FOR NEW GENTLEMEN.

Unless someone is completely out of their mind, a recommendation should be made to NOBODY without reviews!!!

How many times have I gotten a PM or been hit in chat to recommend a girl to someone who has been on TER for 15 minutes? Far too many!! It is not going to happen from me, and I would venture a guess from other seasoned and older guard hobbyists.

Yes, it's hard to get started! Yes, you can find lovely young friends who will see you with no reviews.

Yes, you will be able to review after you have seen the girl. And, write the review like a gentleman. (This is a tip that will help you to see womever you choose.) As a hobbyist, when I read a review that is nasty and disrespectful, I click the back button on my computer and move on.

This is a business and commerce is involved. You must remember that EVERYTHING you say impacts the business of the girl you've just seen.

But, you must remember........

There are many of us who are in the hobby to have a GIANT LOAD OF FUN, enjoy the company of lovely companions and have been able to do so as a result of our reviews and our own personal reputations. I would surmise that would be the core reason for the White List.

Be nice.
Don't haggle with the girl over donation.
Be RESPECTFUL.
Take care of your hygeine brotha!!!!!
Don't ask for something more than once that the girl doesn't like.
And, for God's Sake, don't become a stalker.

The hobby is preserved by many of us for all to enjoy.

No Reviews, No Recommendations!!!!!

This is a good policy for everyone especially  so if you don't want some stranger to say so and so recommended you to me. I wouldn't want my name used by anyone that may be a dickhead.

agree!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Just remember I am counting on your honesty to place my money in a ladies hands and my freedom (not to be too melodramatic, but what we do might have some legal ramifications), so if I can't trust you..then why are we here?...
If a lady costs too much for your budget, no hard feelings..move on...but to monopolize a ladies time beyond what you contract for or write a false review..only hurts us all.
You wouldn't walk into a supermarket and be rude, why would you be rude or mean to a lady?..
Respect and fun...go hand in hand...
Make a New Year's resolution ....and live by it...your safety..my safety and the Lady's safety depend on it...

Wow, Crazy makes a good point! Will wonders never cease!!

Seriously, I agree 100%. I won't recommend a 'newbie' cause I don't want them to say I sent them (implying I think they are ok). Sorry newbies, but we where all there at one time.

-york

by the fact that 'R2Detour' has no reviews.
An alias I presume but don't you think your post would carry more of a 'I walk the talk' message if it was accompanied by evidence that you post reviews.

It's a bit ironic...

I'm R2Detour, surmise what you will from this message.

Good rules to live by, gentlemen.  Yes, it is difficult to get started in this business, but there will be men who see new women, and then start the review process.  R2 is right, Everyone who commented is right, follow the rules, and we will have a happier hobbying community!  Happy Holidays everyone!

Well said R2....the reference debate goes on all the time back and forth.  It is a fact that if a provider or service checks references the safer everyone will be.   Happy Holidays.....

Laci Jane at Ambience Girls in NJ.

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I agree about being cautious with information, to someone with no reviews.
What would prevent someone from posting a fake review or two, and then asking for information?
Personally, I do not answer PM's from an alias.
I guess sometimes you have to use your gut instincts, and when in doubt, silence is a safe.
The rules of engagement should be posted on the newbie board as well.

But, she's kind of a dog!

DAYUM Thruster, I'm buyin' stock in Milk Bone brand right now!!!

Geesh, I can't even hide in plain site anymore, LOL!

Merry Xmas and nice response TBM!

Tra

Well I hope you do take credit for it SmokeHead. Yours was the catalyst that began my post.

Nice Work!!!!!

Over this?

I think you lost that battle and you've already lost it here.

Move on. I think Tra's character and reputation far surpasses yours. He is a founder of the PCCC too!

TMT

And yes I'm sure Tra's has a reputation.  But
not in a good way.

But why do you care to respond?  What's does his
shilling, bad character and even badder rep have
to do with you?

He prolly thought he was hitting the toilet handle when he multiple posted, LOL.

Oh, and ignore the flames, soon enough the fire department will show up.

This is a moderated forum in which flames and messages outside the forum topic will be deleted. Please do not post messages that are simply mean, or meant to cause trouble for trouble's sake. This is not the area to post detailed reviews. Please submit them in the review section. That said, have fun. Provider availability posts and spam will be deleted.

I have professed the same for years on the Vegas board but almost always get shot down by someone, when I suggest that it is a bad thing folks to recommend ladies or post their names to a 411 post of newbie with no reviews or someone using an alias.

Who the hell is behind that name? Again always shot down by the masses. Go figure.

I’ve been hanging around here coming up 2 years and have seen at least a dozen girls, several of them more then twice and almost all of them well reviewed.

I have never submitted a review and have never asked for a reference. Nor have I ever asked for a recommendation because all you have to do is buy a VIP, search for the girl of your dreams and read the reviews. Yes there are fake reviews but they aren’t too hard to spot, especially if you read the forums.

Be a gentleman, tell her what she needs to know to feel safe and you’ll probably get a date. Because of my research, I have never spent time with a lady who failed to live up to expectations.

I have to disagree with this statement. I was once a new hobbyist who needed help in getting started. Without someone helping me, my introduction would have been more difficult. I don't write reviews and many ladies who I saw don't want them. I'm a paying VIP member who go that route rather than write reviews.

Thank you Sins, it was some sort of glitch. I went to post a reply and before i could type it took off and posted 16 times. I tried to remove them but i couldn't. Sorry about that folks.

Excellent counterpoint from you and Gravels.

I did not say that girls should not accept seeing unreviewed people. I said that it will be difficult to get started and that I wouldn't recommend anyone that I know to someone who is not reviewed.

This does not mean many non-reviewing members are not dignigied, gracious and all-around great guys. It simply says that we need to be VERY careful with whom we recommend.

I don't know how many times over my 39 years in the hobby that I've encountered a young lady who is somewhat wary from an experience with someone.

Just remember to so what Gravels says!!!

Yes that's true that many ladies do not want reviews. On the other hand, almost every woman I see now requires a reference or two or more from another young lady whom I've seen.

Be safe, have fun, and Merry Christmas ALL!!!