Stumbled across this website:  http://www.philanderers.com/

Originally thought it was yet another garbage site in which you gave them a credit card, etc.  But after poking around a bit, it appears to be a real community of people interested in EMR's (extra-marital relationships), almost the equivalent of the community over here, just a little different focus.

Fascinating chats and posts, and you can hit them for free.  Probably no one here real familiar with it, since it's a significantly different model!

Let me point out, as most of you know, that "philandering" is infinately more dangerous to existing relationships than seeing a provider.

On their web site.  Looks like a lot of it starts out as a "guy on the side" with both parties agreeing that the respective marriages will stay intact.  

But the "fresh" relationship is hotter than the 12 year marriage with 2 kids, dog, and lawn care and .... suprise!  Divorce city.   Until the new couple has a kid, a dog, and lawn care ...

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Yeah, but those types of relationships always end up in real fatal attraction fiascos