Despite variety being the spice, I like repeating because I think that you start to have real interactions with the woman and not just a show. As you can tell, I'm a GFE type, and I'm not apologizing for it. I enjoy inside jokes, no drama and the kind of trust you can develop over time so you can play stupid games like blindfolded feeding (think dark chocolate raspberry truffles followed by licking the chocolate off her tongue with a DKF, followed by some pineapple, then a few minutes later by a dick to lick blindfolded). There is a lot of laughter in addition to the sex and for me, that's very healing. That kind of relationship takes some time to build. I'm completely immature in that respect, and if you think that's wrong, STFU, it's my life.
I do see other ladies, but more as an accent to the hobby. It's for variety and a couple services my regular isn't comfortable with. Why pressure her to do something she's not comfortable with, just so she keeps me as a regular, when I can outsource? She didn't understand why she was getting reference calls from other girls until I explained it to her and told her that I had no intention of dropping her as my regular. I could see her relief. A wild guess, but I wouldn't be surprised if the ladies preferred having regulars and seeing as few new guys as possible from both a safety and steady income perspective. My regular has specific financial goals and wants to stay low volume. She has enough regulars that she doesn't advertise or accept new clients except if she loses a regular. I like that, it makes me feel safer to have a minimum number of different guys with her. Maybe less STD risk, although she doesn't do BBFS for anyone (or me, anyway). Long, as I'm prone to go, sorry.
and for the better! I must admit that like must guys I like variety and always looking for a girl who can out do another. In my distance past I did try repeating but my feeling was the girls were a little to relaxed the second time and did not have the same edge to them as the first.
Over the last couple of years I have tryed repeating again and I must say that the second time was even more intense and passionte than the first and of course the reason I went back is because the first was awesome.
How do you others feel about repeating? Does it get better for you also?
Some I will, some I won't. Depends on the chemistry. If the chemistry is there, at least some, then it will take more meetings to plumb the depths, as it were. Many run their course after 3-4 meetings.
Hot, but one and done kind of ladies tend are the ones typically not to have longevity beyond 3-4. I'd say 1 in 10 "relationships" have legs beyond that. LOL
Over the last couple of years I have tryed repeating again and I must say that the second time was even more intense and passionte than the first and of course the reason I went back is because the first was awesome.
How do you others feel about repeating? Does it get better for you also?
And I think is a positive trait not necessarily a bad thing unless she totally changed on the second visit (which is rare).. For providers, the first time we meet someone both elements of curiosity and nervousness exist perhaps the second time we are still curious about certain things but the nervousness is eliminated. I think the key of having a great second time is the ability to use imagination, creativity combined with the comfort level of the second visit. It is always great to see a familiar face, I am sure the same effect is produced on a gentleman when they see a lady for the second, third time and so on. Moreover, I think the trust element in this business is priceless, when you know that the lady you are seeing is discreet and everything you aim for, why go out there looking for unknown adventures?
I would say most providers put as much effort on repeats as they do with first time visitors in order to keep the standards of service consistent and pleasant.
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The comfort factor is huge, particularly with a provider you really connect with. But I'll also add that familiarity is also a very big factor for me. When I've gotten to know a provider and what she likes, and she knows what I like, that can lead to a VERY hot session 
Oh fuck it, I will come clean, I have seen the same lady five times in the last eight days, she just left me about ten minutes ago after spending the entire day with me, so I guess even an asshole like me can get "comfortable" with a lady.
Like the OP, my views have changed on the subject over the years. Right now, although I still want to fuck everything that moves (as long as she's hot) I actually prefer being with someone who knows me, and for some unknown reason still likes me.
...but one of the most comfortable things about the second time you see a provider is that you aren't dealing with the 2-call system, the unfamiliar neighborhood, figuring out which way to go in the apartment maze to get to her door... Things like that.
But of course, the chemistry has to be there, too.
I love it when a man comes back after the first time, and knowing that he enjoyed me enough to not move on to the hundreds of other options (knowing I'm not just a notch in his belt, so to speak), makes me want to do even better the next time. And the next. And the next.
The familiarity definitely helps, too. Remembering what drove him wild the first time and even trying something a little different. I definitely understand the guys who do it for variety, but, connecting with those who are really looking for a great experience to build upon does it for me.
I find I like to sample 4-5 new providers each year, and add 1-2 of the best from them to my regular rotation.
Each year a similar number disappear for whatever reason, so it all balances out.
About 75% of girls I see I don't repeat, even though I have a good time. Then again some girls are such a good match for me, I see them again and again. I am currently hooked on three favorites, seeing them as often as my wallet and sperm-count allow. The repeat girls know what I like and do it well. They know how fast/how firm/where and when to squeeze, etc...without having to ask Would like some new variety as well, but you can't have everything.
Not all ladies do it but there seems o be a dropoff after the 3rd or 4th visit. Maybe they don't get all dressed up etc. but I've seen it happen a few times. Still great but the edge can be gone.
but not always, I've just spent five of the last 8 days with the same woman, in the hooker rich environment of Costa Rica. Yeah, lines are getting blurry with this one. I've been seeing her on and off for months, but somehow it keeps getting better. Now I all need to do is start posting "I've fallen down and can't get up" type posts to know I have truly gone over the edge.
Nah, no chance of that happening,not that I haven't fallen for a few providers in my life, just when I do that last thing I want or need is advice from the people here.
I've been at it long enough to have developed a list of regulars with whom I'll repeat for as long as they're in the business. Even then, I won't see a regular more frequently than once every two or three months.
I'm a complete hound. Where do you think my son gets it from?
weren't you about to do a repeat after just a couple of days, not just once, but twice this past week?
Don't worry about busting me in return, I've already come clean on a post on this thread.
NICK-A-LICIOUS and THE GAMBLER in a showdown?!!!
OMG!!! Sir Gambler, I could kiss you for throwing down the gauntlet! I shall refrain out of respect for your disgust, regarding "old broad" physical contact.
No popcorn needed. Already on the edge of my seat. I believe it's your serve, Nicky... Come on, don't make me beg.
Play on gentlemen!!
But I would. Hell, I'm about to do something much worse than that: violate the $150 rule. That hot brunette from Medellin got a rave review from one of those guys from Brooklyn and I'm about to fold. Maybe not tomorrow, but soon.
So GFY, and do it today!
I spent the entire day with "you know who" and I think I will be headed home with a smile tomorrow, I also think I broke a record for most times with the same chica in one trip.. I think we went maybe 13-14 times over the last week or so. So I have no room to talk about repeats. Come to think of it, I did a repeat with that chica from San Carlos, and an overnight with the one that you thought was Joselyn, which is almost by definition a repeat, especially since i have seen her at least a half dozen tmes before, I think I only did a couple of chicas this trip that were just one hour sessions, Oh well, I had fun and that's all I care about. so you can GFY as well, and you can kindly do it NOW!!! lo
Yes, I saw the one I mistook for Joselyn and I see why I did. She's the spitting image of Josie but with smaller tits. Imagine a doubles session with those two! I will happily go fuck myself with those two.
a New York rule and I am in Jaco. As you well know, things change in Jaco.
PPS: my buddy's wife liked the Cocal. That said, it was early and she has yet to be exposed to the "after 8" version of that zoo.
I will grant you the "when in Jaco" exemption, which I imagine extends to San Jose as well.
and yes, she needs to be exposed to the place after 8 to get her true read on the place
I'd been drinking since 5 (rather late by your lush standards), including sunset drinks on the beach at the Canciones, a round at the Cocal followed by Margaritas at El Hicaco and a quite full meal. My friends loved it. But by the time I got back to the Cocal I was only minimally functional and also was filthy. Too bad, because I ran into Sofia on the way out, looking most fetching. Oh, well, tomorrow is another day.
"Favorite Lady" material. Sadly, I've been wrong more than I've been right but do find it rewarding to repeat with Favs. It's nice if they enjoy my offerings & if they are both pleasant & skilled in pushing my buttons.
I find my self repeating with two great girls.. I have a great relationship with both and they know what I like and vice versa.. At the same time Iam constantly looking at new ladies with a lot of interest.. but ask myself.. why..?...
I am traveling next week to the Orlando area and have a date set up with someone new and am looking forward very much to something special.
THere was one provider that I saw 4 times.. she was very passionate... and frankly was one of the best experiences of my life.. but.. after the 1st time, she started smoking during the session.. a real turn off.. then she started getting dressed as soon as we were done .. no MSOG.. whether I signed up for an hour or a HH.. I drive by her in call every day and think of her.. but there were too many negatives and I am way too happy with my current regular situation to think about it.. I am more interested in a lot more than just a wham bam cum dump.. I look for the person behind the provider.. and I will probably get a lot of abuse for that.. but we are all different
Despite variety being the spice, I like repeating because I think that you start to have real interactions with the woman and not just a show. As you can tell, I'm a GFE type, and I'm not apologizing for it. I enjoy inside jokes, no drama and the kind of trust you can develop over time so you can play stupid games like blindfolded feeding (think dark chocolate raspberry truffles followed by licking the chocolate off her tongue with a DKF, followed by some pineapple, then a few minutes later by a dick to lick blindfolded). There is a lot of laughter in addition to the sex and for me, that's very healing. That kind of relationship takes some time to build. I'm completely immature in that respect, and if you think that's wrong, STFU, it's my life.
I do see other ladies, but more as an accent to the hobby. It's for variety and a couple services my regular isn't comfortable with. Why pressure her to do something she's not comfortable with, just so she keeps me as a regular, when I can outsource? She didn't understand why she was getting reference calls from other girls until I explained it to her and told her that I had no intention of dropping her as my regular. I could see her relief.
A wild guess, but I wouldn't be surprised if the ladies preferred having regulars and seeing as few new guys as possible from both a safety and steady income perspective. My regular has specific financial goals and wants to stay low volume. She has enough regulars that she doesn't advertise or accept new clients except if she loses a regular. I like that, it makes me feel safer to have a minimum number of different guys with her. Maybe less STD risk, although she doesn't do BBFS for anyone (or me, anyway).
Long, as I'm prone to go, sorry.
First time with her was Great. Now that I've seen her for almost a year, yeah the new feeling has died down. The Session itself is pretty typical. But I still enjoy seeing her even though I know what to expect. It's not so much seeing different Girls anymore. If I like seeing just one Girl, I just stay with her.
a deductible expense against his pimping fees.
I'm assuming he's being a solid taxpayer and reporting those pimping fees...he wouldn't not do it...right?
time with. I like variety but I also like the comfort level that seeing a lady that I have seen before brings.
Always works best to build upon something already established..
once i find my way around with the light switch off .Thats a plus if you know how ugly i,am!!
My favorite provider and i have so far since last sept had nine over nights and i think 17 2hr sessions .I just like it when a plan comes together !!!
My goal is to find a woman I'm attracted to, who I'm comfortable with, and with whom I have great sex. If everything clicks, I want to come back a second time for a longer session. If it gets better, then I want to keep coming back as long as it gets better.
I had that last year, and now I'm searching for another for this year.
For me the first session is getting to know each other. The sex isn't as good as in the follow-up sessions. That was true in civvie life as well.
enough time to experience everything...... I like to start off slow with my friends, teasing, watching them get excited.....seeing what excites them the most......the 2nd time (if it isnt a year later) I can remember what moves were their favorite & focus on that...or try things we didn't get a chance to the 1st time around......
I like meeting new people as I learn new things from them & my experience grows......sometimes becoming tooo casual with someone can ruin the mode a bit, but after getting the 1st few moments of catching up out of the way, then I can groove into the sexy temptress ready to try the new fantasys that theyve been dreaming about...
I'm planning my third adventure with someone that just totally knocks my head into the stars.
Smart, beautiful, sexy, with eyes that just set me on fire thinking about them. She totally boils my crawfish.
Every time you are together with someone, you are given an opportunity to learn a bit more about each other, sharing likes and dislikes. The chance to explore new areas, experience new things together, building on a fantastic foundation. I want to walk into a cool restaurant or resort with a beautiful lady on my arm and we have this aura that comes from long time lovers together rather than the possible awkwardness of being on a first date, searching for commonality. This ain't an ad for match.com or christian mingle, so get over it. It's my opinion.
I think it boils down to one of two general types here: Find'em, bang'em and move on to a new conquest and more reviews or Looking for a steady provider to give that extra spark in life. There is absolutely nothing wrong with either type.
Every time you meet someone new, there are risks. LE, compatibility, chemistry, rip-off, B&S, bla bla bla. Fill in your own scary stories. Going back to someone you've known and it's like hanging out with a super sexy friend that just happens to want to screw your brains out every time you meet. And it's fun knowing how to push her buttons as she knows how to push yours. I like nicer things in life (as if we all don't) and having fun experiences. What's better than sharing them with someone you've got some history to compare them with? Considering where we've been and where we're going, I love trying to find something to top the last time.
More intensity and passion from familiarity gets my vote every time
so not the biggest sample size, but in my 3 repeat sessions, it's actually been stunning to me just how much better they were even as compared to exceptional first times. The ladies were each so relaxed and comfortable the second time, each opening up their personalities to me in a completely different way than they did the first time. Been great experiences. Going to have my first 3rd date in a couple weeks, so hope things stay as hot and fresh as they were for #2. Its been about 6 months since the 2nd, so I'm certainly reved-up to see her again...
Repeating starts to feel like a relationship over time. It's better at first, but then you start slapping your head and saying "I could have had a V8!"
Not to say ATFs don't have their place. They do, but I like variety.