Question for the ladies.

Do you prefer to see Regulars or New Clients and why?

How often do you like to see regulars and how much is too much?  

I try not to be bias. In any case I prefer low volume (for scheduling, safety, physical health, etc) but it’s also bc I get shy and nervous meeting new friends but we all have to start new, and I can’t imagine not having made some of the connections if I only favored regulars. New is exciting!

Otoh, I appreciate regulars and consider them more as part time bf’s, or easy mutually beneficial friends.. the dynamic depends. Sex, conversation, and service is great (new or not) just grows with rapport and is fun to spice up the next booking. It’s best to recognize he keeps spending his time and money with you, and don’t bother analyzing how often.

To answer the prompt directly, I enjoy both for different reasons - The only time I can definitively say I have a preference is: if a new friend is difficult and I wish I would’ve given their spot to a regular, or if a regular becomes too comfy and starts poisoning the experience/becomes the mouse in “If You Give a Mouse a Cookie” and I have to debate firing him for a new friend.

The goal is to make new clients regulars, but not everyone repeats. Chemistry is important. I have regulars I see once, or twice a year FMTY. My ATF I have been seeing my regular once, or twice a month for the last several years and he's been a client for over 12 years now. He will never write me a review and that's okay. 😆