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Are you a repeat or a one time client?
jaydalee See my TER Reviews 2923 reads
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1 / 41

Curious how many of you gents see a provider and have a good time and rebook?And if you do rebook how long do you wait to reach out for another appt?
Or are you a client who has a good time with a provider but decide not to rebook due to many other options available to you?
Of course if you did not have a good time you are not going to see the provider again.
I always say the best tip is repeat business.
Opinions?

Twoontuesday 11 Reviews 109 reads
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2 / 41

My pleasure to meet you OP.

 

Attorneys have clients.  Working girls have customers.  I have a privilege to session with some gorgeous working girls but there's no attorney / client privilege for us in a US court of law.

 

 
I prefer to refer to myself as monger.

 

I had a monger mentor.  He told me there's two kinds of mongers; those who repeat and those who want a different working girl every session and seldom, if ever, repeat.

 

YEMV

OldRanger 62 Reviews 83 reads
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3 / 41

Early on it was always new. Always trying for the “better” experience . Last years been seeing mostly regulars. Did schedule Jaydalee on one of her tours and ended up canceling due to COVID’s exposure and was my only cancellation in years. Apologies again.

CuriousGeorge1152 88 reads
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4 / 41

Nowadays, it's harder to find someone you really click with, especially if it's at a reasonable price. So always looking for the ATF with whom you can become a regular.  

But, that really works best for local indies vs travellers or agencies.

case321 31 Reviews 91 reads
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5 / 41

The talent pool in my area isn’t what it used to be, before the world turned upside downs I got spoiled by three amazing gals and I would just repeat with them mostly, makes for a better experience when you are familiar with eachother and click. Sadly haven’t really seen anyone with the quality of session (not just the wrestling part either) of those gals in a few years.

CurlyW-NatsFan 86 reads
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6 / 41

Depends on whether I had good time or not.. I never repeat a sub-par experience, and will stop repeating if a good experience in the past goes south.  

 
I always follow the path of least resistance.  Those who know me on the boards, and in real life, know that I love traveling to South Beach and Vegas.  Pre-pandemic, I used to travel to Miami 3-4 times a year, and Vegas twice a year..  Once I got a good connect in both the places, I never really saw anyone new.  I hate to put in all the research it takes to see someone new.  

 
Now if they are passing through the town, I will allow myself the luxury of seeing someone new. And that's more of a function of where I live (DC area) than anything else.  I have no desire to see any local independents.  

 
BTW.. good intelligent post.

-- Modified on 3/16/2022 9:03:00 AM

anthony1976 25 Reviews 97 reads
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7 / 41

Hi Jaydalee. If  I have a good experience and I feel a provider feels the same, I will rebook when I have the funds and our schedules align.  
I have done this over the years and found the more I see someone the better it has been on each subsequent meeting.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 120 reads
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8 / 41

The first types are the hunters.  For them, half the thrill is in the hunt for the next experience.  They see little reason to repeat because nothing will be new.  Often, before they have even driven away from the last session, they are already thinking about who might be next.

 
The second types are the nesters.  These guys are more comfortable with the familiarity of having a regular lady who they see repeatedly.  They are sometimes uncomfortable with the natural awkwardness of the first meeting, and all of that goes away when they repeat.  

 
Finally, there are those that are a bit of both hunter and nester.  These guys often have a long-term regular (or two) who they see, but still enjoy the chase for that new and exciting experience with someone they have never met before.  I fit into this group, as I think many of my fellow mongers do.  I love the sensuality and familiarity of seeing the same woman every week because of the connection we have and the knowledge of what each other likes in the way of arousal and sexual play, but I also get excited about girls I'm seeing for the first time and all of the mystery and unknowns that go with those experiences.  

RespectfulRobert 78 reads
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9 / 41

So I cant imagine sticking to one girl. That thought never crossed my mind.  
When I first started, I was always a one and done type guy. Girl wise, not orgasm wise. lol.
There were so many hot, affordable girls then, I went a few years before I started to see the same girl multiple times. Sure you have your faves, and the comfort of seeing someone more than once opens up avenues, sexually, with the girl that you may not discover after just one date. I mean , you both talk about what you like, fantasies, bucket list items, threesomes, etc and a girl you are on same wave length are more capable of making them come true the better and longer you know her.
That said, there is nothing more exhilarating than meeting someone new. The anticipation, the planning, the countdown on the day of the date is very intoxicating and exciting for me.

CurlyW-NatsFan 95 reads
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10 / 41

It's not about monogamy.   Monogamy is where both sides are faithful to each other out of sense of loyalty to each other, usually out of what fellow humans call romantic feelings or sense of moral righteousness.  

 
Here, sticking with a few in rotation is just mere convenience and comfort level - at least for most mongers who are not a little off in their heads.. LOL

-- Modified on 3/16/2022 11:42:55 AM

CurlyW-NatsFan 82 reads
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inicky46 61 Reviews 113 reads
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12 / 41

I like new experiences but will also repeat if she was good enough. But even then, I'l generally wait a few months before repeating. So it's a mixture.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 74 reads
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13 / 41

and see them about once every 8 to 10 weeks.

 

In addition, I see one or two new gals, mostly traveling escorts, per year.

 
On an off week, I step out to my friendly local AMP.

 
It seems to work out nicely.

helixir 54 Reviews 75 reads
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14 / 41

There's a group of 5 ladies I've seen repeatedly over the last couple of years, including some lovely mixing and matching amongst them.

 Before that I was basically fucking my way through the phone book, especially with a specific agency that had a number of wonderful ladies.  

But between Covid, runaway inflation and increasing demands for PII from new ladies, I've been sticking mostly to my team for the last while. Every now and then I fall in lust with pictures of a new lady but then she turns out to have mediocre reviews, to be priced sky-high, to be difficult to reach, etc.

trimming 35 Reviews 86 reads
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15 / 41

I will see my ATF'S at a lower rate but more often thru out the month.
They get paid whether I show up or not.

It works for both of us!

3270925 11 Reviews 84 reads
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16 / 41

Eight years and going.  I love seeing the same ladies more than once.  However, there's only a handful I rebook with.  It's the chemistry.  Has to be there.  From looks, sex, kissing, conversation, affection, etc.  If we're on the same page it's always fun to see her again.

holystonethedeck 104 Reviews 73 reads
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17 / 41

I always repeat if I have a very good time and I try to get the second visit in within a few weeks of the first.

 
I have seen women that I enjoyed being with but didn't experience outstanding chemistry or anything else really special so I didn't see them again.

 
I do enjoy seeing new ladies - it's thrilling to walk in that door for the first time not knowing quite what to expect. At the same time, it is a nice, comfortable feeling seeing someone I've seen before and more often than not the sex gets better over time as we get in tune with each others' likes and preferences.

eastside70 47 Reviews 84 reads
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18 / 41

a couple of local providers monthly.  

I also like to see touring providers who pique my interest too. I will see a new one every now and then, assuming they respond to my p411 appointment request which unfortunately some do not. If the date goes well, I'll see them again when they’re back in town if my schedule allows it.

JawKnee36 95 Reviews 103 reads
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19 / 41

I did the math elsewhere on here and figured out that I had seen one provider in particular over 200 times. I’ve also seen a traveling provider at least once but usually both times she comes through my area since I first met her maybe 8 years ago. There’s also a handful of locals and agency girls who I’ve seen 5-10 times over the last few years. I like encounters built around comfort rather than speed.

I’m a pretty loyal perv, but variety IS the spice of life though.

Hpygolky 233 Reviews 97 reads
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20 / 41

And see one lady and move on to the next. Most the girls I met weren't even reviewed...But I as gotten older, I'll repeat if I had a good time. But usually after 3-4 visits, I'm over her and as BB King once sang "The Thrill is Gone".

blue5361 191 Reviews 92 reads
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21 / 41

I hunt and I repeat! However, my repeat frequency varies with the quality of the session and price. For example, I usually have a few stellar kgirls that I may see monthly, or even more often. Then I may have one or two midrange priced girls that I see once a quarter. Finally, I might splurge once or twice a year to repeat a high priced girl that I really enjoyed. All of these repeats represent 75-80% of my activity, while the other 20-25% represents first time sessions! In my model, a stellar session always merits a repeat - it’s just a matter of time frame!

badger48 153 Reviews 86 reads
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22 / 41

Early in the week I see my repeat favorites, there are a couple and I rotate with them.

 
End of the week it's a new adventure, they can be put into my repeat rotation, if the chemistry is really good!

 
They do come and go, so the list is always changing.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 91 reads
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23 / 41

I see two repeats a week, which are two hours each, and two new girls, which are one-hour each.  Been doing this for over ten years and it's just the right mix for me of comfort and adventure, and as you say, the repeat list changes periodically,  You or the girl loses interest, she goes on tour, gets a boyfriend, goes on an extended vacation or retires, so there is room for a new regular.  

DT_lover 188 Reviews 80 reads
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24 / 41
jaydalee See my TER Reviews 85 reads
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25 / 41

totally understandable.
Hope to meet in the near future.

jaydalee See my TER Reviews 91 reads
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26 / 41

there is not a big selection in your area.Perhaps that changes in the future.

jaydalee See my TER Reviews 100 reads
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27 / 41
davincib1 96 Reviews 93 reads
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28 / 41

Historically I have been a one and done-er, but I will repeat if the service/session matches the price point.  Re-booking usually depends on if she tours my area frequently or not, and that tends to trend with available options, which are scarce in my area.  My ATF retired some years ago and I have slowed down drastically, that combined with comparisons and inflation.  

bond007 31 Reviews 96 reads
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29 / 41

Have seen a few ladies for years.  A top rated (at the time, now retired) lady from LV, a lady from Southern Calif, a pornstar in southern calif.  I have seen probably 200 ladies or so and I would guess that 50% of the time I repeat.  but again, my repeats can number in the many dozens or just another time.  As u said Jaydalee, repeat business is the best tip a client can give to a lady.  As far as reaching out, it could be the next day, next week, month, or year.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 81 reads
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30 / 41

I'm tempted to keep the cash.  Lol

case321 31 Reviews 80 reads
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31 / 41

That’s part of the fun of this ya never know when that next special gal is gonna come along

AllbSure 16 Reviews 90 reads
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32 / 41

When I used to travel a lot pre covid I would always look for some folks I knew. I have had mixed experiences on this front. I mean everyone has good days and bad days so thats to be expected. However, I found a few girls would take the familiarity for granted and service declined. Others, would expand on that and each  time we met just got better.  Holly Lancaster for example I don't know how she does it but every single time experiences just get better. TER 205959.

I also Love the thrill of meeting new people. So honestly i love to do both. If more ladies would treat repeat sessions with more excitment then 'mailing it in" I would repeat over and over again. YMMV but thats my 2 cents

sdottaylor 19 Reviews 91 reads
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33 / 41

About 30% (8 out of 25) of the time I have repeated.  

 
That’s more a function of me than them. Most of the women I see, I do so when I’m on vacation. So if I don’t go back to that city or they don’t tour my home city, there’s a chance I’ll never have the chance to repeat.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 86 reads
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34 / 41

you would rather me not tip if I say I will come back again next year?  I have always found the ladies I see (both agency and indie) are more interested in CURRENT revenue generation than speculating on future revenue  from a repeat session at some vague time in the future.  Nothing screams CURRENT revenue more than a nice tip.  I have heard customers say this over the years, and I just chalked it off to their own justification for stretching their hobby dollars into more pussy by leaving off the tips, but you are the first provider I have EVER heard agree with this.  I would love to hear the reasons why you would eschew a tip today in favor of an allusion that possible future business.  Help me understand this.  

 
I tip every provider I see, and I don't view the potential of a future session as having any connection to the session I am having today.  If I repeat at some future date, whether it's a week from now or a year away, I will tip at that time for THAT service.  It has nothing to do with the quality of the service I got last time.  If I felt I was not getting her best effort, I will still tip, but I will not repeat and indicate accordingly in my review.  

SxDoctor 13 Reviews 92 reads
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35 / 41

I do like seeing new women, but I also feel that my best sessions are repeat visits with someone I've gotten comfortable with.

I have one location I visit often.  I often schedule someone there.  I have a couple of providers who I like and will do some repeat business, but not every trip.  I like to see them every few trips, but not more often from that.  Ideally, I'd like to have a regular rotation of repeat providers, partly because they're not always available every trip.

The providers I really like are the ones I book longer sessions with.

UOnlyLive2x 72 Reviews 89 reads
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36 / 41

Repeat only for now. Love to see some ladies that I have seen multiple times in the past when deflation hits😄

BMW 99 reads
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37 / 41

I have been doing this on and off for the last 15 years but still consider myself a novice because I  tend to repeat with the ones I am comfortable with, until one of us move on to something else... like dating civvies,  marriages  or her retirement.  I have only two ATFs, since my aggregated hobbying  time is only is about 2-3 years. Only time I would see other girls  is when I am in the dog house or my ATF is on her period.

trex44 9 Reviews 105 reads
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...however, the last 3+ years, I haven't been able to travel out of the "home area" for more than 3 hours at a time.

That has severely limited my playtime, as I live in a "provider desert" here in rural southern Oregon.

The only thing that has saved what little sanity I have left is my ATF travels through the area 2-3 times a year.

We had our 24th session just last night, as a matter of fact.

It's as good now as it's ever been...and it was DAMN GOOD the first time we got together, 4 1/2 years ago.

My situation is changing now, and as things open up a bit more post-Omicron, I might have the opportunity to travel to the nearest Big City (4 hours drive time away) for a wider selection of playmates.

jaydalee See my TER Reviews 111 reads
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39 / 41

I never expect a tip but always greatly appreciated.
I rather have the return business and no tip when we meet then a tip and never see the gent again.
When I mention repeat business I mean the gent who repeats soon after not a year or two later. lol

Slickone50 39 Reviews 108 reads
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40 / 41

Looking inwards. I’d have to say that the experience as a whole, from research on the lady to door closing after the session , the fantasy bubble has been popped. I have repeated but always something missing on second sessions. Looking backwards I would need something different about the experience, aka different locations or some other fantasy element introduced. Just my perception. And my 2 cents.

jaydalee See my TER Reviews 92 reads
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It was interesting to read all of your responses.

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