I enjoy giving small gifts to providers when I meet them. I usually spend around $10-20 on either champagne, wine, flowers, dark chocolates, scented candles, etc. It’s a very small tip compared to $300-400 for the hour. I do it because I like to put a smile on their face.
I guess I am used to doing it when I date. Is this common? Do other hobbyists do this?
Hobbyists and Providers: what other gifts do you recommend?
I have found that a small personal gift like that (chocolate, flowers (if incall), wine or even a small toy, are greatly appreciated. I think it puts a more personal touch on the session and seems to get me a better future response. I am interested in the providers viewpoint on this practice.
A gift of any sort always makes a person feel special and shows a lady know you've been anticipating your visit; it's not expected and therefore is a pleasant surprise. Hopefully, she'll have an extra special gift for you as well, if you know what I mean
Chocolates are delicious, and a girl has to watch her figure. Fruits could be one alternative, taste good and are fun to spread upon each other.
Wine, champagne and other libations are intoxicating, and a lady must keep her wits about her.
Flowers are beautiful and fragrant, a gentle gesture which lasts long after you've left and is a pleasant remembrance the morning after.
I was once given a manicure set in a lovely leather pouch, and I remember the gentleman fondly every time I open the case.
Luxurious note papers, linens, or undergarments might be nice.
If you're not sure about her tastes, gift cards to a local store also work well (Victoria's Secret, a candle shop, or even a day spa).
Again, by defition, any gift is unexpected and whatever you choose should be accepted gracefully and with pleasure. Just the gesture of presenting a lady with a gift goes a long way toward building rapport and relationship.
I enjoy bringing Godiva chocolates. I ALWAYS have a thoughful and apropos card in the donation envelope. Often that little well-chosen, heart-felt $2 card is a great ice breaker and pleaser.
Flowers or candles are a very pleasant surprise and always brings a smile to my face....but then you know the saying...diamonds are a girl's best friend!
I will bring a small gift to an escort I am seeing the first time. As someone noted, Godiva chocolates are good for that, and make a nice icebreaker.
When going to AMPs, I'll bring a gift after I have seen a girl once or twice before, to let her know I have enjoyed her company. Usually then, I bring something more personal, based on our conversation in previous visits, like a CD of some music she likes, or her favorite perfume, etc.
Recently, I took my AFT "off-the-clock" to a nice french dinner and then to the House of Blues for a concert.
Things like this help make your sessions better, because you are more friendly and comfortable around each other.
Champagne is always welcome, as are flowers. When a new client turns up with both is unexpected and always very sweet. I love when I client gives me a book (not very sexy, I know but very thoughtful). When that's happened in the past I've always been very touched, it shows we have a certain understanding and they know I'm not a brainless bimbo! lol The book thing only works when you've had previous appointments as then you know the provider's tastes. When you know the provider's size, then lingerie is a sexy and appropriate gift and you know you'll get the benefit of having it modelled for you and peeling it off very soon after
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