Who here has procured that special female provider that makes a nice overnight bed buddy without requiring a bank loan or cashing in the 401K.  $1000 or less for 8+ hours of a well rounded menu with a reasonably nice lady.  All locales considered.  Email me direct if you like.  Thanks in advance.

If you are a regular, or you develop a really good rapport with the provider, you can certainly do an overnight for $1,000 or less.  But you've got to keep in mind that this is something you'll get in the context of seeing her a lot and paying her mucho bucks in the long term.

Also, consider this:  a provider once told me that sleeping with someone was far more intimate than sex.  "When I'm asleep, I'm completely vulnerable; I have no defenses.  That's not for everybody."

Reoable, but you have to look at the big picture

Hi!

Might be hard to find. Lots of providers can have three one hour dates and make that.

xoxo jada

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I don't think you are going to find many providers who are going to be willing to do an overnighter for $1000. The average provider rate is $350-$400. For $1000 it is possible to work out a 3-4 hour date but I think you are going to run into problems looking for an overnighter at that rate.

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Infact, most of the providers are in the $1200 - $1400 range.  That is usually for 12 - 13 hours.
Others can be much more expensive, and sometimes you get what you pay for.  The cheap seats are not always the best!!

if it is really something that I would thoroughly enjoy when all is said and done?  My reasons for doubt:

1.  Lack of spontaneity.  In a civvy relationship, when unprotected sex is a norm, one of the joys of sleeping with a willing partner, is the stealth slip-it-in while she sleeps move.  This is a great quickie and it is equally fun and erotic.  I just don't think this experience would be the same with the necessary interruptions of placing on a jacket and making sure the provider was ready and willing.
2.  Related to the above:  Would all mid-night spur of the moment interludes be prefaced by each of you getting ready (e.g. brushing teeth, fixing hair, etc.)?        
3.  Good morning!  Really??  I know there are people who awaken chipper and sing-songy.  I'm not one and I want to shoot those that are.
4.  What's the move for being the first to say 'It's time to really sleep'?  I'd likely fight myself not to be the first to cave-in and I'd feel bad if she was doing the same.
5.  Speaking of sleep.  I like cuddling and spooning as much as the next person.  But at the end of the day, my best sleep occurs when I have the whole freaking bed to myself.    

I think I could double this list in a heartbeat but I'm sure that many can also respond with lists citing the joys of the sleepover.  Don't get me wrong.  I'm a big fan of extra long dates with my favorite friends.  I'd just assume spending all that time with them awake, enjoying a dinner together, perhaps external entertainment and intimacy at the start and end of the date.  

I'm curious how many providers and guys are really big fans of the sleepover...                


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Disclaimer: Alias used to protect the identity of the provider and her reputation.  She doesn't offer the below experience to just anyone.

I have been seeing this one paricular lady for quite a while and always have taken very good care of her with both personal and monetary gifts. After seeing her for several months, she now always ask me to spend the night and I never say no.  I will not reveal what she charges me to stay over night, but it is very reasonable.  I will also add that other ladies have ask me to stay overnight but I declined.  I think this unique situation works for several reasons.  As mentioned above, I take good and I mean very good care of her.  We have chemistry when we are together. She treats me more like a friend instead of a client.  Our time together gets better and better and she has the most comfortable bed (Queen size) I have ever slept in.(lol)


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I hope you were kidding. That borders on rape.

. . . I probably would not considered it rape, but I would wish I knew that ahead of time; it's simple courtesy. One should not presume an unilateral act that is acceptable to you would be acceptable to another person.

I did try to look at it the other way. If by "2 willing partners" you meant that the act was discussed ahead of time, it would not be stealth, would it?

The key is consent.

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I enjoy the occasional overnight with the right person, but it seldom means more sex, sometimes in fact, the opposite.

I have had up to three cups in a two hour session, but I have yet to have more than two in an overnight, and frequently one is all she wrote.

There is a chemestry in an overnight where the relationship aspect is far more overpowering than the sexual urge.

This can sometimes be as, or more enjoyable than, the sex, but you should be aware of it.

This may relate to my age as well (50+) but I had overnights going back about 15 years ago, and the lesson is the same.

Moral of the story:  Do not do an overnight unless you really like the person and they like you, or you may be fairly unhappy with the results.

Also, never do an overnight with two women.

I tried it.  It does not work.

How many dates can you book from 9PM to 9AM. Plus most of that time is spent sleeping. I think that's easy money.

I think providers should let ME have overnighters for FREE, because I can protect them from the Bogeyman !!!

As Mr. Fisher points out it very well might not mean more sex, but there is a different level of intimacy in it. Sleep can be a challenge, but by the second or third time with a gal it is pretty easy to get enough sleep and then enjoy breakfast (in bed, out of bed or both). Unless there is a time pressure overnights are the only way to go for this guy.

re: 3 dates. Many ladies have overnights that are 4x the rate of an hour. The lady I have spent the most time with explained that an overnight was much nicer for her and also easier than 3 dates (she has a 2 hour minimum) which would net her a bit more than an overnight. It is more relaxed, less intense work, and much nicer to have to prepare for one gent instead of 2 or 4.

Well, I guess this post is blatantly self-promoting *sweet smile*

Your rate is excellent for an overnite.  I paid that rate to a lady 2 years ago and since then she has raised it by $300 more.  She never gave me breakfast.  Is your breakfast as good as Denny's???  LOL

Probably. Can you get your smiles sunny side up at Denny's??? *g*

BBrain,

In some cases it probably would. (As in if she slept through the whole thing).

But I gotta tell ya - being woken up that way can be well.....hmm, how to say this - damned HOT!!!!!!

It really depends on the two people involved. It can be quite a violation - but it can also be sizzling sexy hot too.

Maybe I'm wired differently than Mr F. but I just don't get the whole higher level of intimacy thing that supposedly goes along with an all-nighter. Especially the comment about it 'being as or more enjoyable than sex but you shouldn't think of it'.  What does that mean?
I hobby primarily for the sex and the whole temporary fantasy.  But I know it's a fantasy and never ever get caught up in it past when I walk out (or she walks out) the door.  Feelings of extended intimacy belong in the realm of a real (read non-compensatory) relationship.  If a woman, provider or otherwise, wants to spend the night, I will do so if I feel that we both have the necessary heightened sense of intimacy I feel is essential in order to sleep (and I do mean sleep) with another person.  I will agree that it is, in it's own way, a more intimate act than intercourse.  And, I don't want to pay specifically for that nor do I want to fantasize it.  
Does any of this make any sense?  I thought not.

we all know it is the FOOD people the food. lmao

Overnights are a first step from the "wham bam, thank you ma'am" into the "till death do we part" aspect of a male/female relationship.

To that end, what I meant was that this should be acknowleged and even celebrated in the overnight; but not ignored or denied.

In the overnight, the time is often put towards going out to dinner (and getting ready to go out to dinner), plus maybe a movie or a show, a walk around the city at night; not to mention that bothersome necessity: sleep (with some snuggling time tossed in hopefully.)

It's a wonder there is ever any time for sex.

And who can make love at their best when your stomach is full of Fettucini Alfredo?

If you are not very fond of this person, then I suspect you will not have the best time and should stick to the one/two hour fun fest we all know and love.

If, however, you are very fond of them then you can have a wonderful time celebrating your relationship with them and come away with some wonderful memories.

I have, and I plan to continue.

Sounds like a slur against Mexicans to me...

It's hard to find a good all nighter Candyland board player these days.  Damn video games.

I can certainly understand the appeal of doing several people in a night over just one.  Overnight is practically a relationship.  But I wouldn't mind her working in a client or two during breaks.  Or doing the pizza boy for an original thin crust with brownie squares.

A lot of time and effort has been spent on talking here about how overnighters under a $1000 are "rare" or "unlikely" or whatever.  I find there are many at that price range and in my experience they are as good if not better than the overpriced ones.  I was hoping to uncover a another goodie with this post.  Mission accomplished.

. .  Canadians.

afraid that the dude took Viagra and he will do it all-night. Having said that, I do not think there is much choice under 2,000.

. . . your SO probably said "Honey, I'm going to bed now. When I'm sound asleep could you please stick your huge cock into my moist pussy?"

My point was that when she is unconscious, she do not have the opportunity to say no.

This is an impromptu act that we enjoyed together for many years and as Sins attested, it can be quite enticing.  Of course it was consensual.  It's not an uncommon form of nightime fun between lovers BBrain and if the mood were to ever change on a given night then the advance could always be stopped with a conscience 'no'.

Why not just go out on a real date?  One where you probably will pick up the tab for dinner and whatever but not for the lady's time.

Hey Holey, I'm a killer Candyland player and will only charge you $500 bucks to play you.  And I absolutely promise, no sex before, during or after.

BB,

I think you are taking this from too narrow of a perspective. In an unhealthy relationship, where the sex is neither mutual nor satisfying, behavior like this certainly would be extremely inappropriate.

But in a relationship that includes a healthy sexual exchange, it can be very different. Do you mean you've never tenderly roused your better half to moments of morning bliss? Truly a pity hon. It is and can be well - heaven. Besides it need not necessarily be done in a wham bam, thank you Ma'am fashion.

I recall a SO who on a Saturday morning would occassionally wake me with a morning song - down there! I loved it when he did that! Nothing beats waking from dreamy bliss and going immediately to laughter followed by a delicious O. Alas, pity he and I never really connected outside the bedroom, else I'd still be enjoying morning chorales a la' the silver tongued devil.

The point though, is that sleep is not necessarily sacred ground in a healthy relationship

LOL I loved Candyland when I was a kid!!! How about some chutes and ladders too??? Another childhood favorite! Kids these days don't know what they are missing

and it was indeed worth it!  The lady was very sweet....   we have even gone out on a "civie" date!  but I have to say, she was very sweet.... and considering that I had not slept (real sleep!) with anyone since my divorce.... I was so nervous....   but what a nice feeling to wake up to a lovely young lady... who made me feel as if I were the king of the world....   but then again.... she is special....  Oh, our civie date?  something that SHE wanted to do... and we did it right!  and that too was a great nite....

All it costs me was my entire life savings and twenty years in a hellish marriage.

I'll pass.