I don't get really turned on by ordinary vanilla sex.

What I really like is to be kept right on the edge of orgasm for hours.  

I've met this young Asian girl who has amazing hands and a real playful personality.  

I'm not talking Tantra here.  I'm talking about playful teasing and denial.  During a two hour session with her, I get about 4 or 5 mini-orgasms without ejaculation.  Then when she decides to push me over the top, she does it very very slowly and keeps me there for what seems like a very long time.  And all the while she is doing this, she is either smiling or softly giggling while maintaining intense eye contact.  Oh, and she is completly clothed and I am completely nude.

I guess it's just different strokes, but for me, this beats just plain sex any day of the week.  She calls it "dancing in the coulds".  Why would you guys only want to be there for 10 or 15 minutes when you could be there for hours ?????

Am I alone on this ????????  It's just really nice to be able to give up control and give it to someone who enjoys taking it.  When I start to really moan and groan and beg her to push me over the edge or stop, she just looks up at the ceiling and smiles, as if she's relishing the noises that she is bringing out of me, with no intention of stopping.

It's just amazing.

I have to admit since i am multiply orgasmic that i like the regular vanilla stuff too, but a good long tease is a rare and beautiful thing. Unfortunately it is not something that too many men are interested in providing a women with. My top three lovers of all time were masters at this and I believe that their self control and desire to control my orgasm for some time was what ulimately made them medalists. Achieving release after a good long tease is so powerful I have nearly passed out and had aftershocks for nearly and hour afterwards. Not to mention after having that done to me I am willing to do anything for them....and I mean anything.

For me, being kept on the edge for a long time makes for an intense orgasm.  "Dancing on the clouds" is wonderful way to describe it.  The most intense O I'd had in a long time was a few weeks ago with someone who took control and teased me and kept me on the edge for a long time.  A little pain (I like that) and a lot of pleasure.  He would get me close and then stop.  Like the girl you were with, he would watch me and smile, seeming to be taking pleasure in it, too.  A few times I really thought he was finally going to let me cum--I was SO ready--but then he stopped again.  It was almost tortuous.  He would do other things to me for a while and then start again.  When he finally allowed me to cum, OMG!!!  It was incredible!  I can't even describe it.  I actually cried immediately afterward, which was a little embarrassing, and I don't know why it happened, but I couldn't help it.

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The best part of the orgasm is the last quarter second before the spasm of release. When you've done enough cloud dancing you'll find it possible to come right up to the brink of a whopping orgasm and stop on a dime.... the brain is coming while the body is still. It feels like big soft blobs of light are skittering off the inside of your skull. Add in rapid breathing technique with a shallow huffing breath, very fast, like blowing out all the candles on a cake one after another...
 When you slide back in you can get into body trembling and controlled vibrations-resonances, moving in and out extremely rapidly over a short distance as you slowly work your way to the edge,... then detonate.... like getting struck by lightning.

Yes! You always describe things so well. [end]

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You're all whacked!

and.............. loving it!  

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Who is this girl and where can I find her??????????

Interesting.  Two ladies replied that they enjoyed this also. No men.  

I think that in general, men want to maintain control over the situation.  Guys, you have no idea what you're missing.  In our day to day business life, we must maintain control (or at least pretend we have control) over most if not all of our daily situations.   It's soooo nice to be able to just give it up to someone else.  Especially if that someone else really enjoys taking it.

And yes, she also threw in a very sensual prostate massage with some alternating light and not-so-light pinching with her fingers.  She also likes to sit on a chair with her legs crossed, arms folded, head cocked and smiling as she watches me play with myself.  She really kinda studies what it is that I am doing, as if she wants to learn as to exactly what it is that really turns me on.

But the thing that is the best about all this, is her playful attitude.  The smiling and the eye contact is what really does it for me.  Sometimes when I'm cumming, she'll just cradle my head and hold my eyes open with her fingers so she can look at them.  She says she likes to see them "glaze over".

Ok, I gotta stop.  This is getting me wayyy toooo excited.

I can give for a long time and when I finally do let go... BLAM! fireworks waterfalls and rainbows (with the right partner) and in the afterglow when I'm still inside and she clamps her pc muscles I get the most pleasureable twitch and groove... Nice.

The actually act of sex is what I like.  An orgasm only last a few seconds, but sex can easily last a 2 hour session.  I've found very few providers who can hang that long.  But if you're connecting with the provider, like you said--it's amazing!

Joey

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I agree with you 100%... Nothing is like the eternel tease knowing your going to release at some point!

one of my all time best hours was with a lightly complected black girl who called herself Jenny... excelled at manual stimulation and loved straight sex too. She would get up to a nice gallop then slowly ease herself off, remove the cover, and administer a hj with such worshipful delicacy that you didn't want to breathe for fear of missing a single sensation. Then she would ease herself back on and go wild, raking skin with her long fingernails. I would be nice indeed if more providers knew how to combine ingredients the way she did. She quit after a short stint and I've not seen the likes of her since.

Lots of great ways to prolong/delay the ultimate explosion and enjoy miutes/virtually hours of on-the-edge intensity...tantra of course is 1st thing that comes to mind...check out "yoni" massage and "lingam" massage at a good web site, for example www.tantra.org. A tantra teacher got me into this and it has forever changed my total approach...has made for the best mutually explosive encounters with lots of great GFEs. It's worth the practice and discipline...you might almost "black out" when that moment finally arrives...but the energy that builds throughout your entire body leading up to the slippery and wet Conclusion is what it is ALL about. only thing is you and your partner need to be on the same page when exploring this over-the-top experience...also helps make you a great BFE too...and the YMMV factor will be like something you've never experienced either.

Not weird.....great.  Can I get in contact with that exciting provider?  Please let me know how? Thanks....