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I do not keep any records and have a system of giving a member number to "armature photographers" who hire me to model for them.
I haven't been giving member numbers lately and when a private companion sends me a picture of a gentlemen asking for a reference I don't even remember him or maybe he lied about meeting me.He should have messaged me first to let me know he was going to use me as a reference. I actually am not comfortable giving out any info or having my business blabbed all over the country I don't go around telling ANYONE EVER who my clients are. I do think that if ladies are doing this for safety then I will give out ID numbers and give references.But only if the request is worded to my satisfaction for discretion. I do verify on Date-Check ,but only if I remember who they are. I have had so many guys that I definitely did NOT see ask me to verify them.
I want to help ladies stay safe but getting emails with some guys picture out of the blue who says he saw me makes me uncomfortable. It makess me feel exposed.
I am going to update my site with this system so guys and girls can be safe.

When I want a lady to be a reference for me I write and ask her if she is willing. By asking I am giving her permission to talk to a specific provider.
 Maybe the other systems are better. Once one is known in the area and on the boards it gets easier.
 I see screening as mostly for the ladies' protection but a bit for me as well. If she checks references then I know she is a professional and runs her business like one.
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