I enjoy doing Greek on occasion, especially with a lady who is really into it, but I would never pay extra for the privilege. MQ
Ok, so I gave anal sex a shot (no pun intended) . Perhaps its more effective without a condom, but obviously,not prudent . In any case, I did not find the experience much different than vaginal sex.... and certainly not worth the additional $$$. any other feelings on the subject would be appreciated.
FH
Been there, done that and I agree w/you but because of the way it's pushed in the porn world and the fact that it's still considered taboo it remains the forbidden fruit. Like anything, it's just something different. Think of all the money you're saving because you won't have to pay for that option!
I agree too, it wasnt anything too special. I will still do it just because it gives me the sense of kinky. If a provider is willing to do that maybe she is just overall more exciting in the sack. But no I would pay extra for it either. -Joel
While I have never had the opportunity to participate in greek, like most sexual activities, the fun of it is the effect it has on my partner. In other words, if it gets her off, then it will probably get me off. Wouldn't even consider doing it to someone who didn't like it.
Likewise for oral sex. If she doesn't (seem to) enjoy going down on me, then it won't be nearly as much fun as if she does.
Depends on recipient AND atmosphere. In a PSE-like context, I don't find it interesting. For me it's not the "kinky" aspect but the "very personal" aspect that is intriguing. Have your all-time favorite GFE provider whisper in your ear that there's something "different" that's she's been fantasizing about doing with you lately, and your knees will buckle. Slow, sensual, and in creative positions, it can be really great.
one one hand, there are those who will do greek for the money but would just as soon not have a foreign object in their posterior, on the other hand there are those are turned on by it but would prefer to be compensated all the same, and on the third hand there are those rare types who are seriously into it.
The ones who like it-love it say they experience it as a different orgasm from a vaginal/clitoral orgasm. An anal orgasm has different vocalizations, especially a really strong one. Where vaginal orgasm may have a spontaneous vocal wail or kind of a howling cry, the anal orgasm will often have a deeper throaty gasp to it, almost a hoarse growl. With the real thing, she seems further gone, more blasted away by it.
Keep the lube bottle handy, silicone lube highly recommended,
as the colon absorbs lube rapidly and you get too much friction in minutes.
Those who aren't into the idea of a penis frequently don't mind a finger or a thumb. The more openminded will allow a thumb to slide in while daty is applied above. Better than inserting it and letting it sit with nothing to do, the thumb can be slightly bent and gently rotated around the inside of the anus. Done carefully this can be exquisitely erotic. With the right body type, you can GENTLY feel arount the inside surface of the tailbone through the thin wall of the colon, rather like playing with the inside of a large seashell. I've unintentionally detonated a tailbone orgasm or two this way. They are long lasting and may be so intense you wonder what you've gotten yourself into, so make sure you've got the time to play it out.
Or you can insert one finger in the anus and one in the vagina and play with the membranes between the two with little circular motions, then slowly draw your fingers in and out across the perineum, what the chi gong people call the *hui yin*
Or, if she has a compact rear and your arms are long, you can have vaginal sex while inserting your finger into her anus and play with yourself across the membrane. This is a pretty good way to go if she doesn't mind, because you can get exactly the stimulation you want, and she gets to feel you relating to yourself, so other aspects of body to body communication are happening.
But, make sure you have a nice big bottle of silicone lube, a full bottle of Purell hand sanitizer gel to wipe your hands down the minute you pull them out of the nether portal, and a box of man sized kleenex sitting on the bet next to you.
Women will hit you out of the blue with the anal urge sometimes. One evening at my local favorite spot, I had an hour with a very lean sexual woman who loved to do stuff like dig her fingernail in exactly as we were coming, one step short of drawing blood, hey, fingernail dragging is an art form within a larger art form. We knew each other from once before. She liked her money, but she never let that get in the way of dirty sex.
I was massaging her with gusto and moved down to her butcheeks and pulled them apart vigorously with the palms of my hands, like seperating the sections of a large grapefruit. She said oooohhhh yeaaaah and didn't need to say anything more. Whew!!!
memorable.
if you've got adventures on your mind which might require the use of your hands or fingers.... which, btw, will be the sexiest part of your body if you know how to use them... play smart, keep your nails short, filed, smooth. I discovered a hand softening cream called Carmol20 (a otc version of carmol40) at one eighth the price. If you put on a little dab of Carmol twice a day for a few days before setting out to play, and make sure your hands are well moisturized immediately before you head over, you will get permission to go places and do things that won't be granted to gentlemen with hard or rough hands. You will be visiting some spots which are exceedingly delicate and loaded with nerve endings. There may not be much between your fingertips and the nerve endings in question, thus make sure your fingers are nearly as soft as the places you want to go.
My ATF does include greek in her service.I have never tried it but would like to.I keep waiting to be invited,but she hasn't done that yet. Is there a tactful way to ask or hint?
Also in response to seventhson,isn't it unsafe to insert a bare finger up there? I do tease on the edges,but haven't gone there.
The reason being is that once she gave me a prostrate massage and used a condom.
keep you fingernails short and filed. Hands well moisturized, use the right lube. Baby oil is too light and the water based vanish quickly. Usually they wait for you to bring it up then might mention what their additional charge is. Typically there is an additional charge that runs from a low of $50 to a high of $200, unless she is one of those who really loves it and builds it into her practice. I have never been asked to pay for a finger or a thumb, these happen in the heat of the moment. Anal maggage is a great way to, um, open up the subject. Wonderful to give and to receive. The only explicit anal massage instructional materials I know of (i.e. how to do a correct external anal massage, not porn) is from The New School Of Erotic Touch... yup, this place exists(ed?) in Oakland, CA... was heavily tilted towards gay interests... well, FWIW, they have a video called Rosebud Massage....
"This is a tutorial in anal massage by Chester Mainard, the most well-known teacher of anal massage in the world. Here he shows us five categories of strokes on the anal sphincters -- the rosebud."
The rosebud ? Whatever, fella... maybe get her a copy and see what she does with the idea ?
I enjoy doing Greek on occasion, especially with a lady who is really into it, but I would never pay extra for the privilege. MQ
Well apparently this isn't at all a "new" fad. It was faddish among the French aristocracy during the time of the Marquis de Sade, (go figure!) who was born in 1740.
(That's according to A&E, who would never lie!)
-Anya
Like there is a reason why that muscle clinches so tight....
Anal sex is a waste of a perfectly good p*ssy!
My experieces with anal have been stellar. But when it gets right down to it, I much prefer the feel of straight sex... Who woulda thought?
From person to person.
I think for many people the appeal of anal sex is not so much the physical sensation, but the mental stimulation... the taboo... the very intimate penetration... the whole "dirty" aspect of it.
I've heard that contrary to vaginal penetration where the penis feels encased along its entire length, anal penetration is a very tight ring and then *openness*... different anatomy in there!
But the bottom (hehe) line is that it's just like anything else... different strokes for different folks!
Hugs*
Nicole
(and I paraphrase, his own words are much more eloquent)
the vagina is not cylindrical like the penis; the anus however is exactly the right shape. therefore which hole makes the more physical sense??
Or something like that.
Whilst I'm on the subject of the Marquis, the funniest thing in all his stories is his euphemism for cumming - he "pollutes".
some of the best orgasms ive ever had came from greek. it couldve been because i was with a crazy catholic girl who was doing the "madonna-whore" thing, but it was much tighter and, from behind, those couple of inches difference, along with the angle, made it unforgettable and, sadly however, rarely repeated experience.
having had around-the-world tours myself (sadly again, rarely repeated), i recall the experiences as some of the most intense.
i have a male friend who cant complete without greek--both giving and receiving
p.s. stevenson--keep up the good work!