I agree with Sedagive, you are paying for the time no per pop.  If you think the lady may not see it that way then it would probably be a good idea to clarify expected/offered in advance of the appointment and thereby avoid any embarrassment when you are together.

I always ask about multiple pops before seeing somebody new specially in LA. This is an "LA thing" though. I have never had to ask this question anywhere, whether I was in Europe, East Coast or Northern California, but in LA it seems to be such a big deal. To me is the time I pay for not the number of pops, but in LA I learned the hard way, so I always ask in advance.

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I always respect the time when I'm with a lady.  On the few occasions when I've gone over, its been only by 5 minutes and I almost always tip generously anyway.  I get a little angry when I hear guys talk about being even as much as a half hour over.  Look guys, if you want 1.5 or 2 hours, just be up front about it and pay for it. Damn!

Now, with that being said, its only fair that WE get the time we paid for.  I've only had this "one pop" BS pulled on me once and I never went back.  If I want two pops (and I often do), then by god I'm gonna try to make that thing pop twice!  But if I can't within the time allocated, then I'm out of there.  No complaints.

People, respect the time!

Good points Anne - I love brains along with beauty.
Rumor has it you designed and implemented your own website. Wow!

You are right - mutual pleasure is not payment enough, when it has not been agreed to mutually.  The guy doesn't get to change the arrangement, based on his OWN UNILATERAL idea.

To make an analogy, if I enjoy my job, should my employer notice this and decide I don't need to be paid as much???

Every time this discussion comes up, especially when someone mentions a cost associated with a "second" I always consider the length these ladies go to to establish the disclaimers on their websites, etc "Remember that you are only paying me for my time, this is not an offer of prostitution, sex, etc.....whatever happens, occurs between consenting adults..."

The moment, within your period of appointed time, that the "second pop costs more" statement is ever offered, all of those precautionary disclaimers are invalidated, and a defacto solicitation of prostitution occurs.  This is something that really needs to be considered, its nit-picky, but so is the law.

The a la carte approach is still practiced, but typically, you will discover that caveat in the reviews.  I personally shy away from those Ladies as I tend to prefer more opportunities if time and stimulation allows, and also, at least the ones I have associated with, were very determined to get more than one or two out of me..  I like that enthusiasm, it adds to the atmosphere, the fun, the enjoyment, and the final impression once the session ends.  Obviously, I leave feeling it is a better experience for the value.

Sometimes that first pop is a bit too eager to escape, and that second is so much more enjoyable.  Overall, going into a situation knowing you don't have to perform ideally on the first one, because more is offered to you, makes the scenario a lot more relaxing and allows the "performance anxiety" to subside.

Worst case scenario, which I have never experienced, is the "One pop, she leaves" this would personally frustrate the hell out of me, hence, I would avoid anyone with such a review.

Maybe I'm spoiled, maybe I'm picky, or maybe I've been lucky, but so far all the providors I've met were very eager to provide attention to any body part that "perked up" while time remained in the session.


Leco