Initially I thought the core appeal of a provider was her sex appeal, her looks ass tits all that good stuff.

But lately after having repeated conversations with a couple girls I feel I've been seduced... and I haven't even slept with them!

I can't stop thinking about one lady in particular.

It's amazing the seduction power some of these women have... not all, but some.

I see now why some ladies are real expensive... cause they literally seduce you, and man does it feel good to be seduced!

now I understand why so many of you are walking around here with big smiles on your face...

..it ain't just about the sex.

And God bless 'em!!!

The hobby IS about sex. Thinking otherwise makes you delusional, or worse.
Get control of yourself before it is too late.

Why are we so bad at resisting them?

The answer is:  To keep the population up, this is the way men and women were made.

We just have to deal with it.

the old saying...

{No matter how sexy, cute, and seductive a woman is, remember that there is a man somewhere who is already sick of her shit.}

Part of the appeal of the women in this business is you are stripping away the rest of their life to get to the parts most pleasurable to you.  Having a relationship means dealing with all the other parts and they are no where near as fun as the ones you know from the bedroom.

In a way this business is like reverse dating.  Instead of learning all about a woman in order to bed her you bed her first and only learn more if you find her otherwise appealing.

I love being seduced!

Enjoy it when a lady makes that part of the experience but, like others said, don't let it keep you from thinking straight.

I'll disagree slightly with the idea that this hobby is about fucking only. It's about intercourse, and that can include many things besides fucking. You just have to keep those things prioritized.

You got that right!
Unfortunately many times wisdom is lost on the delusional.

you feel so GOOD with this pretty lady making serioius eye contact with you, smiling at you in a relaxed fasion. Perhaps a touch on your arm. Being in your *space*. Getting into your headspace as well.

Some are born with this. I've known precocious teenagers who drove me crazy lol (off limits of course)

All of the best providers have this gift / talent / ability to make you feel *special* in their presence.

Good God it does feel good....

When I think of "seduction," I think of a woman using various methods to induce a man to have sex with her when he would otherwise not do so.

I think that, by definition, when a guy shows up with an envelope to pay for sex; seduction of that sort is not required.

HOWEVER -- I can understand and relate to what you are saying.

Let me explain.

The largest aspects of sex are intellectual and psychological. Obviously, this varies with the guy; but for me it is by far the largest ingredient.

The man arrives (generally) in the mood for sex; but not necessarily in the mood for sex with HER, specifically. After all, she is usually an unfamiliar woman with a fake name.

Thus, one of a provider's most important skills is the handling of the man intellectually and psychologically so that his general want (sex) becomes a specific want (sex, with her, NOW).

Techniques vary a great deal; but you can be pretty well assured that the best of the best have made an in-depth study of male sexuality to such an extent that they can adapt to even different personality types on the fly; ascertain specifics of approach based upon the direction a man's eyes point when recalling information and all sorts of stuff.

I'm not certain that the word "seduction" is applicable because the guy shows up quite willing to start with; but I definitely acknowledge that SOMETHING of that sort goes on and it is POWERFUL STUFF.

Besides, you are thinking with the little head again!

{No matter how sexy, cute, and seductive a woman is, remember that there is a man somewhere who is already sick of her shit.}


how true..

I know, it's amazing... while it lasts.

your absolutely correct about your theory.there are women of all ages that canseduce a man into ephoria.how they got to be so good is the question.i believe that paticular lady enjoys hsex to such a degree that she wants to have total control of her emotions and not let you or anything interfere.i was lucky enough last year to meet a young lady that was just that way.once she showed up,one foot in the door she took full control and would seduce you silly non stop.

a combination of sex drive, sexual desire, nature of pleasing,plus her sweet personality plays a def role.