Anyone else (guys or women) feel the same way?  You have a FABULOUS time together, usually with a regular/favorite, usually for an overnight/weekend or more, and you feel SO sad when the time is up and they are gone, and 2-4-6 weeks til the next encounter seems like an eternity!!!

We women can attempt to find satisfaction elsewhere (and though it is often great, is never quite the same as being with your ATF); guys could too, of course, but most I know haven't the time/inclination to see others.

So I especially feel for the men who are in the same predicament: busy working, unable to get away for another couple weeks.  They send sexy emails that drive you mad with desire! Such torture!!!!  Trying, really trying to exercise patience.  Thankfully someone invented the vibrator!!!

Someone once described it as "The Hobbying Hangover".

I like that analogy.
LOL!

keep in mind what this is

you also need to send your kitty to the drycleaners. It's good to have a break, then you'll miss that person and when the time comes that you're together again, it's more exciting.

Hugs,
Ciara

Although yes, we must keep in mind what this is.....there has been a time or two were I wish I could freeze the moment. You're on the right track though, keep your vibrator and batteries in hand until the time passes. ;0)

~CarleeofArizona

But mix it up. See Different girls and then you get attached to the fantasy and not the girl. For a long time I felt extremely guilty because of my SO, but then I found TER and started seeing a higher quality girl. I then discovered my guilt was in wasting money on average or below average encounters.

What if the one night stand wasn't as good as the encounter your looking forward to? Wouldn't that just kind of reinforce the situation?

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