Okay, here goes.  Most guys don't like to admit this fact, but I have a problem with 'stamina'.  I have always had the issue and would like to get some advice on ways to last longer.  Are there any techniques, pills, lotions, etc that will help?  I want to be able to fully enjoy the session and it is a always depressing to start something only to have it end prematurely...  
Please help a fellow TER member...  
Thanks!

Save your juice for two weeks, relax, and explode upon those providers that will do that special act that you enjoy most. Otherwise use alot of ginseng, yohimbe, and viagra.

LC

I have worked with my ATF on this problem, which has bothered me for a very long time.  What I do now is to use a cockring, the kind that goes around your balls too.  It is rubber, and they come in a variety of sizes.  It is great for delaying the inevitable.  You can get them at websites such as sextoys.com.  I highly recommend.  It has improved my enjoyment of this hobby about 400%.  

I actually put it on before I leave home to go to a session.  This is advised against in the product info, which says not to wear it longer than 20 minutes.  I guess if it was super tight, it might be a problem.

Good luck

Just before you are about to come, stop.  Just stop.  Calm down.  Then start again.  Repeat again.  On the fourth time (your teeth will be itching by now), come.    

Use this method each time you bang -- you should gradually be able to develop more stamina.

there's a simple technique to this.

when you feel yourself approaching an orgasm, withdraw or stop the stimulation. place the heel of your hand across the tip of your cock, and curl your fingers over the head so the tips are along the underside at the base of your glans (the purple tip). squeeze your cock very firmly, digging your fingertips into the glans.

this cuts off the stimulation and will usually stop the orgasm in its tracks -- but it won't affect your erection. you can now continue with the sex. if you come close again, repeat. after two or three of these treatments, you'll find your cock has become somewhat numb. now you can usually ride a good long ride, and come when you want.

using a condom will also reduce the stimulation, but you must be careful not to tear the condom with your fingernails when you do this (you keep them trimmed for the lady, don't you?). the best way is to do this during a bbbj, then when you're numb enough, put on the cover.

Thanks for the advice.  One more question:  What is the standard for a 'second time' during the same session?  I am new at this, but most times, the ladies say "Only one time".  Is it standard to pay per orgasm???

To last longer, you can:

1. jack-off before your session

2. drink some alcohol before your session

3. take viagra before your session (some guys have reported that Viagra desensitized their dicks)

4. use sprays or lotions with desensitizers

5. use condems with desensitizers in the lubricant (i.e. Trojan Extended Pleasure or Durex Proforma)

6. for a more permanent cure, do the "squeeze technique" http://www.sexinfo101.com/intercourse/lastinglonger.shtml

7. for a more permanent cure, do Kegel exercises to strengthen your PC muscle (the muscle you use to urinate). For more info on Kegel exercises, check out http://www.sexinfo101.com/intercourse/kegel.shtml and http://www.tips-advice-remedy-premature-ejaculation-sex-cure.com/penis-enlargement-2-cure-pre-ejac/report.html

8. to last longer and become multi-orgasmic, read the book "How to Make Love All Night (and Drive a Woman Wild) by Barbara Keesling

I just discovered that a half a tab of Xanax combined with 25 mg of Viagra will help me perform like I was 25 again.