the least.

You should definitely meet this guy before going anywhere with him.  It will save you and him a lot of embarrassement if you met for an hour or so to get to know each other a little better and figure out what you want to do with the rest of the time.