Please be patient. I really do have a question here!

My last session went like this. I was with an asian provider. She was very cute in a "lucy Lu" kinda
exotic way. Only her english wasnt as good. I really have a penchant for the exotic lately. Anyway I really wanted to push the envelope of pleasure with her. Ya know she was "in control" (on top) sliding down gently kissing her way down for CBJ and then Cowboy. I changed gears by lifting up, swiveling her to mish, pulled out and kissed my way down but not really "on the mark".I kissed her gently on the inside of her legs and around the "happy place". Very softly across the mouns. and then spun her to Doggy. More kisses around her ass but not quite on the "starfish". By this time she was moaning pretty good. Light tounge action in the inside of her legs made her squirm more. Spun her back to mish and softly licked her "button" with my hand cupping her ass. I left a finger resting right between her ass and her opening being careful not to move or pulse it. By this time she was shaking and moving pretty good. Grabbed my head, pulled me up and we were back to CFS.

Question is: Is changing up like that enjoyable or frustrating? Just "bangin" does have its fun but for me slowing down and "smelling the flowers" can even make me more horny.