for details in emails about services..you should no better. I just had to reject a gentleman who has been wanting to see me for a while who is a reviewer on TER because he wanted to know what was included in a session with me. I had to hit the delete button.

I would have thought that was an unwritten rule..oh well, maybe I have it all wrong..or he does. And he wanted complete discretion with his information.

Just read something on the Legal Corner where a guy got busted by LE, and he had mentioned specific acts in an email, though no mention of sex in general. Not certain if they got a copy or not, but not smart!

Most ladies have everything they want a guy to know, beforehand, in their ad, or on their website. Any further discussion happens between the sheets.

Exactly....pity but them's the breaks.

I have reviews on here and a website but only post under this handle. I prefer to remain as anonymous as I can on this board so I can feel free to be me and not have any conflict with my business.

I see a few gentlemen from this board and they have no idea who I am...and I like it that way. Something similar to guys who don't/won't give out their TER handle to ladies. Keeps things tidy.

that there are many ladies who just post that they are GFE and nothing else on the website.  With every lady now claiming GFE on their websites, it is hard to determine if they really are.  I don't condone someone sending an email and asking what GFE activities a lady will do, they should know better.  Pay the VIP $ and read the reviews.  But I can sympathize with those guys who are trying to nail down a lady's GFE definition even after reading the reviews and contacting other hobbyists.

I am using an alias when I post on here...what's your deal with that?

I see your point but will ALWAYS hit the delete button.

No, she has (apparently) just opted to not link her membership to her reviews...  just as all newly reviewed providers start out.

until it's whispered between the sheets!
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that constitutes an admission against interest.

The best we've got is reviews and that is usually more than good enough if she has much a history and you know how to read / evaluate / weight the reviews.

Hell - there's YMMV anyway....

You are correct.

Cannot be evaluated under your current handle.
I assume that the reviewer found your review profile, and therefor should not have had to ask.

I have no deal with it. I was just curious. I post under alias, so why should I care that you hide your profile?

the act of meeting. In addition, I have never discussed or written about anything to do with money.

It's worked OK for me. It should work for everyone.

Then again, every once in a great awhile, I don't get exactly what I'd hoped for. But that's true for just about any kind of service I seek.

More than likely LB has a regular TER profile with reviews and a web site, and they may even be linked in some way. And even if all her ads say is GFE, well, you pay the price and you take your chances.

LB is a righteous poster and I respect her choice to not have her opinions in her posts bleed over into, or affect, her business.

Her anonymity kinda makes me want to jump her bones

It depends how the question is framed and what kind of language is used. Sometimes I ask "if we can share two cups of tea during a one hour meeting". Only because I've had to many experiences where I'm rushed out the door after 20mins after having paid for an entire hour. If people do not want to reply to such coded language, so be it...

There are many providers with "O" reviews anywhere. I've even seen a lady in my area advertising for $$$$ = 1 hour and said she never wants to be reviewed by any of her clients but she claims to be No. 1 GFE.

Now when you charge $$$$ and you do not have reviews, and have no service menu ... looks like a scam to me. Any experience hobbyist will need to clarify that.  If not, you're a naive hobbyists.

Sorry but the "don't ask don't tell" will only work if the provider has more than 3 years experience and has more than 8 reviews.

I even ask the provider her age. You know why? I saw a provider sayin she's 27 and when I asked her, she said 32. THANKS GOODNESS... Glad I did, I want younger types and didn't want the age being offered, which was 5 years older than advertised.  ASK ASK ASK, if there is a need to ask.

It should go the other way too.

I had a provider text me and tell me that she didn't have any condoms and that I should pick up some. This was while I was on the way to see her (She was from CL and I had never met her before.) I didn't respond to the text and she texted the same thing a second time.


Stupid me still went and saw her anyways and I explained to her that was a bad idea to do that and she shouldn't worry about me not being prepared anyways.

Even more hilarious: I went to see her a second time and she didn't have any condoms and she texted the same thing to me yet again!

I said no prob, I have a brand new untouched 3 pak (TRUE).  She then told me she needed a 12 pak, for the two dates she had after me! LOL  Of course this explained why dinner and drinks after that we had planned got suddenly canceled.  When I got there with her 12 pak, I told her that would be 12 bucks.  She just looked at me and said "ya rite".  So I repled that I would just stay until I used all 12 of them then.
Even more hilarious is the fact that after all that BS, it was one of the hottest ass dates I have ever had, and she became one of my fav ladies. She's never forgot 'em since LOL

It would not be hard to do.  Otherwise you would have mentioned the lack of a link instead of saying it was an "alias".

I had a Fav lady call me on the road to see her to pick some up covers.  I was already on the road, miles from my area & had to get off the highway to find them...  and ended up with some basic which is not what I prefer.  All this made me late, of course.  If my schedule was tight, it would have ruined everything.  After that I began bringing my own which I would buy & stash a day or 2 ahead...  at my convenience.

Point taken..thank you.