If money was not object, I would do a combo of same girl ( assuming my time with her was exceptional ) and a few new ones.. but because of Covid.. my funds are now limited so... As much as new girls are tempting, I play it safe.. That being said there are pros and cons.. pros... better chemistry, exploring more fantasies...cons.. eventually the girl gets very comfortable, shows up not as well put together and puts less effort into the experience.. when that happens, I stop repeating.
Been hobbying for around ten years. In the early years I would do repeat visits. But that was mostly due to nervousness whereby repeat sessions I would feel more relaxed with the provider.
Fast forward to today and I have little interest in repeating. Too much choice in my area. I always leave a good review but am wondering if not repeating is frowned upon by providers?
It's your money and your time, doing something you don't particularly seem to want to, seems backwards to me. Personally, I don't really see why providers would frown on one and done. Many guys are looking for new pussy. They want you to come back, but I don't think they'll be like that guy is an ass for not coming back. I might be wrong.
Personally, repeats are good for sessions I feel could improve in chemistry or understanding ,but I like the service. Or times where I really enjoy everything.
The more time you spend, just like in non-p4p world, the more provider understands what you like and what you don't like and more her and you adjust.
Courtesy repeats sound weird to me. Idk.
If you really don't think you'll get something more out of multiple visits I don't see why to worry. Certainly there are other's seeing the lady so it is unlikely she is missing meals or a place to stay just because you did not repeat.
That said, many of my best sessions have been after the first and for some ALL the sessions were as good any any of the ones with someone else.
Why do you care? Lol It goes with the biz. Chemistry and connection are usually why guys repeat because it can make average sex seem better.
Providers know that, for a lot of guys, its the thrill of the chase rather than making a connection that gets their juices flowing. If you get wood ON THE WAY to the incall in anticipation, then you are probably one of the "hunters" rather than a "nester." I'm both, as are many other here. I like the comfort of having a "girlfriend", but also like that adrenaline rush that comes with walking up to the door of a new girl that I KNOW is going to fuck me (not in the way a female insurance agent does). You pay the same, so what is the difference for her? Having regular customers that provide a consistent revenue stream that they can count on is nice, but very few ladies ever get to a point where they don't want to see new customers because they are fully booked with regulars every day. You are just as welcome the ONLY time as anyone else is the FIRST time.
Seriously cdl, are these the same prime hunters that shoot the deer that is tied to a stake from 20 feet and think they are ready to face down a tiger? lol
I'd say for the novelty. Pick up artists do it for the chase (and the novelty.) But their return on invested time is very low. 
greyhounds. They tried chasing civvie women, but like the greyhound chasing the mechanical rabbit, they never caught one, so rather than live a life of constant frustration of the pussy they crave being just out of reach, they substitute with the "chase" of working girls, knowing that they WILL definitely make a catch and get laid. The hunt is what they find exciting. Once they get the reward of a successful catch, they are ready for another "chase" and are ready to start over with the next one. It may be like shooting a staked deer, but it does NOT make them delusional that they are any more ready to seduce a civvie girl than they were before.
I chased a lot of civvie women in my youth, and the secret to my high success rate was that I only chased women who were known to run slowly.
I have seen one woman most likely a thousand times, and I have seen at least a thousand women only once.
If I have a good or great time with a girl I often repeat with her, all the while seeing multiple other women of course, but to me the best pussy is the "next pussy" I will almost always pick "the new girl" over tried and true, but some women are worth a return visit or even several returns.
This is one of those things where there is no right or wrong answer, it's just a matter of personal choice. Unless of course your own choices are bothering you, in that case you need to look inward for your answers, not hope that someone from the peanut gallery will accidentally give you the right advice, although I have been told before that my advice was helpful. Probably by accident of course. lol
I am kinda in your boat. Aint no pussy like new pussy, I usually say.
However, when I get a subpar session or even worse session, the time I get bored, etc I always catch myself thinking I could've went to my atf instead she would be happy to see me and she'd fuck my brains out. It's irrational type of thinking after the fact, because that's not what I think when the new girl turns out to be great. Lol
Can you imagine if you only got laid once a month and that one time was lousy? That's what a lot of the guys here have to deal with and that's why they do so much research before booking a session.
For you or me if we get a bad session we wasted an hour of our time and a few hundred bucks, we can go see someone else later on that day if we want to or at the very worst see someone tomorrow. Can you even imagine knowing that you'd have to wait another fucking month to get another chance??? For you or me it's like ordering the hamburger knowing that the club sandwich is ALWAYS good and then getting a lousy burger. Not really the end of the world. lol
Ill have to disagree. I don't think I'm a high volume monger compared to many. Sometimes I'd also only see two-five girls a month. And sometimes it's a lot more, lol. I'm a binge guy, that's why I pretty much stopped drinking. Blacking out and shit and trying to figure out what happened the last night whole not being able to intake any food due to alcohol poisoning was not good for my career
So anyway, my sympathy is with guys who are low volume, research a lot and they still get burned. Part of the reason why I hate fake reviews so much. I can imagine how a subpar session can get people to quit the hobby or, for example, stop seeing a segment such as kgirls or cgirls altogether.
And the really subpar sessions leave a bad taste in my mouth too. So nah, it's not like having a bad burger to me. It's a big deal, especially if expectations are very different from what we get. Admittedly, most of my subpar sessions were when I expected for them to not be great, but the ones that had somewhat high expectations (and I already have lower expectations) are the worst.
I do sympathize with the low volume guys, but I can't empathize since I am both a binge and a "functional" alcoholic AND sex addict. I do both maintenance and binge fucking, and I do the same with alcohol, although I rarely seem to overdo it that often with either booze or hookers the last few years. Maybe my body is telling me something after over 45 years of booze and sex. lol
I really haven't had too many truly sub par sessions over the last few years, not in the hooker world at least, I have had a couple of very sub par experiences in the sugar bowl, but that goes with the territory as it's impossible to do any actual research, but even then It was only like a bad burger that instead of sending back for a new one, I'd simply go across the street where I knew I could get a good one.
So yes I feel your pain, but I don't share it. but I have taken steps to make sure those things either don't happen or at the very least have very little effect on me. It's not by accident I find myself in the situation I am in.
Aren't going to care if you see them again or don't. Yeah I saw your earlier response on what your deal is.
So don't sweat it, hit it and quit it. Remember a stiff dick has no conscientious, that's why we do what we do.
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i will add that when you get a reference check from another provider on a one & done client that was a generous gfe sesh, there may be a cartoon bubble above our heads of "aww".
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But don't worry about it if you don't.
Yes most girls want you to repeat if your a good client that knows what soap is and uses it. Repeat clients are safer and require no screaming. Plus they can relax more as they know more of what makes you tick. Most if not all business love repeat clients. This hobby is no different
But again don't worry about that. Part of what we are paying for is not having any strings. After the time is up neither side has no obligation to the other. That is part of the point of all this. Prices aren't a factor regardless of what any here claim. The hobby is all about no strings attached sexual services.
In short both sides know that this is a no after the fact obligations arrangement. Show on time, be clean and respectful, pay in full, and enjoy and after you nor her have no obligations to repeat. You do you. Repeat only if you want to. You owe her nothing after the session is over and she has her money.
Sometimes Variety Is The Spice of Life
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You don't owe a provider anything other than her fee, respect and politeness. If you treat her like a fellow human being, I'd say you've fulfilled your obligations. Otherwise, what's fun to you is up to you. There was a time when I saw a particular lady somewhere on the order of 30 or 40 times. I only stopped because I moved away for a spell and by the time I moved back she had quit and become a ridiculously successful civilian world business woman. Those 30 or 40 times were fantastic every single time and I would gladly have made it 50 or 60. But I can't imagine the lady would have felt slighted if it was only 1.
If a particular lady not only gives great service but full allotted time, get little hassle drama & you enjoy yourself enough to want to repeat! You aren't obligated for anything but what you commit to on any given session.
For me variety is great to throw in every once in awhile but I prefer to build rapport & trust with a few quality providers as usually makes for a better experience once everyone is comfortable!
But you do YOU & whatever floats your boat! Don't feel bad about anything, unless you bail last 2nd on sessions or short the ladies for their time!
How can you NOT repeat when you find a provider who gives good head? Many of my regulars achieved that status based on the particular skill!
Why pay for the same pussy over and over again?
Never understood regulars.
7 years and getting tired of the same dick. Does nothing for me 🤷🏻♀️
Do you get a different meal at McDonalds all the time, or a Big Mac meal? You eat a porterhouse steak all the time at a restaurant, or get something different every time.
Maybe it comes with age, you know what you know, and you like what you like.
I like variety and sticking with restaurant analogy, like trying different things. But, after more misses than hits on food, I like going back to a traditional meal of steak and potatoes. Sometimes you just want something familiar.
I understand going back once in a while, but explain to me week after week after week? Why pay for that lmao isn’t that kind of like being married? I never understood that.
Being married is ... a truly piss-poor analogy! I take it you have not been. If you had, and your wife was as good at sex as the girls who become regulars, you'd still be there and happy. If she wasn't, you'd know how bad the analogy sounds.
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Good sex, like good music, involves repetition with variation at many time scales. (There was a fad for calling this "fractal" a while ago, if you remember that.) If the repeated actions at second-, minute-, and hour-scales are being played skillfully by one woman, getting better as she gets to know you better (and vice versa), it can be good to repeat with her regularly for the assurance of satisfaction.
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Also, many regular guys try out others between repeats, in search of variation.
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Some guys get their jollies from "the thrill of the chase", uncertainty and conquest. Some of us do not, but prefer excellent sexual experiences with low overhead in wasted time and effort and uncertainty. I'm one way, you're the other.
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That should explain "it". Of course it will not convert you, and it isn't meant to. But now you can understand.
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And, by seeing and reviewing a different girl most every time, you are doing us less-adventuresome guys a good turn. We may need a new regular one day!
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OK? Bye!
Umm you’re talking to an ex provider who married her regular😉. And no I still don’t get it.
Ok? Bye
I've been married twice. Cheated on the first wife with a civie and got caught and divorced. Finally turned to escorts/sugar babes on the second wife, still not caught, but she's naturally jealous of neighbors and coworkers etc. So really have to tread carefully.
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I really have trouble staying interested in the same providers -- by that I mean seeing them a couple times a month. I had a girlfriend (the one I cheated with on the first wife) who we'd only meet maybe once or twice a year. That was far enough apart that I'd look forward to the meeting.
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But with escorts and SB's that you can pretty much see as often as your bank account allows, I start to lose interest. Really need to see someone, anyone, new.
Just like we have a choice if we want to see someone again you have a choice to see whoever you want whenever you want. Enjoy yourself, life is too short!
If money was not object, I would do a combo of same girl ( assuming my time with her was exceptional ) and a few new ones.. but because of Covid.. my funds are now limited so... As much as new girls are tempting, I play it safe.. That being said there are pros and cons.. pros... better chemistry, exploring more fantasies...cons.. eventually the girl gets very comfortable, shows up not as well put together and puts less effort into the experience.. when that happens, I stop repeating.
As far as I am concerned.................it is a bit concerning if a client does not repeat with me (But I do understand & I don't take offense to a client not returning).
It's your choice your money your time and your interest, do whatever you want