Is it me or is it high end providers?  I am relatively new to the hobby and just started exploring the area of high end providers as I have the means to do so.  The first time was easy. E-mail sent, screened and met on time one of the hottest babes I have ever had the pleasure to pleasure myself with.

Then, I try some other high ends in Phoenix.  Including the original.  Cancelations, no shows, etc.  So as an experiment, I book three different high end babes at the same time and some location.  I was planning on choosing the first to show and pay the rest their rate to go away.  One cancelled two weeks prior (fair enough), another cancelled about 45 minutes prior (unfair) the other didn't even show, AFTER she sent me a message stating she was ten minutes away.

WTF?!!!  Any input?

Sorry, it just makes no sense. "High end" means has a good reputation too and the pattern you described doesn't fit that. I don't know the Phoenix scene, but in most areas it's tough now and good clients don't get NCNS and other stuff. Could you be on the naughty list?

Not from BP.  All three I listed in the original post are on this site and P411.  the first one repeated and whitelisted.  maybe I did piss someone off in that town I don't know.  Only happens there and it doesn't happen all the time but when it does its frustrating.  Arranging schedule to end up disappointed.  

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If she's Doe A Deer and Female Deer and you consider yourself Ray, the guy that wants to fuck her ass,
then in my horny opinion, the simplest and most effective way to become Ray is to cough up some additional incentive for the flaky bitch... (ie: benjamins).  But that won't fix her flaky nature since it doesn't get to the root cause of it.

Just my opinion, so feel free to take it with a grain of NaCl.

However, I too agree with the above poster. Me thinks you are shopping on BP or craigslist? I haven't noticed $1000+ an hour ladies flaking as much as you make it sound like.  A tiny fraction prolly do, but that's a significant money per hour for them to walk away from. lol

Keep in mind that your mere 3 experiences do not make a trend "what so ever"... It's probably just a statistical fluctuation at this point.
 
Try seeing more high end providers and see if you still think the same.

I responded to the asumption that these are CL or BP providers but it hasn't appeared yet.  These are highly reviewed women from this sight and another reputable sight embraced by this one.  

Not three experiences.  Five times all together.  The post explained an experiment.  I booked three for the same time and same place.  NONE showed.  I requested maximum benefits but I will offer better incentive in the future.  Seems like a good suggestion however, talking turkey (even though screening is done) may send up a LE flag to any provider who knows what they are doing.  I will experiment with it though.

For some ridiculous reeason providers seem to think high-end means some flashy website and professional glamor shots and not their actions and behavior. Stick with it and you will figure it out. It takes little time.

knew what you were up to and were just fucking with you and not in a good way.

Here's what passes for high end & 9/9 on this board!

If you don't believe me.... look at the "girls" the top posters on this board see.

Some of the top posters prefer to get down with girls like this...

Unfortunately I think that your problme is not uncommon in this business.  I have experienced it before and it doesn't seem to change regardless of doing research before booking.

Lifestyles is someone else's handle so I cannot use it, dork.

I have no comment to that,
other than ROFLMAO

because I am lucky to see even 2 guys a week in my local area with my screening and schedule constraints, but many women do not have this problem. Even with higher rates they can still see 8-10 guys a week, leaving them not too worried about replacing an appt. In 3 years I have had to cancel TWICE, and in both cases extra time was given as a courtesy..wish I could say the same for guys who cancel and give nothing in return.

There is no sure fire way to avoid this I am afraid. Even with tons of reviews, you simply can't predict what a lady will do in any given situation. My advice is to be sure and post a ncns alert or review on every board that will allow it. Get the word out.

Re: Here's what passes for high end & 9/9 on this board!

I have definetly noticed an increase of ladies, that IMHO, are not what your "Upper End" hobbyist are looking for!!  If ya know what i mean?? Not a put-down, just the truth!!

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From what I can tell, many ladies use the term "high end" to describe themselves. Who wouldn't want to be described with words that connote "I'm the best and I can charge higher prices because I am so awesome"... but wait! Just because she describes herself that way, or charges the higher rates does not mean she is good at keeping appointments. As you are finding out, usual good business practices don't necessarily apply here in Hobby-ville.

I'm sure you always check her reviews and any other comments available. It takes a bit of digging to tease out the not so pleasant details. I'm with the woman on this thread who says to post those no-shows on the boards for all to see. If she has a legit reason for a no-show ("The dog ate my homework??!) then she can rebut. We are our own "Better Business Bureau", after all.

Did you ever consider the fact that you booked 3 "high-end" providers, all from the same area, all for the same time & place, & in their checking of references, came across the fact that you booked all three of them?? I'm giving them the benefit of the doubt, but they probably found out they were all booked for the same date/time, hence the cancellations, etc.

could you be doing something to scare them? I'm not meaning to say you have some kind of character flaw or there's something wrong with you. But....if it keeps happening to you maybe you are saying something in email or via phone that is scaring the ladies away? I never cancel unless I'm sick. Reasons to make me say no (I may cancel but I will say exactly why) to an appt are vulgar conversation or rate discussion in email or via phone before we have even met. Pushy or domineering behavior will also make me cancel, as well as being manipulative.

If you can think of something that might be putting the ladies off- try avoiding it and see if your luck changes. Of course, there are many flakes in this biz too so it might not be you at all.

Food for thought....

Veronica Sweets

One of them whitelisted so I assume I didn't scare or bother her in any way.  she actually did give me a heads up on the cancellation.  And, it only happenss in Phx.  Not in any other town.  So I assume my behavior isn't the issue.  My feeling is they set up dates and cancel because the provider's more regualr hobbiest swoop in and fill that slot.  Which I can understand.  if they have a regular they see they should cancel non regulars but at least tell a person.  Anyway, I was just lookin for input.  I have a received a pluthora of input, mostly worthless.  I don't know how you put up with us!!!!!

You're a dick.  Only people responding to your post are other whiners and creeps, or providers gently placating your cranky ass.  No show once = move on.  No show across the board = You're game is off.  It's you.  Who else goes through the elaborate scenario you present?

She has pretty nice socks!!!  ( Yikes )

I would say London fits the description of ladies we all like to see. IMHO    WOW!!

Well maybe all that sun in Phx gets to the ladies Sorry it's happening to you I personally would never cancel because I had a better offer or because I had a regular call. There should be some kind of tally for NCNS or cancellations so people can tell who's flaky and who's not.

I wish you luck with your next meeting! I'm coming to Tucson next week and I promise not to stand you up, but you would be my only boy toy during my stay as I'm only taking on one date while on my vacation That's cancel proof- unless I get sick.

Kisses,

V.

Hmmm, "only people responding are other whiners and creeps, or providers gently placating your cranky ass". May I be so bold as to point out the fact that you, my friend, responded to this post. So which are you?  Are you a whiner?  Think not, your post is entirely too arrogant.  Are you a provider? Doubtful. I guess that kind of narrows it down.

I tried to post "no-show" reviews twice but was not allowed to do so, they were rejected precisely because they were "no-show" reviews...