There are plenty of providers who don't require references.  See one of them.  While you are there, ask if they'll be a reference going forward.

1. Rosie Palmer is available 24x7 and does not cost a thing.

2. None of the providers that I have seen require references. You have to do some work to find them. They are out there do your research.

Use a reference service. I use http://www.roomservice2000.com. (See link) Another service is http://www.date-check.com

for both the ladies and the gentleman! It does take some patience, too.
Boy, if you were to go back to the threads when I began, SD really gave me a hard time! Tough ground to break, but I knew it would just take time and I had to wait. Even tougher because I don't ask for reviews and most of my clients don't write them, so that held up 'progess', too - getting enough reviews to give the locals 'confidence'.

References are helpful, yes, but you will find someone who will see you with either tighter screening, or security measures.
Hang it there, it'll happen. We've all been through it.

To hell with them, it is their loss in money and the gain of another provider. I live in Seattle where references are very common, even the majority. But this is Seattle and the people here are so aloof and eccentric it is no wonder. Most of America you really do not need one. It really makes no sense these references. There will always be a risk for the Provider. What if the client provided 3 ref to girls he treated well, but he murdered the other 50 that he kept hush about? come on. That is why until I move back to Texas, I only poon in Vancouver. The ladies are sooo much better up there and, NO REFS REQUIRED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

However I will do my own internet probing, psych and neuro exam. I am tough to book with, and rarely answer my phone, but I can be reached through e-mail. If you are late often or cancel you have a very difficult time scheduling in the future. I am a bit eccentric, aloof, over educated and hyper sexual. Pierced, tattooed, dreadlocked model and not a morning person. Oh yeah I am a believer in the import/export part of the biz, but all flight taxes etc, must be taken care of beside the donation. The Mile High club membership will be taken care of on your next booking,