I’ve not posted before, but I have been a "hobbyist" for many years, around the country. It seems that the idea of GFE has become paramount in the marketplace. That--GFE--has never been my goal.  I think there are many other "Es" out there, more potentially exciting and fulfilling, if we can find them. I,for one, am looking for them.

For example, there is what I'll call an SSE, "sensous, seductive, experience".  And yes, that can be very different from GFE, at least I believe so.  

Or there could be an "only in your dreams" experience" (OIYDE??), that sounds pretty good.

Obviously it's all personal taste, but there seems to be a strong feeling in the marketplace that GFE is the only thing in demand, the thing that is measured even, and therefor the provider marketing is responding, of course.

Maybe some providers could comment on their point of view regarding the possibility of other "Es", such as the ones I have suggested (and perhaps some of us are looking for, and not always finding) and of course the many others I suspect are out there.  

Thought I'd throw this out and see what folks think.