A good friend of mine who is also a hobbyist recently saw a provider who gave a BBFS, which shocked me because he was always ranting about 'being protected' at all times. He tells me that he found her on BP and the session went great. He strongly urged me to try her. I told him, "No, thanks!". He acted all pissy at me for turning this lady down, but I told him, "I am not taking chances here".  

Note that it doesn't say "between THREE consenting adults".

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Given the fact you see this provider on a regular basis and you are practicing "SAFE "sessions I think she would appreciate a heads up on this gentleman and let her make her own decision as to accept him, if she is gettin a reference from talktotrees I feel like its his responsibility to state the facts im sure she will be discreet with the info

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Almost every client you see does or has done BBFS or busted a condom or screwed a sheep. If you don't approach your business with that attitude, you are in the wrong business. There, now all your regulars have had a huge burden lifted.

Just remember that your ATF may well have a boyfriend that she sees and has sex without a condom.
Every one starts taking chances when they get out of bed in the morning.  

So because everyone takes chances he shouldn't tell his friend to get his act together, nor warn his ATF?

Are you craving for some attention? It happens when you only talk to trees.

Sorry mr fisher had you on my mindI had  just checked out a post u commented on when I posted that meant talktotrees lol

I know that I've both broken condoms and had them almost come off, so there has been skin-to-skin.  I have to believe that this happens to most guys over enough time.  So be as safe as you can, but there aren't any iron-clad guarantees.  Occasional to routine testing on both sides is easy and advised, just in case.

Coined a new term for BBFS (fish boning)

Dayum. Well played. I'm out!

Of course you need to tell your ATF...she's counting on you.  She has NO idea that any guys are going BBFS with their SO...or heaven forbid other hookers here.

I guess I'll go lick a petrie dish. Lol Imagine the horror. Good analogy though.

Tell your hobby friend to get tested.  Tell him that you would prefer that he not see you ATF until after he does.  Note that he should wait about 6 weeks after he went BB with the backpage girl, to make the the agar in his petri dish is fully dosed.  If he blows you off, then tell him you are going to tell your ATF not to see him.  You don't need to go into specifics - just tell her you would prefer that she not see your buddy.  She can make her own conclusions.    

Good video! Did you see the teenager at the end? He had the typical angry teenager look on his face lol

If anyone honestly is that dumb to think that all of the P4P is covered...shame on them.

Notwithstanding the fact that reading comprehension is clearly not your friend, you just made my point.

Guess you realized that the OP is a troll...just not till after you posted your drivel.

As is obvious in my original reply to this thread, I am well aware that most of the sex that happens in the "real" world is BB.  My point is that if you are playing in P4P and seeing a girl for the first time and you decide to go go bare back, you should absolutely, without fail get a current STD test.   Instead of acknowledging that, you jump right into type and go off topic to insult just about everybody who posted here, in the most stupid and incomprehensible manner possible.

The OP asked about his cock blocking position.  YOU had to bloviate about the dangers of STD's.  Plenty of info on STD's on the newbie board which is often taken from the CDC site.

But what I'm really concerned about is,  if he's going to rat his friend out to his trees.  We all know he talks to trees so, what if he tells one tree and the rest of the trees talk to each other?  By golly,  the whole forest is gonna know about his friend's bbfs incident and his ATF just might avoid barebacking trees too if she stops seeing guys who are friends with guys who talk to trees.

In my original reply, I expressed my opinion as to what he should do - talk to his buddy, etc.   I get that you're  the type of fellow that would consider people who are acquainted talking about a possible STD being spread among them as a "cock-blocking" issue.   Believe me when I tell you that most of us are concerned about the health issues implicated in this thread.  I suppose I could have just posted something like "see the newbie board for info on STDs", but I didn't.  If that in some way upset you, too bad.  There is a reason for the "ignore" button for people with lack of self control who are unable to that on their own.  Please consider using it.

It's been more than 4 months & he got tested recently. He is disease free!!! He also mentioned his buddy doesn't know his monger name! He thought that was pretty funny.

Way too convenient and nobody in their right mind believes in coincidence.  Whether its bullshit in him sending you a PM (why you, at best a total stranger, just like the rest of us) or what he told you - its been four months and the OP decided just now to bring it up? - None of it passes the smell test.

Truncated canary bus...
Massively undeserved ego... He thinks he invented the wheel.
Jury is still out on whether he's a provider.  
Angry so angry all the time.  

Oh, by the way, your mother called me, she needs some cash...asked if I was up for some bbfs, I told her I would pass. I prefer safe sex with younger providers.

Don’t know when to quit gracefully instead digging deeper and deeper.  

You really do need to get out more...it's a bitch having to explain all of this to you.

None of it is very impressive.  I especially like the usual bully tactic of throwing out an insult and then trying to "cock block" a reply by accusing me of not "bowing out gracefully".  I think we have the makings of a new award:  DBOTY!  We got about seven months to go, but don't forget to vote for these three very obvious candidates!

Says Mr Pot to Mr Kettle

Guess it's tough for you to see what a naive sort you are.

I would not have your friend meet your ATF. If he does call her, let her know that he might ask her for BBFS.

And hoping you'd take it literally.

Say something! Wth do people always have a filter when it matters, and zero filter when it doesn't? That's a relevant chat

Thats the worst case of hpv ever though...

that the "others" aren't interested in the health of themselves or their providers who they see.  

Yours and Jinx are the 2 smart and responsible posts in this thread.  

EOM