We have established that shaving is the way to go!   Now, what can we do to make the bbbj more enjoyable for the provider.  Are there scents/oils/special attention needed that will make the provider happy when going south?

No need for scents or oils. They oten leave a residue that is unpleasant tasting. Simply be clean and freshly showered, that's all.

I have found that the scent of Franklins gets them real happy

I am sure I speak for most of the ladies on this board when I say that no amount of "franklins" will persuade me to put my face in someone's stinky, sweaty crotch.  

Kate Bishop

Absolutely. If its not clean, or has a foul odor, it doesn't matter how many dead presidents are offered. I'm not going there.

And you certainly speak for me!

where a guy can go to be trimmed and prepared for his date.Betcha it will open up lots of jobs for ladies who don't want to become providers while making sure that the providers enjoy their clients' trim job

How about incorporating the shave in the total scene - e.g. part of foreplay. With a safety razor!