Hi genlemen,

Please tell me what does Girl Friend Experience
mean to you. Thank you.

Nikolina.

for an hour while she finishes doing her hair and asking you what you think about twelve different outfits and do they make her look fat, etc.

After that you go shopping and she keeps asking if it's OK for her to try on a different outfit for another hour or two.  Then off to dinner where she orders the most expensive item and only eats two bites of it followed by front row seats at a new show that you had to pay scalped rates for.  Finally you get back to her house and she says that she forgot that she needed to call her mom and that it will just take a second so you wait and two hours later after they have had a shouting match back and forth you sneak out the door and see if there a liquor store still open.

Just fooling there of course.  

GFE means at the least a personable and interested provider, usually French kissing, BJ and FS, but the real difference is that the client gets the feeling (whether true or not) that the provider has a deep interest in them and is not off thinking about what to make for dinner tomorrow, or some other banal subject.

It was not so uncommon thirty years ago when I first entered this hobby to have a provider who took the attitude of: "Here's my body, have fun with it for a few minutes and then leave."  as they mentally checked out.

The quality of the providers I find today is much greater on that score.

It's been said before, but the requisite services to qualify for GFE are DFK, DATY, BBBJ, and FS(covered).  But just as important is your attitude.  Act like your enjoying your time with the guy, be eager to please him, really get into your session.  It's in the review section "I forgot it was a service"

Beyond that and the fact this topic has been discussed and disected hundreds of times, I can only say what it is for me.

It certainly from an acronym standpoint involves, DFKing, BBBJ, and all the positions I would like to do, with in reason of course, with the time alloted (and for me that is 2-hours). But you certainly can have all the above, and it not even come close to GFE. The heart may just not be in it, or on a personal level you may not be clicking. But even then the professional provider can let you have your way, jut not GFE.

It has for me always been the way a woman can sense how wild, slow, fast, reserved she needs to be based on her sensory of you. Some just know how to make it happen with each partner, it's a sixth sense I guess. When you find them, you want to see them over and over. As another said, we forget its a service. Having said all that, please go back to the graphic. Thank you.

. . . I expect her to kick me out the door a few times.

Thanks everyone for your humorous definitions.
Finally, I have summed them up as BBBJ,DATY,DFK +
goood attitude. I think that I forgot that it was
a service myself.

Nikolina.

no actually to me GFE means any or all of these:
affectionate attitude
kissing
cuddling
BBBJ
DATY
multiple cups
not strict about time
massage or lots of touching
shower together or jacuzzi
and a more friendly experience rather than just mechanically going about your business

GFE, like beauty, is in the eye of the beholder but most guys agree it's all the benefits of a girlfriend with none of the hassles.

Attitude is everything to me and I'm only interested in GFE providers.

I agree with Smarty...YMMV.

IMHO GFE is based on chemistry and should not be expected in it's entirey.
Yes, there are some that provides the "general" meaning of GFE but the experience isn't a pleasent one, but more a waste of time where one feels ROB'd.

Perhaps a Silly Question: What if a provider is HOTT, RIPE, and ready for the pick'n. Running on Full throttle GFE mode but the guest is not interested---should the guest be called a loser?

Then again...I'm still a little wet behind the ears...and other places too

I can relate to that as well.  Back in the 70's, there was no TER, internet, etc.  You just knew where to go (bar, not street corner) to find what you wanted.  A f*&k & a suck was common fare for less than $.  No GFE anywhere then.

Aside from the fact that with a figure such as yours most clients will WISH you were their girlfriend, it really is going to depend in large part on the hobbyist.  Some guys want lots of talking and hugging, others just want to feel unrushed, and yet others want all the services others mentioned.  If I could offer $.02, whatever services you offer, just be there with the person you are accompanying--no cell phones, no staring at the clock or the ceiling, and for God's sake no mention of other clients/boyfriends.  And if you're not into it, don't bother trying to fake it--any hobbyist with more than a couple of reviews will know in a heartbeat when a provider is OVERacting.