Mishaps happen during the course of furious mtions, condoms break, semens leak, she has hidden sores....and so forth. This is a good question but it would be hard to know if you are safe at any time.  Since providers typically have multiple appointments daily, it's hardly assuring to see her results for a month ago, a week ago...since they are kind of expensive to have everyday.

However, may be providers should be a policy for clients.  On my last visit to a provider, i showed her my results taken a day earlier to assure her...(no BBFS just frenchy/dat, and BBBJ)

Oh yes you do have the right to ask, although I do agree with the other posting on the true status is sometime hard to determine. I get tested every 3months unless the condom breaks on me which only happen once so....Nothing is 100 %. Just be safe then sorry because no one is perfect. Observe,Observe, ask ?, ask ?


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Nothing wrong with asking I guess, but a provider who is irresponsible enough to 'work' if infected, or who never gets tested wouldnt probably not tell you so anyway.

Better to be careful and protect yourself.

My answer would be "yes if asked in a direct, respectful manner, but it would be pointless for the previously stated reasons." I hope my answer is not to controversial this time; I have already been burned at the stake for other postings I have made this week. ; ) Although I love controversy; enough is enough for one week.

I would actually volunteer that I had been gettng routine checks and that I didn't have anything, then I wait to see how she responds.  Trouble is, they pretty much ALWAYS respond with "yea, me too."  I think you have a better chance of getting an honest answer from your girlfriend when you seduce her the first time. The only thing I would expect from a provider is maybe a bit of a flinch and a look of discomfort, which of course would tell me it's best to simply leave.

"You don't have AIDS, do you?"  I replied calmly "Yes, of course."


He was stunned and said "Huh!?"

I replied "All us dirty whores have AIDS.  But we'll just stick a condom on you and you'll be fine."  Then I laughed at him and hung up.


Whether a provider is HIV Positive or not, you still need to use protection.  And if a provider is positive for anything, do you really think she is going to admit it?  Men don't have the market cornered on lieing.