Below is a thread about Bi-way threesomes with the bi being 'guy'.

But, when it comes to 3-somes, they can be such a blast, or have some disappointments.
I've made no bones about mentioning my faves: MMF and although I haven't had that in my provider life (only in my personal life), what has helped make it successful was:

1) I've been with both men singly
2) Both men had met and got along together and are 'equal' sexually and in their 'feelings' for me; and in their expectations
3) We talked first about some things we all would like to happen (positions, etc.)

While that worked well, I'm not sure that NOT having those prerequisites means it wouldn't work. In fact, 'surprises' are often a nice element.

Although I'm not Bi, I do enjoy the MFF 3-somes, but LARGELY (since I'm not Bi), it depends on who the other girl is and how we click. Talking alone with her first and even having some 'practice time' helps a lot. When the male is a client, I think it's important to:

1) Make sure we know what the client is expecting ahead of the time together

2) Discuss some things you definitely want to do, or see, etc. so that those needs are definitely met

3) Ahead of time (the girls), discuss or practice out the 'choreography' of it to be sure it works by flowing well, and keeping safe but not disrupting the flow

4) And guys, it always helps if you clue us in on how your body functions, ie if you pop this way first, it won't work to do this, but if you do this, then it will take a long time to do this, but if you do this, then you can, yada yada..

What has worked for you? What definitely didn't work and so you would have other recommendations??

Thanks

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based on who knows - conversations, etc. Such as, one man might ask if I ever do doubles, and if I said yes (which I do), then that could be the result on a profile.

Or so I'm told..

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Here are some experiences...

1)  I'm not even sure if you would really call this one (MMF).  A good friend of mine (M) and I were with the same woman together.  We both actively explored the women at the same time but were not sexual with one another (we did not touch each other).  Neither of us is bi.  In some respects, it was almost weird to be next to a male friend in that environment.

2)  A wonderful MFM experience.  Both of the ladies were into each other (not really sure if they were bi, though).  They were very accommodating and made sure I was happy.  I did my best to have them enjoy themselves as well.  They were together with another hobbyist prior so it wasn't the first time.

3)  A very disappointing MFM experience.  Both ladies were very good friends but not bi.  We discussed what the session was to be like and they either changed their minds or were not honest in the first place.  Neither of the ladies would touch each other, only myself.  It ended up that one of the ladies went into another room and I enjoyed myself with only one.  Nice but not exactly what I had in mind.

Just one person's .02.

How else to explain so many profiles with

Two Girl Action: Yes, really Bi
Will Bring Another Provider: Yes

but no reviews of a FMF session, just singles.

Of course these are pulldown menus and some folks just get careless.

I must admit the best time I have is that of my ATF and 2 of her (F bi,F bi) Friends joining in for a real blast! It was like playing Twister naked and I was the mat.I didn't know where I should put my face first.  Then they whipped out the toys! This was more fun then any guy should ever have. And the best part was that we all had a great time and got together another half dozen times or more. If you ever have a chance to try this with a willing provider and her friends don't think twice or even 3 times about it. Yes 4 is my luckey number!

Hey, Sedona - Thanks, you know why.  
Now, I've heard of this but not seen it:  The game "Name that Pussy" in FFM threesomes.  The women blindfold the guy (and sometimes tie him up) and then take turns sitting on his face or dick, or both.  He has to -- you got it... name the....

Mine is under Ginger..

Sometimes a client wants a threesome where there is no female-female interaction, just two women playing with one man. That's fine and certainly can be a lot of fun.

However, since most men enjoy watching F-F action, IMO the most fun threesomes are the MFF where there is interaction all around. In these cases, both women should be truly bi--not pretending otherwise.

It's been an awkward situation when the other supposedly bi  lady whispers to me just as we are getting started that she is not really bi. It throws the whole session off, because now I feel inhibited, and the other lady acts standoffish and isn't really into the action. IMO the client certainly didn't get his money's worth.

(BTW, this is not the case in any of my TER doubles reviews.)

As with anything, communication is key. Before he confirms an appointment, the gentleman should let the ladies know ahead of time his expectations for the visit. If he desires an interactive session with two bi women, then that is what he should get, not one (or both) ladies pretending to be bi.

A first for me yesterday!

I'm still"glowing"!

Cheers!

Your sage advice(deja vu all over again...wink,wink) produces VR as positive proof.

and we make a good team, because I'm really comfortable with her, and in the things we do.

PS. Good to see you posting here, Chrissy.

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See TER members, this is an example of an appropriate occasion for use of capitals.

Emeraldvodka and James86, this is called spreading the love.

Re((( YOU DA MAN!! ))))

and I must thank you for your sage advice also Michelle.

btw, HOW BOUT YOU,ME,and CHRISSY get together later on...lol
and I don't mean for three handed pinochle.

Cheers!
thanks again.... to you great ladies...

As for us getting together...Hey you never know...Let's not rule it out and NEVER SAY NEVER!

Yes! Oh hell yeah!! When are you posting the review? I wanna hear all about this one. Now you have really lost your virginity ya know!

Funny!
I'll send you all the "naughty" details in a PM.

Cheers!