Well everyone after being on this site for the last couple of weeks I think that it's time to make my presence known. I'm a guy that hasn't done the hobby for a while but will be getting into it soon. But first I would like people to get to know a bit of what I'm about. I am personally a romantic by nature and love to please a woman sexually, physically, emotionally, and mentally. I like to make people laugh cause if there's no laughter then well why be here. More so I love to see smiles. I'm young but can seem quite old at the same time. I'm all about poetry and art and all that if anyone would like to hear or read some of it just pm me. Anyway I would like to say a good day to you all and may you all have happy dreams and happier lives. Good bye for now.

You should do well in your meetings with providers.  I think that most of the good ones prefer people who are like what you introduced yourself as.
    My only advice is that you maintain a positive life perspective, both emotionally and financially.  Some of the experiences that you will have, if you do good research before making choices, will be so awesome that you can easily get lost and end up endlessly chasing the sensations that you get from them - while this can be joyful, it also can produce problems in your life.
    Good luck and please maintain, or enlarge, the positive life perspective that you appear to have now.

You'll do well. Just don't let The Hobby become a substitute for real life.

  An interesting thought 'MR' being that although the fantasies realized in the hobby are fantasies the people providing them as well as asking for them are as real and raw of a view of humanity and the human condition as one could ask for. More often I find the illusion of puritanical idealism and the endless persuits we invent to distract us from our sexuality
to be the "substitite" for real life.

  FR.

Good advice from all, make persepective the order of the day.

A fantasy is something that has no presence in the real world, or it's acted out according to something that lacks that presence.  A provider/client might act out a fantasy together, but the relationship itself is every bit as real as all other human relationships.  

/Zin