My regulars and I text, email, and communicate, the day before, and the morning of scheduled events. I personally, would find someone else to spend my hard earned money on.
I have been seeing a VIP provider regularly over the year and half. To say she is incredible is an understatement (which is the problem). Her reviews are always10's The experience is unbelievable.
Here is the problem. She has canceled twice on me…no warning, no reason, & no sorry. O.K., there was "I'm sorry text, I'll make it up to you", the second time but the first time it was pure silence. Me on the other hand am left with my dick in my hand, frustrated, and left with questions. I know, I sound like a fool going back the second time, but the male hormone is a wicked mistress.
My questions is, do I try for the trifecta or cut my losses?
I usually live by; stand-me-up me once, shame on you…, stand me up twice, shame on me.
My regulars and I text, email, and communicate, the day before, and the morning of scheduled events. I personally, would find someone else to spend my hard earned money on.
Some VIP, top tier providers are down right flakey. Yet theire reputation remains untarnished because things like a biased review systems, backchannnel support of influential (read as wealthy) hobbyists, and flatout spin from different sources.
Consider that NCNS reviews are not allowed on many sites. NCNS posts may be mederated, or worse -- flamed with the reputation of the poster tranished. Poor reviews may be disallowed (because "they 'must' be wrong... look at all the good scores,) Or... the review scores are changed and edited to be higher.
I'm not making any specific *allegations*, i'm jus' sayin'.
There is a provider near me with near perfect scores, who charges a substantially higher amout than the area bears. It is common to hear comments from locals who see her who find she is nowhere near her ratings portray. So go figure.
I went into your reviews and didn't see a 10, so I'm assuming you never reviewed her because you wanted to hoard her all to yourself. That's understandable. Why would you want to share a damn good thing on a review board?
Yeah, I'm being a smart-ass.
So here's the deal. Why do you subject yourself if you feel she's so abusive to you? Meaning she doesn't respect you, your time or your money?
There's fucking thousands of ladies here that will treat you like shit and take your money in the process!
I'm curious how many F* words will be used the 3rd time though. lol
I agree, there are thousands of women out there who will be more than happy to take the OP's money and not 'leave the OP with his dick in his hand'. (a little TMI but I thought this expression from the OP was friggin hilarious, lol)
But I also think that some ladies know they can get away with certain things simply cuz there are many other guys willing to put up with their irresponsible ways. It's a sad fact that most men are chumps and think with their lil winky when it comes to getting into a hot babes' pants.
One scenario I can think of: If another guy calls at the last minute, offers the girl "I'd like to book a 3~4 hour date with you"... I could be wrong but I'm betting that the odds are against the OP if he only booked 1 hr or 90 minute, if she has set aside 30minutes to an hour in between appointments, to get ready for the next. Odds go even lower, if he never wrote a glowing review for her, has bad-hygienes, has sores and stuff, has hair growing out of his ears and nose, leaves skid marks on the bed sheets cuz he forgot to clean himself down there, gets too prevvy about her personal life during a casual conversation, gets too demanding, etc...
I'm not implying the OP did any of those, just guessing some possibilities where a girl would not want to see a client the 2nd time.
Here's an idea. If the girl is so hot and so damn worth it, why not try tipping her or booking a longer appt? Last I checked, ladies here are working for $$.
your priority among her regulars is fairly low, or she is just unprofessional or has other issues (family?) that introduce irregularities into her schedule.
While the hobbyist's expectations of a regular sometimes get out of hand, if she's not giving you "satisfaction", it's probably best that you move on.
some ladies are quite the hobbyists and variety is the spice of life for them.
rather than make a big dramatic decision, why not just wait a while so that you become the spice of variety. no need to burn a bridge when a simple adjustment will do.
I agree with Claudius too. That is what I would do.
But I am one of those suckers born every minute. After such a long association with her, she thinks she can get away with this with you. And if you go back, she can! If you do continue with her, I wouldn't blame you. She really does it for you; we don't always find that. Just decide what's more important to you.
I can only speculate, but in order to avoid a repeat of this I have to ask you this:
You give off an air of having been totally infatuated with this gal. (Which may be totally understandable if she is that hot.) Perhaps she picked up on this and was uneasy about it, and like most people, she did not want to confront you on it so rather she decided to just cut you free.
I say this only so that you can think about it and thus avoid having the same thing happen again.
Circle back later, if you choose. I have found that a Favorite provider can let her game slip when she begins to take you for granted. I once took nearly a year off from a Fav. I still see her but only in a rotation of Favs.
problem, fist time you did not bitch, so there was no need to apoligize the 2nd time. Call her out everyone needs a wake up kick in the ass now and then. It might be it for you but it might help others.
Thankyou gentlemen, all of you had a hint of the truth and in all reality I knew the answer. Been hobbying for a year now and I have learned a shit load about providers (read "women"). A few more callouses and wiser.
Go see the rest of your bucket list, this bothered you enough that you posted here. You're going to have it in the back of your mind and have an attitude, whether you want to or not, if you see her again. Lots of good outlooks in this thread. Anyone can have something come up. And if it was a matter of an offer for a 4 hour date and she ditched your 60 minutes, well, I used to have things like that on a smaller scale at the pink pony club in my city--a girl would be spending time with me, dances, me paying for her time when she's not dancing, and then a regular comes in and she lets me know this guy pays her about 4 bills an hour to mostly talk with him, and he'll do it for 3-4 hours. I thank her for her honesty and since i wasn't interested in trying to compete, I say I hope she makes a lot of money the rest of the night. (Never mind that the schlub is a lousy consumer and for that amount of $$$$ he should join this hobby). Her time is her business inventory. But OP wasn't offered any explanation, and that is bad customer relations. The lady I've seen more than anyone else and the next two in terms of frequency are all wonderful at communication with me, courtesy when arrangements might need to change, etc. Doesn't make me feel like a customer, like i'm her guest (that's what that "i forgot it was a service" rating means). cancel w/o explanation is bad customer relations, and doesn't nearly make you feel like a guest, makes you feel like an unimportant customer. in this field, truth is she could retire tomorrow anyway when she decided she'd stored away enough money, or just hit an age where she promised herself she'd retire, or just finished earning enough for tuition. or even just some guy with huge $$ made her an exclusive offer she couldn't refuse. i've had some vanish because there was a certain target and they reached it. so she could have been gone tomorrow anyway, and she hasn't exactly earned your return business. find a new friend. lots of great ladies out there. and appreciate the fine memory of the amazing time you had with the '10' VIP lady.
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