why don't you PM reviewers (assuming she is reviewed) and ask what the rules are? That might work. Another suggestion might be to go to the appropriate regional board and ask if anyone knows about the lady.
OK folks, I am getting a little confused. I have had the pleasure of meeting two wonderful providers to date. In both cases, they were comfortable sharing some intimate information (albeit oblique)regarding services via internet or phone contract prior to us setting an appointment. Very helpful in being clear about what one is to expect during our time together. Recently, I made contact with a third provider who gave me a good toungue lashing (no pun intended) via e-mail about my inappropriateness in asking for this information. I had indicated in my origional communication that I could provide local provider references as a means of dealing with LE concerns. Her suggestion was to schedule an appointement and, apparently, she would clarify things then.
My question. Do providers really want us to go ahead and schedule multiple hour appointments with them knowing that the gentleman might leave after discovering that the particular service he has in mind is not offered? That seems like an incredible waste of both of our times.
why don't you PM reviewers (assuming she is reviewed) and ask what the rules are? That might work. Another suggestion might be to go to the appropriate regional board and ask if anyone knows about the lady.
Why wouldn't you find what you're after in the reviews? Most ladies with a few reviews seem to be described in some detail. It certainly makes me uncomfortable to discuss such things on the phone or in email, even when I've checked references.
If she where to discuss what she would do with you that can be constrewed to be illeagal. Check the review's and PM anyone you have a question on. I answer that type of email all the time.
Email the reviewers. I don't think it's wise (or classy, is that the word I'm looking for?) to post for info on the boards. GENTLEMEN dont kiss and tell on the boards. They do it backchannel. That's the best way for the discresion (sp?) and privacy of all parties.
I belong to a site called Date-Check. It is an adult verification service that one becomes a verified member of when a member provider vouches for him. In effect, every time I have used a D/C provider, she has in fact become a reference for me. The fact that she has seen and verified me becomes part of my user profile on D/C. D/C does not ask for or retain ANY personal information about who you are, where you work, etc. And it's all only 60/year!
Now, each member has a profile screen that may be used for any number of things. I have posted on my profile those activities I enjoy. When I e-mail a member provider, I simply give her my D/C ID#, and tell her to read my profile, which automatically comes up when she types in the ID. I then ask her to contact me back if she's OK with my requirements. Viola, instant (almost) confirmation of what I can expect on her date. And also, the single most painless verification process I know of.
I for one would love to see more providers (and clients) as members of this service. It solves many of the problems that are regularly discussed here and on the local boards.
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