New, but not what you might expect!!!

Hi. I have been reading posts on this site for about 3-4 weeks now. I love it. All of you are so insightfull and nice. First let me start off by explaining that I am not the typical TER reader. I am a wife and mother of two. No, I am not an investigator,LE,cheated on spouse, or anything else weird. I am however someone who feels very out of place. I sound more like most of the guys stories, except, I am a woman. I have been married for 17 years. I have 2 children. I am 5ft2, 125lbs,red hair, brown eyes. The reason I started reading this is I guess you could say I am kind of living vicariously through you girls. I read a couple of replies by the guys on here stating that a certain type of wife does not exist. While I agree that there are very few, I am one. Yes, I mean I enjoy sex. I know, I know, I am married, WITH CHILDREN, and I actually ENJOY sex. In fact, I enjoy it way too much. Any position, any time of day, BJ, you name it, I enjoy it. Talking dirty, watching porn, playing with sex toys, the whole works. Here is where my dilema lies. My husband, not so much into sex, and not nearly as wild as I am. OK, I know what has popped into all of your heads. No, I am not ugly, or deformed, or diseased. And no, my husband is not gay and is not cheating. I have been unlucky in life in the reguard that I am teamed up with a man who does not enjoy sex that much. I KNOW he is not cheating. He is always with me. No buisness trips, no late nights at the office. He states that he is just getting old, however it has been this way for over 10 years. He says he cannot keep up with me, and that I am a nympho, which I really think I am. It drives me crazy. It is like a built up energy that has no where to go. I have never seen a group that can talk so maturly and openly about these things. I hope even though I am different then your typical poster, I hope I will be accepted. I will not post much. Just wanted to find out if there is anything that I could try to make it better. At first I thought that it was me, maybe I just sucked(no pun intended)in bed. So I did the unthinkable, I slept with someone else who had been flirting with me for years. I got comments from him that actually had me stop and say "really"? I don't mean to sound conceeded, but I got really good comments.I just did not want you all to get the idea that I am some nympho scank who was not appealing in bed. My husband is not into BJ's, I love to give them. He does not DATY (I learned all these abbreviations from this site, He He)I am talking once or twice, at the most,IN A WHOLE YEAR. Yes, we have even had sexual conversations about it and I tell him what I like. He says"you know me, I just don't get into all that stuff."I will say that I do not DT very well. I seem to have an over active gag reflex or something. And I have no problem with BBBJCIM? I think that is the right abbreviation for that? However if I do this, it takes him like 3 days to get it back up again, and I cannot go that long without sex. I go long enough as it is.And as for 69, yeah right, I'll be that age before I see that again, if then. I also wanted to point out that as most wives would have some sort of problem with this hobby. I see nothing wrong with it.Maybe because I am a nympho though. I read all the reports of all these providers getting all this stuff, and getting paid for it besides that!!! I mean wow!!!And you husbands, if you are not getting it at home then you should be getting it safely somewhere. You only live one time, just once. And there is no way you should waste your life by avoiding something that you enjoy, that should be enjoyed. I actually have a goal to have sex in every state. My husband drove a semi-truck for awhile so that helped with that a little. I tried to get him to do me in an airplane bathroom once so we could be members of the mile high club, but that wasn't gonna happen.Well anyway, you all seem very insightfull, I was scared to post, but thought, what the heck. I hope I did not offend anyone. Any advise from either side would be helpful. I know one thing for sure, if you do come back to another life after you die, I know just what I'm gonna do when I grow up