I know this is an question that has been posed in the past many, many times over and over again.. but curiousity has me...what makes you as men choose that one paticular women? I know I have heard the old phrase "differnt flavor of the month" but seriously what and why?

For the lady who really got me into this, I chose her because she bore a resemblence to my first girl friend.  It turned out the session wasn't really reliving an experience, but a brand new experience.

The ones I've chosen since then, I'd say it has been a combination of several things.  The first thing that attracts me are her pictures.  Then I read her posts, blogs or other writings.  I look for some depth and originality to her thinking.  I'm attracted most if she expresses stubborn pride and a certain extra joy to what she does, even if she has bad days.  I'll look  at her reviews and what her clients say to confirm that.  

It's strange to say, but I'm also attracted to very polygamous women.  It's a turn on to me if she has 100 reviews.

...flirts with me most convincingly on this board.

There are as many answers to the question as there are guys who read the question

but the last two encounters (and another that I am planning) have been with ladies who either asked me to schedule with them in person or flirted with my on line personality.  (I actually am not like Bizzaro - and sometimes he can be such a pest - stop that now!!! you are saying bad things about me again.... well, you get the drift).  

Seriously, they have seen "something" in either my on line posts or in the chat room that caught their eye... and we have dialogued....   know what, so far, sessions that have been made like that seem to go really really well.  It is more fun, more like a date and when you meet - although there is ALWAYS ackwardness, in these cases - it seems to be less.  I think I like this way of scheduling time.

For the most part, I have not even read their reviews.  the chat, seems to cure a lot of worries from my perspective.  And yes, I like variety so, I am not so hung up on finding an ATF or a LTR.  

When I do "choose a lady" I very carefully read what they write.  I can usually tell something of the personality in what they write - even if it is "stock stuff" there are enough hints.  I also look at the picture - is it stock?  or is it original?  if original that is a plus.  while I use to go on reviews, lately, I have not.  Have I made mistakes - yes.  but I have also had a couple of "unique" experiences - that were just great.  I am getting better at this.

Plan to see an escort.  Sometimes its a spur of the moment kind of thing but for the most part its a planned event whether its a business trip or stress buster due to a hectic work week.  

What type of lady do I want to see?  That all depends if I have the time I will search for days, reading reviews, looking at pics, calling providers to see how friendly or not friendly they are, ckecking emails from established providers and agencies, calling reputable agencies and have them choose a lady for me.  This list goes on and on.    

I like providers with 4 to 10 reviews just starting out but all of her reviews are above or @ 7 and 7.  I tend to seek those out first.  Usually I don't care how good a provider looks and how attracted I am to her if she has no reviews I most likely will not attempt to see her.

I do have a list of to see ladies that I found maybe 1 to 2 yrs ago and never got around to seeing them.  I especially love it when I plan to see someone and for some reason the session was cancelled months maybe even a year goes by and get an email from that same provider letting me know she will be in my area and do I what to get together.  I really like that.

Last but not least providers who respond back quickly, for I am searching and if my first choice doesn't get back to me in time I will continue to search but promptness is a major plus in booking an appt.

I look for girls who smoke cigarettes

Because I can’t seem to quit’m, and feel it’s unfair to get intimate with someone who doesn’t also smoke.

I live in Southern Cal and out here that makes me a real pariah, so I look for GFEs with reviews stating “Smokes but not during session.” I then like to swap a few friendly e-mails. I don’t like “cold calling.”

That being said; I’ve gotta try and kick the butts again cause I’m running out of girls to choose from LOL

regional norms give or take.

The major issue for me is confidentiality.  If the escort requires home and office phone I pass.  I have seen several providers and most will take references.  If not I will not see them.  To date I have seen over 20 different providers over time and I have not given out a phone number or my real name to any of them.  (This was a key when a local agency was busted recently with extensive records on phone numbers and names of clients.)

First, it's got to be possible for me to see her within the restrictions of my schedule.  Mostly, this means she's got to have daytime incall in the Baltimore region.  Doesn't matter how hot she is if this criterion can't be fulfilled.  I've got a little list of "watch for touring announcement" ladies.

Second, the donation has to be within my budget.  I am not one of the guys who can drop $300 on a whim; while that's a reachable (and reasonable) rate, it requires planning for me.  While specials are nice, I try to only plan on seeing ladies whose regular rates are within my means.

Third, I have to find myself physically attracted to her.  For me, the perfect lady is a tall, athletic 25-year-old redhead with short hair and a magnificent ass, but I've dated ladies who didn't meet any of those criteria and had a wonderful time.  It also helps if she'll do Greek, but that's not a dealbreaker.  I do have some things that make me cross ladies off my list -- flakiness, upselling, failure to get a "spark" when I look at her pictures, and so on.  I can't really explain the "spark" thing, but it exists.

Once I've gotten through all my criteria, I find that much of the selection work is already taken care of.  I try to have an ongoing correspondance with several ladies and plan my hobbying in advance.  Still, the one time that I called a lady who had just posted to a message board about a cancellation turned out to be a real blast.

Thank you gentlemen for your honestly on answering my question.. I have been always curious, with all the travels my life has taken me on, the wonderful places I have had the oppurtunities to work.. this is jus yet another question Lovely Katrina has wondered.. Thank you again...XOXO Katrina

Thank you for your open and honest reply!  I honestly do appreciate this.. It takes alot to put yourself out there to the wolves...and there are alot out there!  Thank  you again.. Red Heads are alot of fun aren't they! LOL..
XOXO Katrina

I'm a half dozen years north of MBay's typical 30-50 bracket (see below).  For me, I most enjoy  providers who are 35 and up.  I don't have strong preference about body type but am most attracted to a woman who obviously takes care of herself, is fit.  (Like Zinaval, above) I am attracted to (and return to) those with whom I experience a genuine emotional connection, who have native smarts (doesn't necessarily mean schooling) and healthy attitudes about life.  A woman with a lively sense of humor turns me on.  

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Right now, I search among younger women (mainly 20s) in my area with slim, athletic or sometimes average build.  Then I narrow it down to those with a large number of good reviews.  From that, I can usually pick out a handful or so that I find especially attractive.  And hopefully I can make an appointment with one of them.

BTW, I can't imagine why anyone would plunk down $$$ for a lady that is not total GFE, but to each their own..

There was one thing that ocurred to me later that I thought I should have emphasized in my original reply. There are some factors in my hobbying practice that just make it hard for me to see some ladies that I would otherwise be absolutely crazy about.  

For example, I'd love to see Angie Renee when she comes to town, because she is not only what I'd consider my absolute physical ideal, but I've been pleased to read her postings here at TER; I think she'd be fun to talk to and to just hang out with.  That said, though, I wasn't able to get free the last time she was in town, and I've got a business trip that will have me out of town the next time she's here.

It wouldn't matter if she was emailing me every five minutes with declarations of lust, and offering an overnight special for $2.95; our schedules don't match up (not to mention I'm in Baltimore and she's in Boston), and that means I'm not going to be able to see her. It's nothing personal, and I'd hate for her to think that it was some sort of reflection on her. (Actually, she doesn't know me from Adam's off ox, so to speak, so I doubt she's ever given it a thought. I'm using her as an illustration.)

Sometimes things get in the way. It's a shame, and it can't be helped, and that's just how it is. I've seen ladies take that sort of thing very personally, and I wish they wouldn't, although I can certainly understand why they might do so.

Katrina:
Believe it or not it's not age or breast size.  In terms of Physical attributes, she must be trim, and fit.  Breast size does not matter, but they must not sag. In terms of skills, offerings, th lady MUST perform BBBJ, CIM.  She does not have to CIM if she is exceptionaly beautiful however.  She must also DFK, no exceptions.  I like anal, but I'm not going to trade it for looks.  That's just an added selling point.  Does this sound fussy? Maybee, but it's no trouble finding it, so why make sacrafices.

First, it is always going to be an out of town date as I have a SO.
Second, I want a well-reviewed woman, preferably older than 30.  I'm in my early 60's and, though healthy and vigorous, feel odd to be with a 20-year old.
Third, her mind needs to turn me on.  I want someone intelligent and sophisticated.  I also need to have feel a sense of fun about the woman and her approach to the hobby.  I usually get some sense of that from her website but our e-mails back and forth also give me some insight.
Fourth, her body has to turn me on.  I know it when I see it and, dimensionally, it isn't always  the same.  Body language says so much.
Fifth, the verification process needs to be somewhat flexible.  I have a minor public visibility that still means I need to stay a bit under the radar.
Sixth, I try to repeat if I can.  Second meetings seem always more fun than first.
Hope this helps.