I do if it's someone I've seen a few times or more. I do longer appointments where I end up getting to know the girl really well.

I often buy 1 rose for less than $5.

I like to do longer sessions where I get to know the girl really well.

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If you know the lady well enough, you'll know when it's appropriate...

for giving the gift. Those are the conditions the realtionship is built upon... and I already paid.

Depends on how busy I am before a session, also my mood and if I think there's potential to see her again.  

Never anything big but a bottle of wine to share if later in the day or something small like K-cups for coffee.
They always seem appreciated/

As the girl i like pay attention to what she talks about and what hobbies shes into and bring a few things like that, as well as wine, i love to make up goodie bags....huddy says i have more fun shopping for our providers than i do him!!!! Lol  

'The' gift is always in the 100s, or way beyond. And that goes for ladies I've never even met before. Oh wait! You mean bring them a gift on top of 'the' gift. Well, that depends on the connection. Sometimes I'll connect with a lady even before the first session, and I'll bring a gift. Sometimes it'll happen later in the connection. It all depends on the conversations. I'll try to pay attention, and bring gifts related to what we talk about. Kind of like being married. The gifts are always some small, but thoughtful appreciation of said connection

Always, usually something inexpensive but for special occasions with my ATF the gift may be pricey.

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For example, the other day I was strolling along with a provider and a really nice Ferrari passed by.  She remarked how much she'd love to have a car like that.  So, I caught up to the car at a stop light, went over to the driver and opened up the door, dragged the driver out, and put the gal in the car.

for providers I've seen before, but it's usually small stuff, thigh highs, toys, etc. I get one provider a $90 bottle of Single Malt, but it was a Xmas/thank you gift for her being just-one-hell-of-a-good-person.

Do you continue paying a fee upon your visit?...

Maybe wine or champagne if she likee. Even brought Tequila once. An what girl can't resist chocolate or better yet chocolate covered strawberries. Once I was shopping an found paper plates with her nickname on them. She loved them. Just little thoughtful things.  

Yes, I've brought gifts, food, cigs and other stuff to a date with my ATF.  I remember when she asked me to pick up cigs even though she has been doing a great job cutting back.  I jokingly told her it would cost her (15min of extra time, lol) but I  
picked them up anyways.  I've also brought her some food, toiletries, more thoughtful little gifts and then even little fun things to enhance our date (those edible gummy cock rings, etc are fun).

Nope, doesn't make sense.

I see girls for lengthy sessions, typically 4 hours, sometimes longer. A client doesn't gift a service in my world.

At one point I did stuff gift cards into the envelope.  But eventually I asked myself what was the point, as yes, I'm the client.  Gifts seem to confuse the business model that is drilled into a monger's head, and if people want to look at the hobby as a series of business transactions then the more traditional approach is for the business to give the really good customer the benefit of the gifts.

..she was in heaven.

No no, not a fee. It's 'the' gift. A gentleman always tells himself it's 'a' gift so he can feel it's 'real'.  

To be with and to trust her with your deeper fantasies and needs?   How many of women feel as they would like gave HIM present? It os so much fun to think what kind present he would enjoy  

It is my impression that the majority of johns here give gifts to make THEM feel better about themselves, not for the gals benefit. P4p has fked with a lot of guys heads and they have totally reversed the client/business dynamic.

These are wonderful gifts that I get to share with my gal pals.  The gals don't like the excessive calories...well, some of them anyhow    

That way, it feels more like a real date.  In other words, the gift helps them trick themselves into believing the whole GFE thing.
When I was new I used to bring something small.  A book, a bottle of wine, etc.   But no more.  If you're gifting her you might just be a ...........

That Caitlyn cut it off! LOL

I bring wine every once in a while, but of course I drink at least two thirds of it myself. I guess it's more of a gift to myself if we are going to be completely honest about it.

seriously... not to be pissy, but this conversation gets me thinking: for those of you who don't give your clients gifts yet put up a wishlist for yourself, why is that?  

But the maids appreciate the chocolate and wine.  So do their SOs.

I will "gift" them with a bit more time...AT MY SUGGESTION and I end the extra time when I am done. If they begin to expect it, I will sit them down and let them know that it is a form of appreciation and not part of the regular service and if they don't get it, they then become "difficult" johns and are dismissed.

I like that and I agree as time is the one thing we can both give that's personal and comparable.   That's the best gift of all in my opinion.

You claim you only do 60 minutes...and then usher the trick out.

but having been one of the SO's you are talking about, I can say that there were many of times MY gf told me not to bother to stop at the store to pick up wine for the evening as she had "plenty" left over from her day at work.

Each provider (separately) bought me a tie as a surprise gift. One tie was either Ferragamo or Hermes; had a pattern with a special meaning to us; it was beautiful. The other tie was not a name brand and, frankly, was ugly. That was a particular disappointment given her civilian job in the high fashion industry. Once I lost touch with the providers, I lost touch with the ties.

... a provider can give a client, IMO. I never expect it and am grateful when it's offered.  

I have a regular that lives right around the corner of a MacDonalds. I always stop there to take a last minute piss. While I'm there,Ill pick up a MacDouble/no onions for her, she loves that shit...Does that count???

When we hit it off and I see her more than once.

We love it when you see us more than once.
xoxo

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It was years ago, but so well made that I still wear it and get compliments on it.  You gals have excellent taste, generally speaking.

You don't give a gift to make someone happy, though that is hopefully one outcome of doing so.

and I LOVE your handle...I've seen Archer all the way through at least twice

Here is what one former provider who is now very near and dear to me told me about them:

She said she is hungry, and I was at a nearby gas station before going to see her

On occasion I will bring a gift (wine, perfume . . . ) to my favorite UTR friend.  I have seen her for 3 hour visits every 2-3 weeks or so for a couple of years.  I also tip well.

Roses, wine, perfume, lingerie. Got my ATF a pair of heels for Xmas once. Just something to show my appreciation. My ATF actually bought me roses on one of our sessions. Very sweet. I think it adds something to the experience. ~~~~Rob