Not sure if I have much to add to this amalgamation but do have a couple of thoughts. One, being about the same age as SC, I know I don't look like I did when I was in my 20's. I had more hair, a better body and more testosterone than I knew what to do with. Women were attracted to me based on my looks. That isn't the case, or rarely so, these days. Have to depend on my 'cute' personality. Lucky for me, I don't make my living in a field where looks are important and I guess that a lot of providers, as they get older, sometimes feel like Wille Mays did out in centerfield in 1971 (guys will get this reference, the women probably not).
That being said, why would a guy schedule with a mature provider if he's into youthful-looking faces? I prefer mature providers. I feel stupid, awkward and out-of-place with young hotties. I keep imagining how grossed out they have to be with a 50 yr-old bald guy even though, as my ex-wife says, I have the body of a 20 yr old (running, lifting, good genes).
So don't despair Carolina, there are plenty of us guys out there that appreciate you even if you don't remind the world of Hillary Duff
My latest review on here states that my face looks like I am sixty-five!!
Now how the hell does this stuff happen??
Merle Norman, I am Pissed!!
If I have 8 pages of reviews on here and almost 90 on the big dog..Do you think all of my dates were with "The Hunchback of Notre Dame"!!
I know..I blindfold my dates so they can't see my ugliness!!!
My gallery doesn't show my face either....I am a rip-off artist!..An ugly one at that!!
I was talking to another provider at a luncheon...they always invite me because they need an UGLY face there to laugh at...Well anyway she mentioned to me the mean review that had been posted on her and how she felt and that..Get this..she was thinking about QUITTING!
The Dirty little Twisted Story-telling Review Meisters do HURT LADIES in this BUSINESS!!
Hmmmmm
I want to SHOUT this out to YOU..
I DON'T LOOK Sixty-Five!!!
Please....PLEASE.....PLEASE.....
Either I need a new mirror or a new head or someone has been such a jerk and wrote such a nasty comment about me!!
Tell me what to do!
Kisses
SexyC
PS...I always EDIT for typos!! 
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Trying to write his review before he left for bowling. He should just stick with that hobby.
Not everyone is going to love us.. and it makes our good reviews look more real...always remember..
Doesnt look like he reviews many highly.. One of his reviews it went on about a girl not allowing a finger inside her and other things.. when it is clear on her profile.."yes on the outside "
There is no bad publicity..
Only bad press.
ask for it to be taken down perhaps?..Im sure most men will flag it.
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...it would be a funny review system if hobbyists were only allowed to rave effusively about providers.
On reading the review it does not appear to be overly malicious in tone. Just a fairly disappointed guy who has a number of other reasonable reviews. On that basis, what grounds are there for having the review removed?
It is never nice when people tell you are no good, in any field, but they say you should take the rough with the smooth. They are correct.
When you say something FALSE, a LIE, something Malicious...YOU are never up to any good!!
This year I have not stayed in a Hotel in Dc that had a LOBBY!
YMMV is true...
The info he adds to the review..could have been taken from my website...My sports discount..why add that to the review..filler??? The bottom line is this..Reviews are to be OBJECTIVE!!! I don't have a face that looks 65..I will be 50 in
May..Anyone who has spent time with me knows my body drank from the fountain of youth...I am happy with where I am..BUT when you feel like you want to add arsnic to a review....THINK!!!
I love it ROUGH and SMOOTHHHHHHHHHHH
I also love the Human Spirit..... but the dispirited Humans..I realize they are out there...I feel they need some attention, too!!
xoxo
SexyC
...you now seem to be saying that the review is straightforward false because you have not stayed in a DC hotel that had a lobby. In your first post you mainly just expressed your anger at him calling you old. Which in fairness is an opinion he is allowed to express if he wants to. I say he, because it could be a she who egged him on to write that. A rival maybe?
I know that there are false reviews out there, that are designed just to hurt. The site management can look at that and reconsider reviews, if you are alleging it is false. They cannot just remove it because it says you look old. Hobbyists themselves have to look at that and use their own judgement on balance.
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If you are happy w/ yourself whats the problem???It's only one persons opinion, either you are hungry for attention or you are not as happy as you seem, the human spirit allows for differences of opinion .
I am very happy! I have a curious mind...A kind soul..and I hope that the post I wrote opens up the minds of some..and when they prepare to write their next review..I hope they THINK...
SexyC
Undoubtedly there are misogynist reviewers and you only have to read the comments on the boards to realise many men have less than favourable views of women in general.
I agree that doesn't make a guy who writes a bad review a misogynist, far from it. But reviews from guys who have their own serious issues with women are helpful to nobody.
...I agree that there are clearly some overly negative and misogynist reviewers, but to me that problem is far outweighed by guys who just ridiculously flatter girls because they had a good time. That is the real and greater problem on sites such as these.
You just have to look at at a guy's reviews on balance to see if he is credible or not. Sadly for the lady in this case the guy's other reviews seem reasonable enough to me. But that is not to say it is definitely true. I can remember more than one occasion that providers have asked me to say something unflattering about a rival on our boards at home in the UK.
Looking at the person who wrote the review it is very recent in terms of the number of reviews they wrote. We had some problems with people writing fake reviews in DC. You never under estimate what your competition is willing to do to knock you down. If you do a small investigation you might be able to figure out who the culprit is.
If you look sixty-five, you must have done the most amazing one-week aging in history. You looked wonderful just last week.
You are far from ugly. In fact, I think you are quite attractive. Plus, I like the fact you check for typos!
Have a great day and forget about an oddball with a bad review.
who might have considered you, now think "Ok, maybe she IS ugly, and on top of that, she's got self esteem issues, and likes to rant" ! If this post weren't so PATHETIC, it would be funny. I will say that the guy seems sincere in his review, and you DO have lots of scores of 6 for looks. IMHO, a score of 6 in looks is a polite tip off that a lady is NOT very attractive. (I'm sure many will disagree here). Your rant makes you seem MORE than a little unstable, and causes me as much, or more concern than your perceived ugliness. Good luck, BUT...........
a satire in some ways...I KNOW I am not ugly..I am comfortable with my attractiveness...My beauty goes way beneath my skin..to my soul...What I wanted to create was a dialogue about reviews...Objectivity....Bring to the surface feelings and have others offer up their opinions..I am not "Pathetic"..It was MEANT to be HUMOROUS. I am not unstable..although my bum leg is acting up a bit today..
hold on the cold cream is dripping on my keyboard...
This business can be a wonderful way to explore one's sensual self..and for the most part my reviews tell it all. What bugs the heck out of me is this..I don't want some a$$hole keeping me from my O's!!!
The whole idea of pointing out my "ugliness"...ranting and self-esteem issues..
IS THIS
Do your homework..And you Sir should..I hardly rant, have issues and am very upbeat and positive..you sound just like the fella that wrote the review! Read the posts..read the reviews and get to know your dates. Disregard jerks that have mental and eyesight issues and have fun!
xoxo
SexyC
Not all reviews are fair and it's not nice to be on the receiving end of a negative review. But, IMHO, you shouldn't get so worked up about it. You have lots of great reviews, this is unlikely to harm your business.
One thing I've always failed to identify with is escorts who place so much emphasis on looks. I know I'm not the most beautiful women in the world but I am very happy in my own skin. I place much more value on performance comments and marks than those for looks.
At the end of the day, I'm sure 99% of men and women would prefer to have rockin' sex with a normal looking person than rubbish sex with a hottie. Your performance marks are very good. Don't worry xxx
...but it is never nice to get a bad rap. Particularly if you know it to be unfair. I got refused a job a few years ago by a guy who basically said I was not as good as they were looking for. That was not true and he quite obviously had an agenda. I was outraged.
As you say, the lady should not worry because guys do read reviews on balance and probably ignore the odd bad review. Depends really on the credibility of the reviewer and his other reviews.
those is for a 3-- Homely. All 20 guys can't have a vendetta, or be blind. I think it is a bit crazy, and very unfortunate that you chose to highlight a personal negative in such a public forum.
I'm a hobbyist not a provider. I wrote the reviews.
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The alias might be a provider who is not completly awake.
And I thank you for pointing it out! That fella that wrote that review also stalked me from board to board..Kinda like you are now..I wouldn't let him have any GREEK and he posted to me thru pm's on here...Some guys just have issues and for a lady on here..we have to live with it. If a jerk writes a review like that..I disregard it..and so do my dates...I have no qualms about bringing up any of my reviews..there will be someone like you that celebrates the ediotic ones...The fact that i can post this in a public forum I feel speaks for my self-esteem..What we get in reviews at times..we also find in a public forum like this..Opinions we take with a "Grain of Salt" like yours and others that open our minds and hearts to an understanding of this business.
BTW
Don't you have a job?
Kisses
SexyC
...in a post above you said that you had not been in a DC hotel with a lobby and implied that the the review is false.
Either you met him or you did not?
I have not stayed in a hotel with a lobby in the Dc area at all in 06.
I tried searching my mind last night when I saw the review go up..to remember if I had a dinner date in Nov or Dec where I met a guy and his face fell when he saw mine!! All of the info in the review can be found in my website and blog and from reading other reviews...My big 50 coming up in May..
my "sports" discount..I right away sent the guy a pm thru here asking him to name the hotel etc..and also wrote to ter support. I have been in this business almost 2 years..I have a few reviews that are false..they remain on here..what can you do..some meanies are always around..On TBD..which I am sure you don't care that much for...I have almost 90 reviews..I am in the National top 10..Whatever..I wrote the post..without the details..they are for admin to decide what to do..but what I wanted to open up to the forum on here was..to keep in mind what we are here for...FUN! Sensual exploration..I believe there is good and bad everywhere in life..I accept them both..and I will even ask you all to take a "Look" at what is happening in the business..If you please!
SexyC
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1. you did indeed meet this guy and the opinion he expressed is his genuine one, though it does not meet with your approval.
2. you never met him at all and the review is simply false.
After all your posts on this, I'm still not completely 100% sure which you are actually saying!
I want to say this...
I believe the review is false...if it is true it is from 05. I do not have a face that looks sixty-five.
I ONLY wanted to suggest that while we enjoy ourselves in this hobby we do it in an honest and respectful way. I tried thru HUMOR to address my concerns..I see I confused everyone..and now I hAVE TO GET READY TO CATCH MY PLANE!!
Thanks for all the comments...
xoxo
SexyC
...why neither of you have noticed that the review in question does NOT MENTION A DC HOTEL!?!
Rather, the reviewer's other reviews are from the DC area, but his review of you seems to be from Carolina. So if your belief that the review is false on you're reasoning that you've not stayed at a DC-area hotel with a lobby in '06, then that is faulty reasoning. Now, if the reviewer PMed you and specifically stated that he did meet you in a DC-area hotel, then you have my apologies. But from where I sit, the reviewer in question seems to have seen you in Carolina, not DC. Regardless of where he saw you (assuming he saw you, which is still "iffy") it was piss-poor of him to write that he thought you looked 65. Even though the reviews are meant to serve a purpose in letting others know of his experience, this guy was raised without class.
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I have met gents in their hotel lobbys..I reread the review after I read your post..he stated he met me in the lobby..he LEFT the hotel...It seems to me his other reviews are all from DC..I assummed he saw me in Dc. I do have dates from Dc that see me in RDU..but I have no lobby!!
If he saw me this year in Dc..I had no incall with a lobby!! That is a fact!
Thanks for making me think...giving me food for thought...Objectivity in a review should be fresh..within 3 months I believe....I would love to recall my dates and reviews are helpful and also can be very wonderful to reflect back on..I guess I'll wait to hear from support and perhaps from the reviewqer himself!!
xoxo
SexyC
...I assumed the lady was called Carolina and worked from DC, since she mentioned DC.
On reading the review again it is not clear where he saw her. Could be either, or a third place.
you seem to be the one with the fury. do you think we care about whether or not one guy finds you ugly? ps thr passive agressive thing is not sexy, Sexy. you say BTW dont you have a job and then sign it "kisses"? another jerry springer moment...
And he did say a lot of nice things about you. But I know it is hard to over look a comment like that.
It is a sad truth that when a lady does not show her face in pictures, we form a mental image based on her body. It has been my experience that the mental image has never matched her actual face.
(1) you can say they're wonderful 20x, and the one time you say they might be above average, they have a shitfit; (2) they have no concept of adjectives being meaningless unless there is a curve - ie, that one babe is hot is meaningless information except by comparison, which infers another is not so hot.
The reason is more subtle: men tned to communicate for information; women tend to communicate for relationships. So when you talk to a woman, she's usually not listening to what you're saying; she's listening to get some idea of how enthusiastic you are about her. So when women complain that men are liars, it's because that's what they reward.
The primary purpose of the board is not to validate a provider's view of herself, but for the hobbyists to compare notes. Any sensible person would realize that there is going to be a certain amount of inaccuracy, and even bad attitudes. Complaining about bad reviews is likely to be counterproductive in that it draws attention to them - unless you believe the "no such thing as bad publicity" concept.
SC,
You're HOT and in shape, don't let that weasel even cross your mind again.
AM
Not sure if I have much to add to this amalgamation but do have a couple of thoughts. One, being about the same age as SC, I know I don't look like I did when I was in my 20's. I had more hair, a better body and more testosterone than I knew what to do with. Women were attracted to me based on my looks. That isn't the case, or rarely so, these days. Have to depend on my 'cute' personality. Lucky for me, I don't make my living in a field where looks are important and I guess that a lot of providers, as they get older, sometimes feel like Wille Mays did out in centerfield in 1971 (guys will get this reference, the women probably not).
That being said, why would a guy schedule with a mature provider if he's into youthful-looking faces? I prefer mature providers. I feel stupid, awkward and out-of-place with young hotties. I keep imagining how grossed out they have to be with a 50 yr-old bald guy even though, as my ex-wife says, I have the body of a 20 yr old (running, lifting, good genes).
So don't despair Carolina, there are plenty of us guys out there that appreciate you even if you don't remind the world of Hillary Duff
lol~ OK, calm down and take the ProZac.... There are always people out there who will really wish to hurt or go against grain.
I would suggest to you that one review such as this will not suade hobbiests... When I use reviews (and I do not always use them) I go by the majority of reviews... I read the top reviews and one or two of the bad reviews. That gives me the most optimistic encounter that I could have - as well as the most pessimistic encounter that I could have.
Also, I have learned through the hobby, there are older women who act young - and younger women who act old.... there is not way to know who is who until you actually meet.
As you and I have posted before, and as I am an older hobbiest, age is a number that is stored in the mind... and is not a fact with hard and fast rules.
please - find a way to let this go. if you don't it will creep into your life.
And I don't give a rat's a** about typos...
Okay!!
No more typing for me..on with the packing..I have to catch my plane...I am reading Bruce Catton's Gettysburg and I am on The Climax!!
What a great read! Thanks for your post..
Kisses
sexyC
You couldn't be ugly if you wanted to be and spent millions of dollars on surgery, makeup and the like. You are a true beauty, which emantes from inside and can't be camouflaged on the outside.
butt ugly! lol! I mean really - what gives? there is someone for everyone.... more precisely, I do not think that most who engage in this hobby really are surprised by the lady... her looks etc. Some dig older chicks, some heavier chicks, some blond, some black.... I really try to stay away from value judgements like that - if I meet someone who I do not find attractive to me, I will say, "I did not find her to my tastes, but tastes vary...." Variety, the spice of life.
Oh, and some like green dudes... or at least I hope they do...lol!!!
I had to wear a lot of green while in the military. Now get down and give me some pushups 'til you puke. Just kidding! Wink!
Hugs,
Ciara
....what have I told you time and time again, don't worry about some guy who decides to give you a kick in a review.
I haven't read many of the comments in this thread so there maybe some duplicate comments, but, here is my slant:-
First, if you read his reviews, he gives just about all of the ladies he has seen a little bit of a kick in some form or fashion;
Second and most importantly, you know who you are, PERIOD!
Third, nearly 90 % of your reviews for performance are 8, 9 or 10;
Fourth, 96 % of your appearance ratings are nice or better.
Fifth, You ARE a real HOTTIE!
Don't worry, anyone who is fortunate enough to spend some time with you is a real lucky guy. Relax, enjoy life.
Finally, a question, did you forget about Boston? ;~(
Bob
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In all my years, I have never made love to an "ugly" women.
There is nothing ugly about any woman who will share her bed with me.
There is nothing ugly about any woman who will give her body to me.
There is nothing ugly about any woman who is willing to spend intimate time with me.
I would deem it an honor to spend time with a beauty like you.
Just my opinion...
B
and there are some photos where the face blurring is not that severe so that you can get a fair idea of what she looks like.
If that is the face of a 65 year old, then I'm Grandma Moses.
And by the way, thanks for the oodles of photos. You look spectacular.
and no one would call her ugly. In fact, someone misstook her for a 29 yr old (she is in fact 42).... As I said, it is all in the braim... and some braims work better than others...
I think that's the first time I've typed oodles!!
Oh Yeah!! When I took those..the one shoot with 200 pics in it....someone said hold them back and put up a few at a time..I thought to myself..WHY? I took them for you so here ya go!!
xoxo
SexyC
PS..The first 2 shoots are winter 05 and the remainder are winter 04.
Your beautiful, you have to many good reviews to persuade others from seeing you. This is a business and everyone have different opionions of how the service was. So be professional about it and I hope thats not his real name you revealed.