What do providers like to see their guys wear when they come to see visit them? Fully clothed, boxers, briefs, bikini, thong, wrapped in a towel, or simply nothing at all? And for the guys, how are you dressed most of time when your favorite lady comes to see you?

As long as you're wearing an envelope with the required $$$$$, are clean and not a yo yo, you will have a happy provider.

Just playin' here but...I've never had a provider post about me that she was crazy about me because "I really wear underwear, and when I do, it's something unusual". I would imagine that over 95% of the providers are mostly concerned that the donation is right. Anything after that is an experience. This hobby is about you, go with what you think will add to it for you. If you want to be different, go for it and have fun.

I wear heels.

But they make your calvs look so hot, all i want to do is get them wrapped around my head. Hee hee

My Flyboy used to come visit me after his flying lessons when he was in flight school, still wearing his flight suit. Ooooh, baby!

1) I play one on TV, or
2) I stayed at a Holiday Inn Express last night.

Now that that's out of the way, don't wear anything that attracts undue attention, either extremely expensive or flashy or on the other extreme, grungy. For me that means slacks (e.g. Dockers, etc), casual pull over or button up collared shirt and casual (but non-tennis shoes) for first meetings. And freshly showered and shaved (facially, that is, although on occasion ...).

Depending on the lady and how comfortable we are with each other, subsequent meetings may be t-shirt, shorts and sandals or the same.

Since the sight of my naked body makes women swoon (they might say "keel over") I try to save that "surprise" for inside the room.

That the shoes are very important.

Wear nice ones (no sneakers)and tuck in your shirt.

just make sure that you can easily undress...not too many buttons or zippers...and when you're done with her don't let your small head be snapped by your pants' zipper.

Besides my clothes, I always make sure I trim my nails, shave, and one thing many ladies have commented on.... trim my plot very short.. Not so short it is stubble though.

I usually wear slacks, dress shirt, tie and a long overcoat. Hanging inside on the liner are about a dozen sex toys!

I say.. "Take your pick!"  and they howl out loud and the ice is broken.

Yhey never seem to care about my belly button lint!  

and I have to get some new leotards.... as the old ones are getting to be a bit tight.  I also find wash and wear handy, nothing quite as bad as having to go to the cleaners before doing the superhero thing.  

Having a good supply of black socks to strip down to is also a plus.  Handy for those 50's style home videos!

Most bestest.... on valentines I do get all dressed up in black silk with little read hearts on the shorts!  I may change that as it has been known to cause gals to giggle with my little man in their mouth.... not so funny if they bite down...  a lorena bobbit moment!

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A tailored suit is always nice but more important is how he smells as that begins a certain trance for me.

I watched my dad - a decent guy, wear a suit everyday to the office... it got him little...  me?  I like casual... I know the signal that it sends... but still psychologically I am more comfortable.... and with respect to smell, don't cha just love the smell of a man who has been working out for 5 or 6 hours... in the hot sun, putting cow manure in the garden?  Oh, with sneakers on his feet!!! hummm...love that smell... all sweaty... ummm!  So I know what you mean by smell putting you in a trance....!  

. . . jeans.

It accentuates my ass.


EDIT: . . . and my crotch.

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i wear a COD PIECE

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I'm not sure about other girls but I do get turned on watching a guy undress...is like seeing a gift being unwrapped.

I don't mind what the guy wears...but how he wear it.

Some guys come during working hours, dressed casual or in suits.

Some come in jeans & sneakers...some in leather pants and boots.

I don't mind the style of the clothes...but I pay attention in what he wears (or not) under.

I truly enjoy to watch a man undressing...is soooo erotic.

So, here is a list of things I find exciting or not:

* when wearing a suit, I like when a guy removes his tie slowly, looking into my eyes...I love to watch a man fingers working on the shirt buttons and cuff links...I love cuff links!

* no matter what kind of pants he's wearing...at this point, I can see how hard he is under his pants and, when he has his shirt unbuttoned, I like to pull him closer so I can rub my face right there, over his hard on, undo his belt and unzip him slowly.

Guys in jeans are sexy too...specially if they are fit. Bare chested with a hard on under the jeans? ohhh my...without undies? yummy!

* I love white boxers briefs...a hard on looks fantastic if the guy is wearing it.

* I love silk boxers...to rub my face over his  dick and slide my hand thru the leg to cup his balls...mmmmmmmm

* cologne...at this point, I love to smell his chest and lower belly skin....so a tiny splash of a good cologne is a major turn on.

Usually I get down on my knees and help a guy out of his shoes and pants...so please make sure your feet is smelling good and your socks has NO holes.
Old underwear or with holes on it is a also a big no no.

Undershirts are not very appealing...unless the weather requires you to be warm, seeing a guy removing his sweat soaked under shirt is not a turn on for me.

Also, please do not wear pants pr belts that are strangling your waist because they are 2 sizes too small. Is very hard to undo the belt, buttons and unzip. Even if you carry extra pounds, use something that fits nicely and is easy to be removed by someone with very long nails.

I don't care about how a man body is...but how he presents himself to me.

I think the first impression is important...you don't need to spend a million in clothes...you just have to wear something that is "you", carry yourself well, be confident, groomed and have a smile on your face.

BDG

Just wear whatever you feel comfortable in, whatever is clean, and doesnt have yesterdays lunch on it.

 Make sure your undies are clean.  I hate to say it, but there have been a FEW RARE times that a gentlemen, wore dirty underwear.."skid marks" I believe they are called?  I am sorry but seeing that just makes me not think sexy thoughts.  And we DO notice, ladies are very perceptive to the little things.

 I prefer boxers, and briefs, depends on the body for briefs, but mostly like boxers.  I hate bikini underwear on a man, and I hate, hate thongs on a man!!

Really though, I really dont care, what the guy is wearing, it doesnt make or break anything.  Just be clean, and smell nice!!

 Take Care..Sidney Starr

Thanks for your post, quite accurate for me.  I wore a suit or uniform for forty years and swore it was over forever, not even at burial.  I am always immaculate for my darlings but in PHX anything other than jeans, denim shirts, and sneakers is impractical.  I've never had a lady complain about my dress code.  They just are so happy to see me and make them happy too.

usually brand new walking sneakers, brand new jean, socks and underware, a nice polo shirt.  I haven't gone into any 5 star hotels yet, but for Marriotts or similar, or apartments it's perfect (I fit right in).  For many of these ladies incall locations (that aren't hotels) I would feel a bit uncomfortable in a suite, it would be too dressy for their place.

When undressing, always remove your sock before your pants.  The sight of a man in socks and no pants is utterly disgusting.  Why?  No one knows..it just is.

Same goes for getting dressed, pants first, then socks.

you mean I have to take off my socks? lol, just kidding

....I wanna walk in one day and see him in a spandex spiderman suit, how fun would that be?

But (sigh) one can only dream...

So instead I will take a nice casual outfit-- you know, nothing fancy, its all coing off soon anyway... and if we are going out (unless we have a show to see) I like having seeing a nice pair of slacks and a nice shirt-- not too dressy not too lax...

Dani

So what about answering the door with nothing but wearing a smile? Is that too forward or is that a way to break the ice and know that anything goes?