I've had all of 4 provider experiences to date, the first two were great, wonderful fun, the last two mediocre. All but one an incall and all but that one at the same time of day. The were all supposed to be GFE.

In the two great experiences, the providers were open, warm and friendly at the door and as I stepped in I naturally gave them a small friendly kiss on the lips, which they seemed to really welcome. The next two experiences I nver got a chance to even get that close, as I was greeted with a handshake, of all things. That killed it right there for me. A hug, a friendly hello with a smile would have been fine, but a _____ handshake?

IF I'm clean, neat, on time, put together, friendly, and don't have three heads, at least a provider should try to be warm and friendly at first contact for what I'm paying. I realize the laws of personal "chemistry" rule the universe etc.., but curious for useful feedback from providers and other hobbyists.

Your experience with a handshake at the door may seem a little cold, but some providers are just being extra careful these days because of LE. If it is her first time spending time with you, she wants to make sure you shed (pardon the pun) light on everything first before she gets really comfortable with you. On the other hand, a provider can always give a hug, while voicing outloud a "thank you for giving me a hug" which means the man/possible LE would be the advancer if being taped (God forbid). The song "Times -- they are a changin'" is true. Good luck in your next adventure and peace be with you, sweetie.

Hugs,
Ciara

Some of my best sessions have been with ladies who first greeted me with a handshake at the door, but I got a warm hug and kiss when I left.  That helped make me return.  I think a kiss and hug at the door are a bit pretentious, unless we already know one another via a previous appointment or exchange of messages involving real interaction.  One of my best experiences involved the attractive lady looking into my eyes at the door, then taking me by the hand and leading me into her living room to the couch, sitting down beside me, making small talk briefly, and then beginning a fantastic make out session that led onto magnificent love making.  It was so GFE, that I nearly forgot to leave the envelope upon departure.