Waitress wanting to start sessions with me)

She is trying to find a way to get time with me, however, she has a SO, who has access to her phone, i.e. knows where it is at ( .  Anybody know how to get around this road block?  Something technical to trick the location?  Yes, I'm a big boy, so, telling me the cons of such will not deter me from getting up close and personal with this cutie----heck! rather eat her than the food she serves ;P~~~~ You guys with wives, etc. do this all the time, sooo, some tips on that end will be appreciated)

Set up your hobby phone number in it,  show her how to use it and remind her to keep it separate and hidden.  

LOL)  I did this when I was married for years, as I am sure a "bunch" of other guys using this site did and still do)  I had the cover of working all over for couple days a week)  Single now having gotten out of the marriage without consequences)  It seems I am having more luck with the above ladies in their type of jobs than with the professional ladies, at the moment, that is.  No 800/1,000/hr. Not that the professional dancers, working fulltime, with all the headaches, paperwork, hiring a screener, etc., etc. that comes with the time they put in don't deserve it.    

If they are using Google Maps for location you can turn off location history easily in settings. If it's Apple, not sure but there may be a similar fix. Otherwise you leave the phone in her car or locker and and head off....

If she wants to start sessions with you, there could be other patrons too that she wants to see.. Setting up a different hobby phone can only go so far.. She can get sloppy and get busted.  Why not  just use an email to set up the meeting? It's much easier to get away with - preferably an email that doesn't automatically download on her smart phone, but she has to use the web browser on her smart phone to get to it.  It can still be gmail, but she would have to use her safari / chrome to get to it . Protonmail is much better.  

Protonmail Rocks.  Do not use the app on the mobile, access via Safari, Firefox, or whatever.

What is her motivation?   Does she just find him attractive?  Is she looking to trade up from her current SO?  Or is she looking for a Sugar arrangement to make a little extra money?  I have had some women that just wanted FWB-NSA sex, but its pretty rare.  Usually there is some kind of underlying  motivation on her part.  In other words, "What's in it for her" can have an impact on whether he should even consider doing this.  

Appreciate your response)  Note I said the job she has, poor pay for sure(  Just saw a program on those working as a waitress getting a "slave wage"---I always tip as much/more than my meal costs---this evening I gave a lil coed $50, as I did last night, and will do Saturday.  No, she is not the one in question.  The one in question does have a dead beat S/O, and I guess when I wanted to pay her a nice tip for her time, but less than the ones in this profession, she was happy to accept. I would NEVER use my good looks as a means of getting in a ladies panties)  That is what this board is all about---good pay for play.  Several years ago, I had the pleasure of helping two/roomies in college get their degrees. Their mother's told them to stop flipping burgers and become Escorts, and that is the life style I have lived---helping the wonderful ladies in this profession)  No more wives, or GFs for me)   bird....

This lady may not be savvy with seeing you on the downlow. An angry husband could be a big problem for you. Maybe a lady who isn't available on a certain day you had in mind. Can see you another time.  

in my 20's, I used to tell my friends that I expected to die young from being shot by a jealous husband.  Half-joking, half-serious.  Those were the days.  Lol

sure, she may be a ton of fun, but on the other hand, I fear this may end up like that hilarious but unfortunate situation from "Sideways," my favorite wine-tasting movie from 2004, which also involved a waitress.   cooler heads will prevail

And I am the living proof of that. Sssshhhhhhhhh!

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Fucking another man's wife is a major ego blast!  I had that arrangement with one chick for a few years.  

Gotta watch that movie)  bird...

O, YES!, I started banging a redheaded mtn girl, who said she was divorced and her X now lived in FL---'LIAR, LIAR, PANTIES ON FIRE!!!" He lived just up the street, and I got word that he was looking for the SOB now banging his X---YIKES!  He wants to test !lil ole me with his WHAT!  Shotgun!!!!  I got out of that town and have never gone back---GEEZ!  She was HAPPY, so what's the problem??? LOL

My message disappeared???  I was banging a redhead in a mtn town while in college.  She said that she was divorced, and X lived in FL---"LIAR, LIAR, PANTIES ON FIRE!!! I got word that he was NOT in FL, but living on the same street, AND he wanted to see what a big hole that bang! bang! thang of his could make in the SOB banging his X---guess he was talking about lil  ole ME(  I left that town and have never gone back!!!  Story from my military days---watching the Music Man in a theater in Oregon, when BANG! X5 JARRED ME OUT OF PAYING ATTENTION TO THE MOVIE. Seems the X to this lady, was banging her new BF, AND X was sitting behind them. He did have the curtesy to wait until his lil girl got up to go get popcorn before making a mess of that  poor guy's face/head(  Everybody jumped UP, I HIT THE DECK, as this happened about 20 feet from me(

TKS for the info...bird....

THANKS for the thought)  bird....

LMAO)

TKS, something to think about)

Point taken!!!  bird....

I think just always make arrangements in person, as I order my food)  TKS, bird....

Computer is driving me KRA, KRA!--THAT lady has not told me that I am safe to see???