i have had several providers make statements like" be careful you dont fall in love with me" "were not in love" "this is not real" it may just be the way i come across to them.are the providers afraid that the guys will fall for them?and have the guys had the same statements made to them.

I'm more used to comments like these:

"Don't go all the way in!"

"Why do you have to come twice?"

"Are you done yet?"

I'm not afraid that clients will fall in love with me and
I don't make any of those statements to them.

I have had a few guys, that thought they were in love with me
and thats when "it was not real". Sometimes it is forgotten that
it is a Fantasty.

Heck you just must have soulful eyes, in which case you might not need to be paying.

That not only did the client fall for me, I fell for the client~

It does happen.

Shaye

Any time you put a couple of people together engaging in an physical and sometimes emotional activity you're bound for some to take it to be more than it really is.  It's human nature.