Ok I am curious. Is this a strange fantasy? I have this fantasy it goes like this...

I am laying in a bed, and a man comes in and wakes me up by grabbing my hair, he says " dont say a word"
He then takes his member, takes it out, and makes me BBBJ, he is rough and violent, pulling my hair, and talking nasty, then he ties me face down on the bed and proceeds to fuck me violently in both areas, then he takes it out and finishes deep in my mouth, and leaves me tied up...

i have this weird fascination with it,
am i alone in this hehe
kisses
sasha

I'll help!

Except for the tying up part, I am ALL about this!! Any chance we could add a little spanking to this adventure?

I had assumed I'd have to wait until I made it to see Nicole / Sexy Curves in DC to have my "urge" taken care of (I used to have a big booty WF GF who LOVED it rough, and taught me how to give it to her) but I see there is more the ONE source for this kind of fun...

Of course, your web page is now down from all the traffic (surprise, surprise) but feel free to PM me anytime.

What a coincidence...I was just thinking the other day about my ex gf twice removed...how she would love to kneel next to me on the sofa or bed, face in my lap, administering a BBBJTC while her ass was in the air receiving a bare hand spanking from me (just hard enough to leave nice hand prints...love marks...but no real pain). With her free hand (because one would be wrapped around my cock) she would jiggle her love button, all the while crying, “Spank me Daddy! Spank your little bitch!” With my free hand, I'd have a handful of her hair, and would be assisting her do her thing...gently, but somehow also firmly. This would of course end with me blowing a huge load in her mouth while she had an earth shattering orgasm.

Ahh…the old days….


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The rough s**t with a lady just doesn't sound right. Rough n' wild sex is way cool but it has to be at the invitation of the parties.... Seduction is an art... Violence is nothing special.

I would love to be your strange in the night - sounds like a good time for both of us

I, too, used to have an ex who loved to be spanked.  I would be doing her "doggie" and spanking her at the same time. While this was going on she would taunt me by saying, "you call THAT a spanking? Come on, spank me like you mean it."  Whew, I would explode like old faithful on lips and chin. Yep, the good 'ol days indeed!  I may have to see Sasha when she visits the City of Angels to recreate this fantasy...

    PlanetU2

Jeez, I would have never left the house!

I have heard that such thoughts are not uncommon.  However, the fantasy of being dominated does not necessarily compare to the actual thing. I hesitate to call your thoughts a "rape fantasy" (although I am sure that some would).  I don't like the term rape fantasy since you are desiring the domination and, in rape, there is no desire.  The minute you have desire, there is no rape (at least when it comes to fantasies).

Originally, my thoughts with women who have rape fantasies would have been that they must have some emotional problems. I mean, what sane woman would think about being humilated, violated and physically abused.  (Hell, if someone sneezes or coughs in my direction, i feel violated.)  Note- what tastihot said by all account is a "rape" since the fantasy lacks "consent."  

I have mellowed down from this view because of what the late Faye Desiree had said in her forum.  As I recall, her point was that sometimes succumbing to the animalistic nature brings out the greatest pleasure.  I don't totally agree, but can respect that since she was an intelligent, passionate and quite sane human being.

But i suppose there's enough evidence in society with how women pick her mates.  Those men who treat women with great disregard seem to have the greatest success. It's a dog's world i tell ya.

Never did understand this whole S&M thing either though.  But some of the hottest women out there seem to get off on it.  Got to get me some leather.

Re: I understand what you are saying, but TRUST ME, she had issues....(EOM)

Well I am glad to hear I am somewhat normal hehe
now just to fulfill it

sasha

Sasha, Please be careful.  I hope that you live in a
security building and that you do not have any problems.
The "rape" fantasy is the most common female fantasy.
(2 women being the most common for males)
I lived with a very submissive provider who told
clients about her rape fantasy when she was new to the
business.  Inevitably, they took it as a "hint" to them
that she wanted them to act that way with her.  Until
she savvied up (which didn't take long) she had some
very uncomfortable situations where she ended up
begging a client to believe that was not what she really
wanted, she was hurt, she was raped, and she was
ripped off. (in that one client did not pay her)
When a woman fatasizes about being raped it is a
much different scenario from an actual rape.  Although,
the men who have posted, so far, seem to understand
that fact, not everyone is able to differentiate between
fantasy and reality.  Be safe and peace to you.

fantasies are just garbled versions of more complex emotional needs.

for example: the man in your fantasy knows what you want without asking for it, is assertive, and takes all control away from you. which might not be too weird if you look at it as: i want a man who can understand me, and guides me and takes some of the lonely responsibility of my individuality from me. (or: you're fearful of a rape scenario, or you experienced abuse from a dominant male in your past, or you may intimidate men with your size or manner and wish you didn't ... blah blah blah.)

i agree with the other posts that you either have a lot of trust in the readers here or may be acting self destructive, to post that fantasy in a public forum with a link to your web site. please take care.

(spoken as someone who thinks the french maid, school girl, pretend rape, stud collar & whip business is incomprehensible. i want it no makeup, no silicone, no clothes, no role playing, just the girl.)

Probably more painful than anything else. I recommend you find a nice Christian boy, get married, and leave all this weird bullshit behind. Then you can act out any fantasy you like, with an underpinning of committment and, dare I say it, Love.

I salute your 'enlightened' approach, Hootie. I'm guessing you are a man fascinated by the intricate mysteries that motivate and drive our passions. Having only recently had an epiphany in regards to exploring my own sexual desires without shame, I find your 'drive-by critiques' to be refreshing indeed...the perfect counterpoint to my new 'de-intellectualizing of passion' philosophy.