building the self confidence of a man.  The best of providers have made me feel 10 feet tall... and that cannot hurt sex with an SO - especially an SO who tears ya down in all aspects of life.

It's intimacy and honesty.   If you're in a relationship with your SO that is predicated upon fidelity, then you have to carry the "burden" of not being faithful.  If your relationship with your SO allows extra-relationship sex, then it's anybody's guess, depending upon the circumstances.

but not with my (now ex) wife.

She was just not into anything unusual, when we did have sex (which wasn't often).

One already said it well, if our SO was doing her part in the relationship providers would not need be seen.

Many SO do not truly enjoy SEX so we seek that and more from providers who offer things we enjoy.

Sex is just one of those things, the campanionship comes into play here too.  

I see a provider who truly loves giving me a shower before and after our time together.  My SO thinks that is for the young at heart.  

So I am young at heart when with a provider who I enjoy.

1-You don't end the relationship with the SO because the grass looks greener on the other side...you just play on the greener grass sometimes

2-You pick up a few ideas for the bedroom.  My SO is really into it, just not often enough for me

3-You realize that good sex (an amazing blend of intimacy with the spice of life) is not easily, if ever, found in the hobby.

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