To those providers who TRULY enjoy the sex between you and the hobbyist, would you rather have the man come quickly, last longer, and/or rebound quickly for more pops.  Do you care if the hobbyist takes an hour to come, or do you prefer multiple pops in the hour.

ask your wife how she likes it.

Both types of sessions can be extremely satisfying. I think what matters more is good communication. When seeing a man for the first time, I know that often a question in his mind that he's not sure if/how to ask is whether multiple pops are allowed. Honestly, it baffles me that a man should have to ask that, but that is a topic that has been hashed out to a fare thee well on this board.

But because I know he's probalby wondering about that, I'm pretty quick to let him know that multiple smiles are on offer should he have the desire to avail himself. As long as he isn't holding himself back because he thinks he won't be allowed another pop, then all is well. Some men are truly one shot guys, and simply don't have it in them to go for another round, while others do. The key for me is letting him know that its up to him.

There is a bit of an ego boost when a man pops multiple times. On the other hand, a long intense session is very satisfying as well. I'm thinking of two men in particular who are without doubt two of my favorite men to see.

One of them is gentleman who can, and does, pop repeatedly. Admittedly, he never sees me for less than two hours, but in that time, he will usually finish four or five times. We know we are done when I can't even get a semi out of him anymore. Until then though, its full steam ahead for a long marathon, with a few minutes here and there while he recovers. I love it.

Gentleman B on the other hand is a true one shot guy. He knows this though, and because of that, we make the most of the one shot by making it last as long as possible, and manage to enjoy ourselves thoroughly along the way.

The take home lesson is that its the journey not the destination. Good sex is good sex, and bad sex still beats a day at the office. Relax and enjoy whether its one shot or three or four, and meanwhile, I'll enjoy cumming along for the ride.

It isn't about how many times ............ it's all about the journey.

Just relax and enjoy, don't worry how many times and how long .