A little help please.

There is a provider that I have seen several times.  She is very young and sweet.  The last time she came to my home we made popcorn and watched a movie before adjourning to the bedroom.  She did not charge me (left the envelope right on the table).

I did tell her she could call me if she liked, just to talk, if nothing else.  I am single and live alone so the phone calls aren't a problem.

However, she has started calling me everyday or every other wanting to see me (whenever she is low on $$ she calls).  

I have had to tell her I wasn't available the last 2 times she has called.

Thoughts/suggestions?  Much thanks.

Yes.

Tell her that you like her and that she's never far from your mind, but that when you're in the market for companionship you'll give her a call.

Or ... you can tell her to never make the mistake you made - of thinking that the court appointed psychiatrist was really your friend.

Or ... you can tell her that you'll call her again the next time you get a weeked furlough.

Or ... you can tell her that you'll have her over just as soon as that nasty infection clears up.

Or ... you can tell her you've just developed a passion for bareback Greek

Or ...

You could explain to her how you are not comfortable with her
contacting you for whatever reasons you have. Be polite but firm
and honest. You are not responsible for her actions unless you
allow it to go on. so be honest and make it clear to her what
you will allow in the way of contact with you,
Just be respectful to her as you are in part responsible to a
degree in allowing the contact to this point, and once you have
made your postion clear then it allows her a way to back off
with out feeling guilty or wrong.

afterall, i've practiced my hand at this type of co-dependent "relationship" for years on end with bloodsucking GFs

J/K

... your boyfriend is getting jealous of her and wants you all for himself.

Or ... you have cooties.

Or ... you're not a money bank.

Or ... you'd rather watch the video you made of the two of you that she didn't know about.

Or ... your mom is getting jealous of her and wants you all for herself.

Or ... you can't find your dick and are thinking of calling information to ask them if they know where it is because they once helped you locate your socks.

Or ... you don't have the time nor the enegry let alone the mental strength to take on a project like her and become someone's "go to boy" only to be used and abused whenever she feels the need.

Or ... suggest she comes to visit with her sister, cousin, and a roommate, all brandishing dildos, whips, chains, whistles, a book of the Kama Sutra, mint flavored lub, a pony, midget and a small woodland creature because it's your ultimate - ultimate fantasy!

Or ... your dad is getting jealous of her and wants you all for himself.

Or ... you like her and enjoyed your time together and would welcome a growing friendship, but not at your emotional or financial expense.

Or ... you don't like eating bald pussy because it's too hard to put the diaper back on.

OK ... that's the worst one I know so I'll stop.

One sick puppy,
Jimbomania

Oh,,,poor you,,,you got a freebie and she calls for more....I wish i was in your shoes..Im also single and this never happens to me lol

Well, if she only calls you when she is low on cash but she is calling you everyday or every other day, sounds like she has a problem you don't want to be involved with.

If she is just calling to be friendly, then as others have said you need to redefine when it is ok for her to call.

I always change my number when someone keeps calling me.  However, you could make her think that she's beginning to look like a stalker and that should stop her in her tracks.

As a provider myself, the last thing I would do is call clients when I am low on cash.  The first thing I would do is post, find better ways to advetise, have a special,etc...some days are slow others are not!  I would tell her the truth.  Say look we can be cool, but I cannot be your First Union everytime you need something, in fact don't call me, I'll call you!  Otherwise, you will have a re-occurring problem of phone calls, or she may even stop by. Good luck in whatever you decide to do, but when you engage in business propositions, leave it at business.  She may have more going on in her life if she keeps calling you for $$$...like drugs and what not, be careful!

Or just be upfront and either email or call her and tell her, whenever you want to see her you will call her.

Shaye

I once had a situation somewhat similar in many respects.  Details of it aren't really that important except that although she tried to disguise it, the calls usually meant she was low on money.  It didn't bother me at first..I'd simply make some excuse why I couldn't see her until such a time as I would've likely called her anyway.  But as time went on she unknowingly gave me a few clues as to what was really going on in her life, & it wasn't something I wanted to be even indirectly involved in.  I maybe could've handled it a little better, but I began simply either not returning her messages or else putting her off with no suggestion as to a possilbe alternative time.  Eventually she stopped calling.  I'm sure this doesn't help you at all, just wanted you to know that you're not the only guy who has run into this problem.  Good luck with it...I'd certainly red it as a red flag myself.

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LOL, OMG, PMPL, shame on you Jimbo......