First I'd like to thank everyone for taking the time to read and respond to my post. I have many in my email as well! My decision based on reading everyone's thoughts is this: I will give the option to all of my clients of either meeting at another location (there's also a Walmart aroud the corner) and driving them over or meeting at a hotel close by.
I know that many guys out there prefer to meet at my place because it's more personal and more conducive to intimacy than a cold hotel room. But with this plan anyone uncomfortable with the pickup location or the idea of it would have an alternative.
Again, thank you for all your input. It was very much appreciated. Also, I can't believe how many reads it got!
and says she is suspicious of a dozen-plus men each week going in (with flowers) and leaving after an hour or so.
Do you have any feel for whether she might do that to get some attention? How often do you ever talk to her, or even take her a little present? You need to make her feel loyal and obligated to you, instead of just hoping for the best.
Two, why on earth do you work in such a neighborhood and even buy the house, with a nosy neighbor nearby, when you know that if you get busted you are risking losing the house and your car as well? Having a separate incall apartment, perhaps sharing with 1 or 2 other ladies, protects you from so many risks.
With so many strangers coming into your home, eventually something very bad will happen, unless you are totally in denial.
I'm just doing some worrying for you.
Maybe you should think about renting time in a "trick pad." Most of these places are shared by up to 10 providers. The providers can lease the facility and share the rent, or they can rent individually from someone who has the lease and furnishes the apartment/condo. In the later, the lease holder is very careful to get the right neighborhood and has the place furnished by a decorator. Usually, the providers get higher fees because of the upscale location. The clientele is also upscale. When you leave work and go home, you are home. The provider does not have to worry about some stalker, home being busted, etc. One such company is [email protected]. They have several locations. You might want to check to see if they have a vacancy. Gook Luck.