It seems that there are more and more providers only offering "one-cup" sessions, even though they have 1 or 2 hour minimums (at rather high rates I might add).

Before I get started here, I realize that there are some hobbysts that are only interested in one-cup services.  That's fine if you expect nothing more and know the rules up front.

If the provider is not able to handle more than a "one-cup" session, shouldn't that be stated up front?  At least this way, someone can assess the damages (costs) and determine if they are interested in more than the "one-cup" session up front.  

This seems to be happening more with agency providers than independants.  My experience has been that independants are more than happy to accomodate more than "one-cup" if you are up for it.  Heck, Melinda in Boston almost REQUIRES a hobbyst to give up at least two-cups per visit (definitely my kind of woman!).

I wonder if it is time to boycott providers that pull this kind of crap?  Hey, I understand a provider not wanting to be "banged" into the next day in the matter of an hour, but if they are suppose to be there for 1-2 hours anyway, isn't the common desire for more than "one-cup" understandable/acceptable?

Just my opinion and I could be wrong.
Loarthan

-- Modified on 7/23/2004 9:06:01 AM

-- Modified on 7/23/2004 9:06:35 AM

-- Modified on 7/23/2004 9:08:18 AM

I think that whatever services or how the business is run is up to each individual provider.  For myself, I feel like you are paying for my time and companionship and however you choose to spend that time is your call.  Some like a cup immediately and just snuggle afterwards, others like to get to know each other and then have a cup to go, and others like to take advantage of the free refills
I wouldn't be so hard on providers who don't say how many cups are offered because I'm sure there is concern about advertising how many cups are available as being misunderstood by certain individuals (especially, LE, they just don't get the cup thing and make it out to be something more than it is)
I think the main thing is to be realistic about yourself.  If you are wanting two cups with your lady friend, but you take time to recover between, you should plan accordingly.  Some end up staying over their time chit chatting and then want a round two when they are already 20 minutes over which puts us ladies in a difficult position and it's unfair.  Which brings me to another topic, but I'll start that on a new thread

Loarthan, I am going to spank your booty! It's Melanie now, silly

and when men come to see me, I actually expect them to take more than 2 cups-the whole caraffe!!!


Luv,

Mel
http://www.voluptuousblackbeauty.com/

I always take a to-go bag.

I won't see them.

You are free to do what you want.

Great point...and here's another question. If I do happen to see a lady that I would like to meet, and she does work for an agency, is there any way that I can "discreetly" ask about the number of cups without raising any flags (LE or just plain wacko) on their part?

For certain reasons, I'm a two-cup kind of guy. A one-and-done lady for me is not a wise use of my time and resources...I might as well just go to an AMP and be done with it.

Of couse, one does the necessary research, but sometimes the reviews are mixed. Sometimes one, sometimes multiple cups. This could be due to one of two things, either the gentlemen was a one-and-done kind of guy or the lady in question doesn't always offer multiple-cups.

I used to offer a second cup....

There were times where my guest would get embarrased and say he couldn't possibly be able to.  Then I would see them look down to the floor ashamed like they are less of a man.  It really seemed to damage their ego.  I would really feel like shit like wow this guy thinks I want him to be superman and he can't do it.  

Then there were the ones who would say "maybe 20 years ago I could, but I just don't have it like that anymore."  And he too would look sad like he's not superman anymore.  Makes me feel horrable.  I want everyone to feel like they are superman!!!

I make it VERY clear in my site that if you don't tell me what you want I can't possibly know.  If you want more....just let the girl know!  I'm sure she would be happy to if you just ask.  

A closed mouth never gets fed....ASK!

~Shayla

the amount of time I expect. Sometimes I can get 2 cups in an hour but I usually go for at least 2 hour appointments so getting 2, possibly even 3 cups all depends on how I am feeling that day and the ladies ability to keep it up. The atmosphere and our physical attraction are also BIG motivators in the multi cup encounter.

I am also a slow steady type of guy so the exertion and stress on the genitalia is much lower.  

And I hope I never feel like this guy.

Since when did it become buy one get one free?
this is a business just like any other.it isn't burger king.
this isn't fair to the ladies. These ladies all ready but in alot of time for us. If a person whats another cup pay for it.
If you don't what to do that i suggest you drive down you nearest strip and find one of them crack out ladies they love to give two cups for the price of one hell they let you have it for a hit. What I'm really say is quit being cheap and quit trying to take advantage. They have a life and bills to pay too.
                              laters,
                            Halfbreed503

A first or second cup doesn't have to be FS to be very enjoyable.

I just like to know that it is available if I want.

Some escorts are say you are done after one.

... last time I looked, I was paying for time, not the number of events in that time.

Hey, if you are happy with one pop, great.  I happen to enjoy more than one in an hour, so I advocate making that the standard.

Vanilla & Chocolate HalfBreed503, that's why they make both.  I am just advocating one over the other.

People, I've said it before but I'll say it again...its about fairness.

You guys out there who start brewing your second cup at 58 minutes into the only hour you'll pay for and take 20 minutes to pop are taking advantage of the lady's time.  If you want to play that game, 1) ask her if she has more time (leave enough time to clean up, get dressed, and hugs/goodbyes), and 2) pay her for that time!!

Ladies, as has already been pointed out, the fee is for time, not pops.  I don't think I've ever tried to go for multiples in an hour session just because I don't think I could but if there was a reasonable amount of time left and I wanted to, that's my choice.  If I was with a 2-hour minimum provider and popped 30 minutes in and she started packing up, I'd be pissed.  If she refused additional attempts, I would sit her down and make her spend the next 90 minutes watching Gilligan's Island reruns or something jacked up like that.

-beelzebub

P.S. Just so the ladies understand why there is greediness about pops, and I'm speaking for myself, after my first I'm thinking "I'm not gonna get some for another week or two (or more), I gotta get some more of that now!".  Like you, we go to a fair amount of trouble to prepare for the meeting so we want to get the most out of it.  Its not just the money either.

second time around ... 2 cups is the norm. I guess there's also some tension and stress during the first meeting.

If you guys want multiple pops and GFE find a wife.  WHEN IN THE HISTORY OF THIS SERVICE WERE YOU ABLE TO GET MORE THAN ONE CUP.  And someone said that if they want a second pop it's their RIGHT?  Wow....she has no say in it?  She HAS to do it for you?  So you pay her to OWN her for that time and can do whatever the f**k you want to her?  Most of you ain't got no kind of respect for women.  
WTF
HALFBREED503

You are soooo wrong halfbreed!  I cant speak for all hobbyists, but I'll bet a good majority have just made a mental note to never come see you, if you are a provider. I always make sure I know that a provider offers multiple cups BEFORE I see her. If you think one cup is equal to $$$ or $$$.5 you are crazy. Any provider that refuses to give an hour's effort for an hour's pay, doesn't deserve the business. Some guy's are happy with one cup and are satisfied to talk or cuddle the rest of the time and that is fine, as long as they get what they paid for. If you disagree with that, you have no business being in this business. If you are a street-walker instead of an escort, then you are not up to speed with what this forum is about. Get a clue

Bada Bing Baby and get some respect for clients why dont ya

Perhaps another reason why a providers do things differently depends on how they look at it?  Some see it as selling a product.  If you by a software package for $$$, you get one software package, not all you take off the shelves.  Others probably see it as a service industry and paid hourly for their services.  Not saying one is right or wrong, just trying to think of ways to understand

GET A LIFE...UNLIKE YOU  I DON'T HAVE TO PAY TO SPEND TIME WITH A PROVIDER..I GOT PLENTY OF GAME..NO I'M NOT A PROVIDER.I ALSO THINK THAT ALL THESE LADIES SHOULD DUMP ALL INTER NET CLIENTS. BECAUSE YEARS AGO WE DIDN'T HAVE COMPUTER AND THE PROVIDERS STILL MADE A LIVING.JUST BECAUSE YOU HAVE A COMPUTER DOESN'T MAKE YOU SOME HIGH CLASS SOMEBODY.I DON'T EVEN UNDERSTAND WHY THESE PROVIDERS EVEN GIVE YOU GUYS THE TIME OF DAY...THIS GFE THANG JUST TURNS MY STOMACH..THEY ONLY DO IT FOR A GOOD REVEIW..COME ON DO YOU THINK THEY REALLY WANT TO? GET WITH.
              BADA BING BADA BANG..SILLY RABBITS TRICKS ARE FOR KIDS.. HALFBREED503

You dont know the first thing about me, and if you did, you'd shut your mouth! Why do I just know you are some kid with a modem trying to drum up some trouble. I never said having a computer made anyone "high class", reading is a skill. "GFE" is a phrase that describes treatment during an appointment, just because you dont desire it doesn't mean the rest of us feel that way. Understand? DFK, BBBJ,DATY,multi-pops=GFE
(it varies slightly)  
I have been married for many years, so you are wrong about my "game" LOL
What the hell do you care if I or anyone else gets that treatment? What the hell does it matter to you and how does it damage your warped little universe? Go get what YOU want and the rest of US will get what WE want and nobody will begrudge you getting no kisses or extra pops, promise! LMAO
By the way, providers provide a GFE for the MONEY!!! or a PSE or whatever the hell you agree to with her. Its up to you and HER to decide. Yes I realize you know this, just as you realize I know all about the hobby I partake of, it's really not brain surgery or rocket science and it doesn't take someone like you to explain the simple details to me or anyone else that can wipe their own ass!  Get over yourself