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horsebang 1836 reads
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We are always talking about  the good times in this hobby, but like in everything there are good things and bad things,looking back is there any aspect of this hobby that you regret abou it,for example I enjoyed this hobby for many years but today I regret expending all that money that I could have saved and done something with it,instead all of these girls are enjoying it by dressing better than me and traveling to places that I could have travel with all that money that I spend or perhaps I could have my own business,think about it.

JackDunphy487 reads

I have gotten quite good at reading between the lines. You got too clingy and she gave you the walking papers, right? Of course I am.

But while others here will make fun of you, I will help you stand, dust you off, give you a speech to get you back in the game.

It will take awhile, if might involve some meds for a short time, but you can beat this.

Just keep your whore mongering head up and we'll battle this fkker together.

Bros before hos.  

Word.

LOL...literally.
Jack, you're killing me

And to the original poster: dude, you clearly don't have a wife and family  
Think about what that would have cost you, the responsibilities involved...you've gotten off cheap, my friend.

GaGambler299 reads

I think he found himself on hard financial times, asked for a discount for all his "loyal patronage" and found out the hard way "no ticky, no washy"

I don't think clinginess had anything to do with it, I think brokenness is his current problem

JackDunphy248 reads

And if he did try to haggle, he wouldn't have flunked out, he would have graduated Magnum Cum Loudest. LOL

As long as they are truly ho's and not some broad looking to get her hooks on my stuff.

There ain't no free milk in the cow, but I ain't looking to own it, only rent it.

Also, if you were traveling where they are and dressed as they are, you won't have copulation bliss. Now it is time for a change for you. Save up a little money and start lawn mowing business. No honey anymore, but your dreams will be fullfilled. You will be the luckiest person on this earth! Xo

out of a large one.

Sure, it's be nice to have all the money back again, but I'd probably just do it all over again.

No regrets

JackDunphy270 reads

I mean my pop tarts will taste the same in a $20 toaster as they would in any of JLS's high tech contraptions.

And I always comfort myself at night by reminding Jack that no matter what I spent, I spent 25% less than Mr. Fissure, with no candle expenditures.

Senator.Blutarsky306 reads

No regrets at all... Life is meant to be lived... Accept your past without regret, handle your present with confidence and face your future without fear... Now if you'll excuse me, I have new intern to train. 😎

My dad gave me good advoce a long time ago. "No sense in looking up a dead horse's ass!" I suggest you take his advice. There isn't anything you can do about but feel sorry for youself.

Posted By: horsebang
We are always talking about  the good times in this hobby, but like in everything there are good things and bad things,looking back is there any aspect of this hobby that you regret abou it,for example I enjoyed this hobby for many years but today I regret expending all that money that I could have saved and done something with it,instead all of these girls are enjoying it by dressing better than me and traveling to places that I could have travel with all that money that I spend or perhaps I could have my own business,think about it.

..regrets, like worries, are a waste of energy.
Maybe in 30 years I'll regret all of the money that I spent on escorts and strippers, but I doubt it.  
I'll let you know in 30 years! ;)

And I am doing something with it, I'm fucking women who otherwise I'd be invisible to.

Life is good.

As far as the ladies dressing better than me, well even if I were a multi millionaire these ladies would be dressing better than me, I wear business casual clothes, but I shop at K o h l s, so no high end clothes for me. And I'm very happy to contribute to their dressing nice, especially when they dress nicely (or should I say slutty) for me.

As far as traveling, there's no reason you can't travel to those nice places, that is of course unless you hobby beyond your means. If that's the case, then shame on you.

Do what makes you happy, if hobbying doesn't make you happy or you can't afford it don't do it, it really is that simple.

I went through a nasty divorce that turned my life upside down. The hobby gave me something fun to do that made me smile. When I'm done I will have some great memories of ladies I banged that never would have happened in the real world.

bonordonor230 reads

Hobbying has given me the motivation to go out and make more money than I normally would. I'm kinda lazy so I make enough money to get by. I realized that if I want to have sex with incredibly beautiful, young (younger than me) women, I have to make the money to pay for it. So hobbying hasn't altered my lifestyle. As has already been mentioned...Life Is Good.

ThePeopleRule232 reads

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(I won't ask....but your handle makes me wonder if there is a "sheepbang" here.)

I stopped hobbying a couple of years ago.  It's amazing the difference it's made to my bottom line.

Still......I enjoy coming back to TER, and you never know:  Just might spot a hottie here that I have to meet!

NoYellowEnvelope178 reads

I've taken good care of my family, my friends, various charities I believe in, all the taxing entities :( and my future (retirement fund). I have a great career, which has a few more years to go til retirement.  I've traveled many places in this world and would like to see more of the world, in time.

I'm not into having a lot of "stuff."  I'd rather spend my discretionary funds on experiences. And I've had experiences in this so-called hobby, and have met wonderful people, that I'll remember forever.  They've given me a lot of joy over the years.  As that commercial says... that's priceless... to me.

Would you be happy right now if you never spent a cent, but Mr. Willy also never got a warm, wet pussy?

Unless you're getting it elsewhere. If you are, then you should just quit.

Think on it this way. You've wasted your money for years. You still have income. Start now and save what you would have spent on providers in a bond. Ten years down the line, you'll have a huge stack of cash.

There's always a new beginning. Sometimes we need to see what we're missing out on before we are ready to follow through, diligently getting what we feel we've been missing all those years. You're really not that behind. It's a common life lesson, and also a strong motivator to have "missed out".

Now, if you are constantly tortured and miserable because you aren't getting laid at all, then you may need to reevaluate how important the stack of cash is over your personal satisfaction and happiness. Or just spend half of what you did before.

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I don't know about anyone else, but I'm not wearing an expensive outfit and shoes when I go grocery shopping... but then again I could be out of the loop here... lol

for the generally excellent experiences I have bought over the years.  I still enjoy thinking about some of my best experiences and look forward to the new ones I may have while I still can.

tonightoutcall181 reads

I was told regret the things you haven't done but not the thing you have. In the end memories are all that matter, you can't take the cash with you, just don't get crazy with your spending. I have gone up to a few years between appointments because I was using my income for other things but really have rarely regretted an appointment.  
     Life s too short to have regrets.  

Posted By: horsebang
We are always talking about  the good times in this hobby, but like in everything there are good things and bad things,looking back is there any aspect of this hobby that you regret abou it,for example I enjoyed this hobby for many years but today I regret expending all that money that I could have saved and done something with it,instead all of these girls are enjoying it by dressing better than me and traveling to places that I could have travel with all that money that I spend or perhaps I could have my own business,think about it.

My ex was spending waaaaaay more money than I've spent on the hobby

Why don't you take some of that $$$$$ and take 1 girl at time on a trip(like an SD/SB) and every so often switch it up

Therefore, I will have my money for going to movies, bars, on trips, to concerts, or whatever floats my boat.  Life is all about balance...and sex is an important part of the balance.

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