I recently had an experience w/ a provider that was unnerving.  At the conclusion of the session, which included some intense DATY on my part, she casually wiped herself with a dry paper towel and put on her jeans.  On the way out, I saw a guy sitting in a vehicle in her parking lot -- presumably waiting for his appointment time.  I was almost physically sick with the thought that he (or some other guy) was going to see her shortly and might be visiting the same locale I was just at, in the same way....  Needless to say, I'll never see her again, but it raises a question:

Ladies:  what do you consider standard procedure for hygiene between clients?  A shower? A baby wipe?  A cool breeze? A wait of 24 hours?  

Gents:  what do you assume about a provider's hygiene?  Do you ask?  Have you ever had a bad experience or walked out?

Oh, and lest this post be taken the wrong way, I am very aware that hobbyists are frequently the worst offenders on the hygiene score.  I most emphatically do not want to suggest that providers have bad hygiene or that hobbyists are all squeaky clean.  But I would like to see an exchange of views.

Thanks.

Just the thought of being with someone, who just wiped themselves down with just a babywipe, makes me want to hurl (( I am very anal about cleanliness, and I expect the same out of my clientle. I can see why you would be grossed out, too.

Mel

how many times a day can a woman douche? I would be happy to provide a flavored type to be used for my peace of mind and both of our enjoyment.

I hear of women douching after every encounter, which is not a good thing to do lol That can drastically affect her system below, if you know what I mean? I hate to be the "dear abbey" here, so now I am going to just watch the thread grow more and more, and hope for some other woman's input here lol Helllllllllp!

Mel

I will get dressed with the gent and when he leaves take a bath.

That way, I can soak a bit...

Shaye

Almost spit my coffee out laughing at that!

Generally speaking, I assume the ladies I see are responsible enough to realize the necessity for cleanliness and that they practice good hygiene. I've always felt that most providers are probably a lot more dilligent about hygiene than "civilians" because it's integral to their occupation. And for the life of me I can't ever recall a bad experience in that regard. Then again, I suppose I might be on an incredible lucky streak.

that she, enraptured, lost track of the time, and fell 15 minutes behind. To make matters worse, her next client (we're very much presuming) arrived 15 minutes early as traffic was better than he thought and he, in his excitement, drove fast.
She just phoned him on his cell and said she's running a bit behind, hang on a few minutes while she jumps in the shower...

Now, what really makes me happy is to see you back here.  How are you???  (oh, p.s., thanks!)

In a lot of pain; moving slowly..but peeking in here from time to time.
You know I couldn't resist replying to THIS one! LOL!
So sorry I missed you..

Maybe she just did a quick wipe so she could spend the remaining time with you rather than disappear into the shower for 10 minutes. Upon your leaving she probably washed more thoroughly (at least we all hope so).

I don't like to pass judgment on anyone, especially if I don't know all the facts. Perhaps she was in a hurry for her next appointment, for a facial, nail appointment, who knows? Anyway, I can only speak for myself -- cleanliness, cleanliness, cleanliness all the way. If I cannot take a full shower until I get home (because I only see one client during the day), then I will do a sponge bath (cleaning extensively) until I can get into the shower. I love to be clean. I'll even freshen up again when I'm with a friend, even if I've come straight from my house freshly showered.

Hugs,
Ciara

Maybe he WAS the second guy.

Or the 5th.

ME TOO!
I always have to schedule at least an hour between if not more time just to bathe, tiddy up the house a bit and just get things put back into order?
Then again that is just me?
Cheers.......and stay clean! hehe

Kylie

Surely you must know that not *each* and every person follows high standards of hygiene *each* and every time.

When I was a stripper I was always boggled by the client's burning desire to get a lick of my nipple during a lap dance. Didn't they know that the guy before them just did the same thing five minutes before? And five minutes before...and five minutes before...etc.

And that was just a quickly stolen lick during a lap dance. Think about it from the provider's point of view. Even with actual exchange of body fluids aside such as DATY or BBBJ, at the very least some guy spends an hour sucking her nipples, blows a load all over her chest (or butt, or whatever). Why bother taking an entire shower, redoing the hair/makeup, etc when you have another appt in an hour? Another guy is just going to come over, suck on the boobs again, blow his load on them (or butt, or whatever) and leave. Why not save the real scrubdown for when you're done for the day?

Something to think about when seeing high volume providers.

True GFE: No more than one client/day. Intensive scrubbing with antibacterial dial before and after.

this hobby exists largely on the basis of suspension of disbelief.  If hobbyists stopped believing all or most providers were squeaky clean, if hobbyists stopped believing in the "GFE," where would we all be??  It wasn't that it was surprising, it was just a rude taste of reality (pun intended)!

Sometimes it's not that we find something surprising, it's more just sharing thoughts and getting feedback and that's what we do here - bounce things off each other.
(Good points on the licking, sucking, etc.)

What I DID find surprising (and felt nauseous) was that, according to the TER survey, something like 50% only get tested for STD's. That made me want to retire right there.
I still don't know why those 50% don't. Is it fear of doctors? Laziness? Money? I think many feel that as long as condoms are used, there is no need and that, too, is surprising.

I let my dog, Denver, clean me up. He does the trick everytime.











P.S. I'm kidding! I shower or bath after each and every client. They'll never know, because I don't feel comfortable cleaning up on their time. Perhaps she was just putting on jeans, because she had to go out to her car for something/walk the dog/check the mailbox? There have been several times when I'm in a hurry to a dentist/vet/family appointment, and I'll thrown on jeans and run out the door without cleaning up. However, my incall location is not at my home, so chances are I'm running home first to bathe and change. Personally, I don't like baby wipes. Many brands contain alcohol which is harmful to someone like myself who has extremely sensitive skin. I don't douche either. My mother was/is a strong advocate of not douching, so growing up I avoided it. I still avoid douching as an adult. I prefer warm water, a wash cloth, and almond Dr. Bronner's after single client. I would be mortified if I ever read a review of myself that said I smelled.

My SO found it odd that I wanted to have a different docter- just so I can get tested etc w/o causing a ruckus

ROFLMBFAO with you!!

ROFLMBFAO with you!!

So Turk,

I take it you haven't been visiting with some of our traveling ladies visiting us as of late, especially the ones that seem to book back to back, non-stop during their visit....

Something to think about, isn't it.

-- Modified on 2/5/2004 11:15:13 PM

A good reason not to see revolving door providers.  Two or three if spaced well apart clients should be the max for a true GFE.

You hit the nail right on the head!  I will take a babywipe to wipe off the things that don't belong (lube, saliva, etc.), put my sexy robe back on and walk you to the door.  But rest assured the bath water is running as soon as I can get back to the tub!!  Of course, if we finished our time together in the shower, then I rush back to have my Coke and a smile!  I would hope that all ladies have the utmost respect for themselves and their friends that they see to have very high standards of hygiene.  

Jayden