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Re:If the lady is email only, (doesn't want to converse), I usually avoid! .....
KateBishop See my TER Reviews 2859 reads
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I would never post my phone number online, I try to avoid weirdos calling me or anyone calling me past a decent hour.  Most ladies who are email only are happy to schedule a telephone call either before or after she verifies you.  I am as I understand the importance of chatting on the phone, getting comfortable before sending the information over or agreeing to an in-person meeting.  

Kate

When emailing a provider, what is the typical length of time a person should wait for a response. There have been some providers who never respond, which makes me wonder why post an email address in the first placee? You should expect a response in 24 hours, 2 days, a week? When do you finally give up and send another email or make a phone call?

mightaswellfaceit960 reads

Most won't repond and your odds go down if you are not concise and to the point (see link below).  Don't put all your eggs in one basket.  If a provider doesn't respond within a couple weeks (less likely after a few days anyway) just email her again if you are still interested, hone your message and pretend you never emailed her before.

Don't take it personally - lots of valid reasons for delayed or absent responce and lots of "bad business practice" in the provider community.  But heh - what skill set ARE you looking for?!

Don't get me wrong, ladies.  MANY of you are great at responding to email and conduct your business with style and grace...  speaking of which, can I set up a duo with Style and Grace?  PM me...

I usually respond the same day to emails and I think for most people they respond within 24 hours.  If you don't hear back in 2 days, you should call.  Hell, I prefer people to call me unless its a general question they need to ask me.  I get annoyed when people email me for a same day appointment when I have a number posted. That's just me though.

I also prefer a phone call if it's a same day appointment. I'm checking my email pretty often but I can't be home all the time to check it & I don't have one of those blackberry things, lol.

:) Sara

I usually give them about three days before moving on and try to give them enough info so they can determine if they want to see me or not. Allowing three days seems to work and gets responses from 90% from the girls Im interested in.

1)  The provider is not being professional.
2)  You send an email like this one: "hi are u
   available tonite?"  Nothing else but that.
   What do you expect?
3)  The provider is sick and might not respond
   until the next day, taking a day off, or
   forgot to place an "auto reply" on her
   email if she is on vacation.

Hugs,
ciara

Jose Can You See933 reads

If she doesn't have the decency to speak with me, I usually boycott and go elsewhere!  Life is too short for standardized forms.

-- Modified on 6/5/2006 1:45:38 PM

I would never post my phone number online, I try to avoid weirdos calling me or anyone calling me past a decent hour.  Most ladies who are email only are happy to schedule a telephone call either before or after she verifies you.  I am as I understand the importance of chatting on the phone, getting comfortable before sending the information over or agreeing to an in-person meeting.  

Kate

My post was in response to the original post, not whether someone should email or call. And, I think I've mentioned before that I call someone after we've already made arrangements. Again, you're not in the business of providing and don't know how many calls a day we get from weirdos. I think this was covered in a previous thread about a week ago with you. :)

Hugs,
Ciara

personally, I love how they tease us.

anticipation built with electronic flow
helps to create the perfect show

Friendly notes written and sent from afar
Day upon day waiting to see this bright star

She was a breath of fresh air for me
and demands to be treated politely

that is not bad or out of place
its a fantasy that I wish in my face

it was delivered with great care
and helped me sleep well, when out there.

Listen to those who try, my friend
to guide you and not their rules to bend

They are wise and wish to be
at ease and at comfort you see

Worth it, to you, I do not know
but to me, the time was certainly not slow...

And while not everyone's cup of tea
With who would I wish now to be

So I say to you, think of what you wish to do
grow up, think it through and please get a clue.



Seriously, how these ladies conduct their business, IS their business.  they all have their own ways to make them feel safe, and at ease.  If you wind up with less than satisfactory sessions, it may be your approach.  

Everynow and then, In this hobby, I have an experience that I do not think can be duplicated... and those I never try to repeat for fear of disappointment.... well, now I am rethinking that position... because of an experience that was positively that good.  But the lady has rules... know what, that is ok.  cause if they make her comfortable - that is good!  As I have stated before, I am nothing special, and my demands (yes, I do have demands) are simple - mostly just to be treated nice.  But if that is what I want - that is also what I try to give.  I also try not to take advantage of the situation....  Standardized forms?  not a problem...  

Let me provide you with a situation!  which would you rather have?  a provider who asks for your info up from - and then destroys it after verification sees you and you have a WONDERFUL time .... or one who does not verify... and while with her, you go to the bathroom and she goes into your wallet... gets you name and addy?

Think about it.  I share my real name and info with gals.  if they don't screen in some way, I do not see them... I feel uncomfortable!  

Have I spoken to people prior to meeting ?  yes - In everycase.  Oh, And I have surprised at least one provider by text messaging her.... she was not used to that, and yet I do it all the time.... so.... there are lots of ways to communicate... in work - I usually try to com the way that the person prefers.  SAME HERE!


-- Modified on 6/6/2006 7:22:57 AM

If you are finding that MANY providers aren't responding to you, you may want to take a look at your emails.  I generally won't take the time to respond to someone who hasn't taken the time to write a decent email.  Respect goes both ways.

Otherwise, as it's stated all over my website, I respond to emails within 24 hours unless it's a weekend or holiday.  If I am away longer, I post it somewhere on my site or turn on my auto-reply.  Before writing her off, read all of her website to see if she states a reply time.

To answer your question, I'd give her 48 hours to respond.  A day to respond and a day for an emergency.  

Kate

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I give her a 3-4 days, then resend. Sometimes e-mails get lost in cyberspace. I disagree with the comment above that you should only use telephone -- e-mail is so easy and has the added advantage that you can receive an e-mail while engaging in DATY. On the downside, I've had providers check their e-mail while I'm engaging in DATY. But afterwards they tell me I'm really good at it. LOL

I would have to agree with most of the guys on this topic... I usually prefer emails for appts 3 or more days away... this way if there is anything I forget (ex. where you are staying, phone number to contact you, etc.) I can refer back to mey email and this way there are more successful sessions.

I rather get a phone call for same day/next day appts and I really hate it when a guy calls me to schedule something for a week or more in advance and then asks me to save his number... I hate to come off as rude b/c I'm not... but I can't save 4 #'s of the name Mike and remember you when I haven't even seen you yet. The only #'s I save are for guys that I have seen at least 2times.

Please email for 3 or more days in advance... and call if your time is limited on when you need a call back. Please make sure that you give the provider of your choice enough to go on when you do email her. The more detailed the better...

I travel a lot so when a guy emails and says I will be there in July... it really can't help me... then I have to email... what dates/times... I do prefer email... but not 20 emails back and forth...

respect,

~tiffany.diamond~

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