Ladies...we men all understand the delicate art of "fingering", especially during foreplay. But, like DATY, many of us do what we see in porn or think is the right technique and end up hurting more than helping. Please enlighten us on what our fingers should be doing once we cross the pantyline in the heat of passion. What do most men do wrong? How many fingers do you normally like inside of you? Where should we be probing to find your g-spot and what do we do when we get there [assuming you have one]? Is the penetration most important or the clit, with regards to using the fingers?

As always, we know that all women are different, so just tell us what YOU like. And again, guys, please allow the ladies to run the show on this one--it's not that I don't care what you have to say...okay, maybe it is.

I would prefer to have my clit being played with, for I cannot cum with a finger being rammed into me. Other ladies can, I am pretty sure. Just not for me..

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If I'm getting worked up enough I'll position myself so the position is easy for you to finger me. I might even just come out and tell you to put one in me. Start with one and unless I ask never put more than 2. Not to mention if it's fore play you don't want to streach it out (as they do when they get wet an excited as well as penetrated) before intercourse. I'd think a snug vagaina feels better than one thats been fisted (which I personally can't and won't do, I like to stay "snug and do my keigals often!) Also inserting your fingers and wiggking them does better than using them like a battering ram, use the palm of your hand to massage the clit area and your stimulating both areas which worls well for me.

Great question BR.  I've now been fingering women, or not, as they desire, for 35 years.  During that time, I've learned/been taught AT LEAST 50 different ways to do it.  

Many of the methods require strength and coordination.  I have trouble with those, especially applying both at the same time.  Some require speed.  Others a very delicate touch.  Several methods require an additional finger(s) elsewhere, an appliance or my lesser memeber.  

Upon fingering one provider to completion a while back, I was told: "(gasp) how did you learn to (gasp) do that?  I didn't  think (gasp) anyone could do that!"

As *-* says, some women strongly prefer we keep our fingers to ourselves, whereas others would ONLY cum if I fingered them vigorously while they rode me...  If there is a commonality among all my experiences in this regard, it's lost on me.  As I said, I'm at sea.  Excellent question, though, and I hope more ladies provide insight.

... no, I'm not looking for a date on that basis.  I have met civilain woman who really seem to get off on it and others who couldn't stand the idea.  What does it feel like?  Why is it exciting?

You can be into fisting AND be snug too. Its all mussel tone, otherwise contortionists whould look horrible flabby.

and scrub you guys down with bleach. I am surprised that people will not wash their hands before dining at my Y or at In and Out for that matter. Granted my pounce on them once they enter the door and look confused technique (so fun) makes it hard for you to wash up those paws, but a certain sense of decorum predicates you to excuse yourself to the ladies room at some point and sample my lovely antibacterial hand wash. More effective than your finger is my new water filled glass dildo, and honestly, I do offer lessons on where that sacred original gangster spot lies beneath my hood. Word is bond.

And some don't, Like technique, one thing does not work on all women.

Is enough for me! )))))))))))))))))))))  Fingers would only make me lose interest, and not to mention my concentration altogether.