I swear, almost every day I read reviews that state "she wasn't the girl in the photos, but..." and then they give the same excuse:  "the little head was doing the thinking."  They end up getting ripped off, or having a really poor experience.  What I'd like to know is, why do some guys fall for this?  I think using the above excuse doesn't give the true story and I'd like to hear from you guys the real reasons you stay.  Sedagive.

I've had a couple of experiences when the lady wasn't up to the standard that I'd like.  One I sort of knew what she looked like and the other I didn't.  I went through with both of them because I guess I didn't want to be impolite and basically tell them they weren't up to snuff.  Fortunately, neither one of them was of the high $ variety so it wasn't a big financial hit.

Why do I stay?  Because Ive noticed that if expections are not met in one area they may be exceeded in another. If I concentrate on the negative it will dull whatever positive experience that may play out. Its only after the experience that a complete determination can be made. Some of my best experiences were found in unexpected places and in over looked packages. Curiosity I suppose.    Live long and pleasurably

Personally, I've had this happen to me twice, and in both cases, I politely excused myself. Pretty much told them I didn't appreciate the deceit, and they had no problems with me leaving.

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happened a couple of times and my solution was to kindly move along taking measures, hopefully, that allows all parties to keep their respective dignity intact.  Anything else just is a bunch of attitude that buys nothing for anyone...

1) To be polite or avoid awkwardness or a scene.
2) The little head was running things and didn't want to have to start all over making an appointment with someone else.

But I did say, "You aren't the person in the photos."

The answers once were agreement. The other was some lame excuse about getting the wrong photo in her ad "again."

Good topic, Sed.  Here are recent threads that relate to the same issue..

http://theeroticreview.com/MsgBoard/ViewMsgBody.asp?BoardID=12&Page=1&Messageid=42742

I just read a review of a gal. The gent stated that her incall smelled of cigarette smoke and urine. He also made reference that she looked nothing like her pictures and although it was probably her, she was much, much older than her pictures portrayed. The place was filthy and he was totally uncomfortable with his surroundings. But he made this statement..."I was about ready to leave, but I thought what the hell...

http://theeroticreview.com/MsgBoard/ViewMsgBody.asp?BoardID=12&Page=1&Messageid=43823

If you're displeased with the appearance, hygiene and/or service of the provider, do you say something to her? If not, why?

happened to me just yesterday with desire of sd eros. still kicking myself in the rear. 2 frankies down the drain.

I have overwhelming needs, but little willpower.
In reality, if lady that shows up (prefer outcall)different to photo my actions would be same as others have said to politely bring discrepancy to their attention.But have at times offered gas money. Question for Winky or No Wink are you saying someone would go through with "session" and spend $$-$$$ in order for review credits? Seems uneconomical.

I, for one, do feel bad about sending a girl away.  I have had great experiences with agencies that sent another girl because the one I wanted was busy.

by the appearance or hygiene or anything else they complained AFTER they enjoyed themselves.  And spent that hard-earned lump som of money.  That's why some of us feel hurt and confused about.

Elysina

In one of my reviews, I state just that:  That I'd agreed on Karen, but I got Jessica.  Other than they were both female, the two ladies had little in common.  But, I was alone in my hotel room, in a strange town, and feeling a little lonely, so my attitude was (if you'll forgive the pun), "any port in a storm."  As it turned out, the evening turned out about average.

You're implication is right, I should have sent her packing.  But, I'm not an ogre.  And she really was kind of cute.